How to turn straight

[Ascodel]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?
Also my voice is high pitched and round face, small bone structure.
For many years i thought i was asexual.
Again, i don t want it, if viagra forever is my solution then be it. My feelings are just and only for girls but not sexual and after i m not horny guys are grooss, i don t like anything about guys just the feeling of dominance.
Blowjob dominance or pussylicking dominance i love it, but again i get hard at gay porn not to much at straight.
And i can t get hard without stimulation.

 

[Razvan]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?

100 preg + 5mg dhea,nicotine and vitamin E for inhibiting aromatase. No pufa. Lots of carbs. You act like that because you are in a not good situation hormone wise, if you get healthier you will become straight.

 

[-Luke-]

When you started watching porn, did you watch gay porn from the beginning?

This might still be a controversial topic, but I think it's likely that porn is the problem here. Usually heavy porn users start with "normal" porn, until their brain gets desensitized. When this happens you need new genres or more of the old in order to get aroused. Some users escalate to gay porn (even though they are straight) or straight porn (even though they are gay). It's not about liking, it's about what the desensitized brain needs.

Stop watching porn alltogether and see what happens. But don't expect results right away.

I think there's a good chance that you actually are straight and just f*cked up your brain over the years.

 

[Ascodel]

When you started watching porn, did you watch gay porn from the beginning?

This might still be a controversial topic, but I think it's likely that porn is the problem here. Usually heavy porn users start with "normal" porn, until their brain gets desensitized. When this happens you need new genres or more of the old in order to get aroused. Some users escalate to gay porn (even though they are straight) or straight porn (even though they are gay). It's not about liking, it's about what the desensitized brain needs.

Stop watching porn alltogether and see what happens. But don't expect results right away.

I think there's a good chance that you actually are straight and just f*cked up your brain over the years.

I think i started with lesbian porn lol, a granny and a young one.
Next i was into some zoophilia vids and reading fantasy thinking about girls describing they sucking **** and thinking about me in their role
But never feel sexual atraction to girls or guys in real life. I really want to feel something, but about girls of course. Because all i feel is the feeling of love nothing sexual and is destroying me.
I m athletic and a boxer, i m also physically different. I have a small head, small bone structure and not a masculine voice or mannerim.

 

[MrGilbert]

Stop the porn, optimize your hormones & eat liver

 

[OccamzRazer]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?
Also my voice is high pitched and round face, small bone structure.
For many years i thought i was asexual.
Again, i don t want it, if viagra forever is my solution then be it. My feelings are just and only for girls but not sexual and after i m not horny guys are grooss, i don t like anything about guys just the feeling of dominance.
Blowjob dominance or pussylicking dominance i love it, but again i get hard at gay porn not to much at straight.
And i can t get hard without stimulation.

Some say porn is the problem...others, like Danny Roddy, have said it's a symptom of metabolic/hormonal problems.

What if it's both?

Either way, stop watching it for a month and see how you feel. I bet you'll feel better. Even better, stop using your phone/computer for entertainment for a month. I bet you'll feel way better.

For whatever it's worth, I was much more bisexual at age 16 than I am today, 10 years later. And I was eating way too much PUFA at that time - a jar of Nutella every few days lol. Pretty much fully straight now.

 

[meatbag]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?
Also my voice is high pitched and round face, small bone structure.
For many years i thought i was asexual.
Again, i don t want it, if viagra forever is my solution then be it. My feelings are just and only for girls but not sexual and after i m not horny guys are grooss, i don t like anything about guys just the feeling of dominance.
Blowjob dominance or pussylicking dominance i love it, but again i get hard at gay porn not to much at straight.
And i can t get hard without stimulation.

Androsterone-etiocholanolone ratios in male homosexuals​

Androsterone-etiocholanolone ratios in male homosexuals - PubMed

Analyses of 24-hour specimens of urine from healthy adult males for androsterone and etiocholanolone produced values which, when calculated as discriminant scores, discriminated between heterosexual and exclusively homosexual individuals. This confirms a previous study.No significant differences were found between heterosexuals and homosexuals in parental ages, secondary sex characteristics, genitalia, anthropometry, 17-ketosteroids, and 17-ketogenic steroids.A significant difference was found between the heterosexual group and homosexual group in the number of homosexual relatives in the immediate and extended families.
"Higher than 1 = heterosexual, and less than 1 = homosexual."-haidut
"Serotonin is known to lower that ratio, so if the sexual orientation does indeed depend on that ratio anything that opposes serotonin should make a person less interested in the same sex."
"Sexual preferences are very malleable and depend mostly on steroids and neurotransmitters. Subsequent studies have confirmed ratios of DHT/estradiol, and even activity of the enzyme 17,20-lyase as involved in determining heterosexual or homosexual behavior." -Androsterone - Liquid Androsterone For Lab/R&D
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Male homosexuals have T level comparable to heterosexual males but their DHT/androsterone levels are much lower. Not sure about females.
The drug finasteride was inspired by studying a group of people with an inborn 5-AR deficiency. As children they are hermaphrodites and when they grow up their T levels are normal so they can get quite muscular but still look and act quite "gay" (no offense meant here). So, some kind of hormonal dysregulation seems to occur either in the womb or early childhood that primes the brain to be either male or female. If there is a mismatch with what the actual physical sex of the person is then this is person is probably going to be either gay or transgender.
Why Does Homosexual People Looks Muscular In Both Gender?
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Up To 75% Of Homosexual Behaviour May Be Acquired, Not Inherited
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Hypothyroidism in the mother may lead to gay offspring
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I asked Dr. Peat about the effect of masturbation on prolactin (I am not quoting my question because it was a personal question)

Dr. Peat's answer: "I don't think masturbation affects the hormones more than regular sex does."
Ray Peat Email Advice Depository
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Aspirin As Effective As Viagra For ED, But With Much Fewer Side Effects
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Ray Peat, PhD on Thyroid, Temperature, Pulse, and TSH – Functional Performance Systems (FPS)
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You need to check your temps and pulse rate to get an indication of your thyroid function
There is a lot of info in the stuff I linked to and on the forum about how to improve your metabolic rate and hormonal profile

 

[Ascodel]

Androsterone-etiocholanolone ratios in male homosexuals​

Androsterone-etiocholanolone ratios in male homosexuals - PubMed

Analyses of 24-hour specimens of urine from healthy adult males for androsterone and etiocholanolone produced values which, when calculated as discriminant scores, discriminated between heterosexual and exclusively homosexual individuals. This confirms a previous study.No significant differences were found between heterosexuals and homosexuals in parental ages, secondary sex characteristics, genitalia, anthropometry, 17-ketosteroids, and 17-ketogenic steroids.A significant difference was found between the heterosexual group and homosexual group in the number of homosexual relatives in the immediate and extended families.
"Higher than 1 = heterosexual, and less than 1 = homosexual."-haidut
"Serotonin is known to lower that ratio, so if the sexual orientation does indeed depend on that ratio anything that opposes serotonin should make a person less interested in the same sex."
"Sexual preferences are very malleable and depend mostly on steroids and neurotransmitters. Subsequent studies have confirmed ratios of DHT/estradiol, and even activity of the enzyme 17,20-lyase as involved in determining heterosexual or homosexual behavior." -Androsterone - Liquid Androsterone For Lab/R&D
-
Male homosexuals have T level comparable to heterosexual males but their DHT/androsterone levels are much lower. Not sure about females.
The drug finasteride was inspired by studying a group of people with an inborn 5-AR deficiency. As children they are hermaphrodites and when they grow up their T levels are normal so they can get quite muscular but still look and act quite "gay" (no offense meant here). So, some kind of hormonal dysregulation seems to occur either in the womb or early childhood that primes the brain to be either male or female. If there is a mismatch with what the actual physical sex of the person is then this is person is probably going to be either gay or transgender.
Why Does Homosexual People Looks Muscular In Both Gender?
-
Up To 75% Of Homosexual Behaviour May Be Acquired, Not Inherited
-
Hypothyroidism in the mother may lead to gay offspring
-
I asked Dr. Peat about the effect of masturbation on prolactin (I am not quoting my question because it was a personal question)

Dr. Peat's answer: "I don't think masturbation affects the hormones more than regular sex does."
Ray Peat Email Advice Depository
-
Aspirin As Effective As Viagra For ED, But With Much Fewer Side Effects
-
Ray Peat, PhD on Thyroid, Temperature, Pulse, and TSH – Functional Performance Systems (FPS)
-
You need to check your temps and pulse rate to get an indication of your thyroid function
There is a lot of info in the stuff I linked to and on the forum about how to improve your metabolic rate and hormonal profile

I always had high beat rate.
Like 85-90 beats per minute

 

[Ascodel]

@haidut can you help me? Dm me please.

 

[meatbag]

I always had high beat rate.
Like 85-90 beats per minute

I think the best way is to check temperature and pulse rate when you wake up and then again after you eat
Ray Peat, PhD on Thyroid, Temperature, Pulse, and TSH – Functional Performance Systems (FPS)
Temperature and Pulse Basics & Monthly Log – Functional Performance Systems (FPS)

Those two links are worth reading through

It's also worth considering the effect of a sluggish intestine on estrogen levels. That's one of the reasons carrot salad, bamboo shoots, mushrooms are recommended
"A sluggish intestine interferes with the excretion of estrogen, so raw carrots or a laxative can often, in just a day or two, increase the ratio of progesterone to estrogen"
Ray Peat Email Advice Depository

The Danny Roddy Weblog

If you don't eat liver or use a vitamin D supplement, it might be worthwhile to try those
Vitamin A: Anti-Cancer and Anti-Estrogen – Functional Performance Systems (FPS)

""Things that increase the metabolic rate improve memory, reaction time, etc., relax bladder, build muscle. Vitamin D, high calcium intake (two liters/day low fat milk), aspirin, angiotensin receptor blockers, thyroid, progesterone and DHEA (5 mg), adequate protein, bowel regularity, are important for supporting oxidative metabolism."
Ray Peat Email Advice Depository

Vitamin A Stimulates Testosterone Production

Vitamin A Increases DHT By Enhancing 5-alpha Reductase

Vitamin A is dopaminergic and reduces prolactin in humans

 

[805light]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?
Also my voice is high pitched and round face, small bone structure.
For many years i thought i was asexual.
Again, i don t want it, if viagra forever is my solution then be it. My feelings are just and only for girls but not sexual and after i m not horny guys are grooss, i don t like anything about guys just the feeling of dominance.
Blowjob dominance or pussylicking dominance i love it, but again i get hard at gay porn not to much at straight.
And i can t get hard without stimulation.

Forbidden scenarios, extreme scenarios, unwanted events are common fantasies. Educational podcasts such as Dan Savage and Beat Your Genes can help to gain self-acceptance.

 

[ecstatichamster]

Stop the porn, optimize your hormones & eat liver

yes. Stopping porn over time fixes this.

 

[Hugh Johnson]

The thing is, i m romantical attracted just to girls.
My first crushes were girls, i watched just anime where i wanted to kiss /hugs girls but never sex.
I watch gay porn and i fantasize and put me in the role of woman. I also watch straight porn and lesbian porn.
I dont want a relationship with guys in real life i don t feel nothing for guys.
I have a gf and it s hard for me to get hard to have sex with her, i need viagra.
I dont have morning woods or erections through the day.
I was reading about someone here who turned straight. For me bi or gay is not a possibility cuz i don t want it no matter what.
Some tips?
Also my voice is high pitched and round face, small bone structure.
For many years i thought i was asexual.
Again, i don t want it, if viagra forever is my solution then be it. My feelings are just and only for girls but not sexual and after i m not horny guys are grooss, i don t like anything about guys just the feeling of dominance.
Blowjob dominance or pussylicking dominance i love it, but again i get hard at gay porn not to much at straight.
And i can t get hard without stimulation.

Just be gay and have bromances with girls. Best of both worlds tbh

 

[Ascodel]

Just be gay and have bromances with girls. Best of both worlds tbh

no thanks. also can t get hard for girls

 

[OccamzRazer]

no thanks. also can t get hard for girls

This is a very personal thing, so I wouldn't want to tell you what to do too much...

But if I were in your shoes, I would do this :

1. 'Detox' from porn (& technology in general)
2. Fix your hormones
3. Be content with wherever your sexuality ends up

 

[Nebula]

Do you have any history of being sexually abused and/or exposed to porn very young? Early sexual imprinting seems to often be involved with unwanted paraphilias. In a way many us have been mentally molested when we were young by deranged media produced by deranged people from porn or elsewhere. Although it seems some people are more susceptible to long term imprinting effects for biological reasons.

Do you have any head traumas from boxing or history of using steroids or other strong substances improperly? Maybe not directly related to your unwanted paraphilia but other possible sources for endocrine and brain dysfunction. Do you have any hormonal panels to see if something obvious is far out of range?

 

[Korven]

Gut inflammation can cause hypersexuality and cravings for porn that doesn't match your sexual orientation. Psychological/emotional stress can also be a powerful trigger -- however the stressful/anxious/OCD thoughts often arise or become amplified as a result of an inflamed and leaky digestive tract.

Here's what I would recommend:

1. Try eating a fiberless diet of meat, fruit/fruit juice and dairy. Well-cooked mushrooms can help clean out the gut.

2. If temps and pulse aren't optimal (98.6 F and 85 BPM), and you have cold hands and feet, or other hypothyroid symptoms, you might also benefit from thyroid supplementation.

3. Stop watching porn. Remove the stressors in your life that makes you crave porn as a means of self-medicating.

You might be interested in reading @stargazer1111 posts about the connection between gut irritation and hypersexuality.

 

[Ascodel]

Do you have any history of being sexually abused and/or exposed to porn very young? Early sexual imprinting seems to often be involved with unwanted paraphilias. In a way many us have been mentally molested when we were young by deranged media produced by deranged people from porn or elsewhere. Although it seems some people are more susceptible to long term imprinting effects for biological reasons.

Do you have any head traumas from boxing or history of using steroids or other strong substances improperly? Maybe not directly related to your unwanted paraphilia but other possible sources for endocrine and brain dysfunction. Do you have any hormonal panels to see if something obvious is far out of range?

No.. I watch porn from 11 to now 18 year old . But like i said in real life i m not getting hard for girls and not for boys.
I need to stimulate myself to get hard for my gf.
Just romantic affection for girls.
I was droped on the head young at like 1 year i think. Not to big distance

 

[mrchibbs]

I must say this forum is amazing, not to many places would be as open and non-judgemental.

I'll say that I think sexuality is fluid and it's definitely possible to radically change.

But first you have to forgive yourself and not be ashamed. Nobody controls his or her own sexuality, it is a product of our environment.

Like others I would advise you to stop watching porn altogether. It just messes up our normal response. It's not easy when it's just a click away and most of us have grown up with easy access. Twenty years ago they had to actually buy a VHS lol, a lot more involved.

Progesterone can probably help reset things as well and offset the overinfluence of estrogen.

I would try a progesterone:dhea product and no porn at all.

 

[Ascodel]

Like i can watch every category porn granny, young imagine having sex with them.
From cuckold/tranny to gay imagine myself a woman dominated.
In real life i have 0 sexual atraction to any gender. Just romantic for girls and no morning woods or erections through the day.