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No 2-3s are getting married and having children with legitimate 7,8,9s.
Exactly.
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No 2-3s are getting married and having children with legitimate 7,8,9s.
You never think that the "beauty" and "ugly" you are saying is largely cultural influenced ? Maybe the simmetry thing not that much... but all other traits...I never said hot people don't or can't have problems. I responded to her original statement "It's a lot easier being ugly than beautiful, trust me, I'm a model" because it was factually not true. She was the one who used the term "ugly." Notice that? You could turn her statement around on her and say "ugly people have problems too." This has somehow turned into a feminist thread when that wasn't what the OP was asking about. Everything I said about people and their preferences on facial symmetry is factually true. Nature/God/evolution, whatever you want to call it, doesn't care about someones individual feelings and emotions about the harsh reality of the way people view beauty. Go to the mall and look at the line of about 200 people, mostly women/girls, who are there to see the Victoris'a Secret models who are there singing autographs and taking pictures. Those people wouldn't be interested in taking pictures and standling in line for hours to see "ugly" people. They want to see them precisely because of how good looking they are. Look at shows like Americas Next Top Model and the things that are said and the things they do. Look at history. Look at the bust of Nefertiti of Egypt. Look at all the great lengths people go through to look more physically attractive, both genders. As I said, most people are 5's which means average, not ugly, so naturally when there is someone that's getting close to an 8.5 to 10, average people find it a novelty. There's a reason why "Brad Pitt" is a go to name when taking about a "good looking guy." There's a reason why many women post pictures of Audrey Hepburn all over their social media, precisely because of her face. Women are obsessed with Audrey Hepburn. There's a reason why people are obsessed with Justin Bieber, because of his face. But an important thing to remember here is that those kind of good looking people are so rare in the general public. So the natural mating that most people do will be will people who are of equal attractiveness as them. But the fact that people dream of the 10's says something.
You never think that the "beauty" and "ugly" you are saying is largely cultural influenced ? Maybe the simmetry thing not that much... but all other traits...
No. Blaming "the media" or "society" is what liberals do. This is how people are naturally. No one is forcing people to view it this way. People who say it's being "forced" are just jealous SJW's.
These would more accurately be categorized as fashion trends than beauty standards.I think that it changes a lot.
Before : very tanned people were not considered beauty because only farmers and that were tanned.
Now : not tanned people is considered sick or working long hours in offices, not sexy.
Before : very skinny people were not considered beauty because only poor and sick people were skinny.
Now : Only a certain body size is considered beauty, which tends to be skinny. Look at top models and stuff like that.
In a mediterranean country : a blonde is considered exotic, thus giving it more value
In a scandinavian country : everyone is blonde, is boring
And the list can go on and on... You get the idea.
I think you should completely forget about it and go on with your life. Do whatever you like. Follow what you want. That is much more important than being narcissistic and being driven by your ego and cultural beauty standards.
Beimg spontaneous and true to yourself is more important specially FOR YOU.
But of course if what you want is going to the club and shag top models...then yes, by all means follow the advice other members gave you. You can go for plastic surgery as well. And don't forget to enter into the rat race to become rich, nothing attracts more pusypusy than a ferrari.
People look at all kinds of things. At some point you have to realise that it doesn't matter and let it go. Them looking at you has no effect on what you can actually do with your life.What if people look (*stare*) at me because of how disgusting I look? How do i cope with that? This isn't in my head---it's simply a matter of fact.
People look at all kinds of things. At some point you have to realise that it doesn't matter and let it go. Them looking at you has no effect on what you can actually do with your life.
Anecdote time. When I first noticed I was going bald I used to think everyone knew and could see and was looking at me. It bothered me. But after awhile I realised that if these people didn't know me then all I was to them was another dude on the street. Their thoughts and regard for me stopped there, once I had passed by anything that went through their mind was also gone. The only people who really notice (as in pick out from a crowd) balding people are other balding people. The only people who notice ugly people are other ugly people. But they are far more ugly because its on the inside as well.
Ditto. genauIt also depends on what you're after. I'm attractive and am uncomfortable getting too much attention for it. I would feel very cheap just going around seeing what I can get from people.
Now what I've really always wanted is a decent job. No matter how good of a job I do I can never get promoted. The last job I left I heard that people said that I was going to get married and not have to work anymore. I wasn't even in a relationship at the time. It was very hurtful. They had already passed me up for several promotions, but had "seriously considered" me. When I started looking and found something else, the GM said they all knew I was going to leave. Maybe it's because I look very young but I can't ever get anyone to take me seriously. Also, I don't act like your typical attractive person. I'm very goofy and people always say I'm weird, so it's not that I have a stuck-up brain dead attitude.
Unsolicited advice warning :)It also depends on what you're after. I'm attractive and am uncomfortable getting too much attention for it. I would feel very cheap just going around seeing what I can get from people.
Now what I've really always wanted is a decent job. No matter how good of a job I do I can never get promoted. The last job I left I heard that people said that I was going to get married and not have to work anymore. I wasn't even in a relationship at the time. It was very hurtful. They had already passed me up for several promotions, but had "seriously considered" me. When I started looking and found something else, the GM said they all knew I was going to leave. Maybe it's because I look very young but I can't ever get anyone to take me seriously. Also, I don't act like your typical attractive person. I'm very goofy and people always say I'm weird, so it's not that I have a stuck-up brain dead attitude.
Try to laugh out loud about the situation as if you were watching it on a film. Extremely therapeutic.What if people look (*stare*) at me because of how disgusting I look? How do i cope with that? This isn't in my head---it's simply a matter of fact.
This really says it all. Agree 100%.
Men who are very focused on their own appearance (having 6 pack abs, fancy clothes, tattoos, jewelry etc.) tend to have a feminine energy and attract masculine women.
If/when the man evolves into a mature masculinity his focus is less on himself and more on actions/doing. Taking care of OTHERS. This is what a feminine woman is attracted to... looks are far from the top of her list.
In contrast, men choose women with their eyes. The attraction is either there or it isn't. Although that doesn't mean every woman has to aspire to be a supermodel. Every man has his own taste, and they are attracted to our comfort, vulnerability and self-care. It's not just her looks but also the woman's essence.