If you live in a town where good aikido is practiced, I have seen phenomenal transformation in young men your age. Truly startling before and after every time.I know this forum may not seem suitable, but you guys seem like intellectual people. Really the title says it all-how does one cope with being ugly knowing they are going to be looked down upon and disrespected by a lot of society?
I've read up on ray's stuff on learned helplessness--not really what I'm looking for though.
Just thought i'd ask.