Having RAMPANT SEXUAL PARTNERS is NOT HEALTHY - BY DEFINITION YOU ARE STRESSED

[JamesGatz]

Hey man,

Some of you really think having RAMPANT SEXUAL PARTNERS is healthy man - lets break it down man:

A) what do animals do before they have sex?

They TEST each other man, they bluff-charge each other, smack each other around a bit, THEY STRESS EACH OTHER OUT to ensure the other ANIMAL IS TRUSTWORTHY

If YOU CAN HANDLE STRESS - you are TRUSTWORTHY

if you CANNOT HANDLE STRESS - you are NOT TRUSTWORTHY

WHY? BECAUSE - if A MALE GORILLA impregnates a FEMALE GORILLA and she is NOT TRUSTWORTHY and SHE CANNOT HANDLE STRESS

then:

His CHILDREN ARE AT RISK in her care - if she CANNOT HANDLE STRESS - she CANNOT PROTECT HER CHILDREN FROM DANGER/PREDATORS man

ONLY HIGH-SEROTONIN ANIMALS like CHIMPANZEES (who are small and annoying) have orgies and sex parties because high-serotonin ENCOURAGES this behavior

Healthy animals (High DHT) like gorillas get BIG, they CHILL, they get a FAMILY TROUPE, they don't let other DUDES mess around with their women, etc.

Ensuring that someone you LIKE is TRUSTWORTHY before having sex is HEALTHY behavior

Thats why WHEN YOU ACTUALLY LIKE A GIRL you guys PLAY AROUND A BIT before SOMETHING HAPPENS: you guys IGNORE EACH OTHER, make each other JEALOUS, etc.

This is MATING RITUAL 101 MAN

Some of these chicks on HERE (im not going to name names) really defend this lifestyle of them having rampant sex with different dudes

THIS IS NOT HEALTHY BEHAVIOR MAN

BY DEFINITION YOU ARE STRESSED

If your body is in SURVIVAL MODE and you are faced WITH DEATH then you will want to have rampant sex with different partners BECAUSE you need to pass your offspring on before YOU DIE

if you want to have rampant sexual partners, BY DEFINITION your serotonin or estrogen is HIGH

 

[unanimous]

high serotonin decreases sex drive, mirin iq

 

[JamesGatz]

high serotonin decreases sex drive, mirin iq

So what? I NEVER SAID it didn't - if you are HIGH SEROTONIN you DON'T DEFEND YOURSELF MAN

that means if a women hits on you you are more DOWN to have sex with her without putting up a fight and ensuring shes TRUSTWORTHY MAN

 

[Nomane Euger]

@JamesGatz hi,when i read your post,i hear you mentally screaming for every single sentance you wrote in CAPS,screaming with a semi"mongolian"ton of voice,it is very funny

i wish you fun

 

[JamesGatz]

Before the criticism COMES

MAKE SURE YOU GUYS READ MY POST IN FULL MAN

And if youre going to say I MADE A CLAIM, MAKE SURE I MADE THAT CLAIM MAN

 

[JamesGatz]

@JamesGatz hi,when i read your post,i hear you mentally screaming for every single sentance you wrote in CAPS,screaming with a semi"mongolian"ton of voice,it is very funny

i wish you fun

Thanks man - I'm ALWAYS having fun man you know me!

 

[Hidden49]

@JamesGatz lol love your posts, just started this RP lifestyle but tryna get my energy up like yours

 

[Jayvee]

Yeah i also think it leads to an underlying feeling of unfulfillment like porn (or any other) addiction.

Going from multiple sexual partners to one soul partner has been the best thing that has happened to me. Its feels like a deeper connection and sex is very different. Modern society is clearly driven in a 'hyper-sexed' stress state judging by peoples outlooks and media portrayal of relationships.

As a side note, experimenting with DHT has definitely made me feel more wholesome, connected and family oriented and as a recovering PFS person who has experienced the very extreme other end of the spectrum (inability to breakdown cortisol properly, low dht, low androgen receptor, low dopamine, high serotonin) it nearly destroyed my relationship and pushed me to less wholesome ideas of relationships.

 

[Hidden49]

Yeah i also think it leads to an underlying feeling of unfulfillment like porn (or any other) addiction.

Going from multiple sexual partners to one soul partner has been the best thing that has happened to me. Its feels like a deeper connection and sex is very different. Modern society is clearly driven in a 'hyper-sexed' stress state judging by peoples outlooks and media portrayal of relationships.

Completely agree

 

[Vileplume]

Sex is fun.

Even if it’s not between an exclusive couple, it can still be a meaningful and sensory connection that provides pleasure and existential satisfaction.

I have experienced plenty of harmful stress in my life, and I can say that when I’ve been healthy and had sex with another healthy person, it is meaningfully stimulating. Constructive. I guess you could say “it’s stress” in the same way you could say playing tennis or having a stimulating conversation is stressful. But if you’re having fun and not harming yourself, it’s good for you I say.

 

[bornamachine]

What an odd thread.

Imo a hormonally balanced man/woman WANTS to have sex, that is the desire that drives everything.

 

[JamesGatz]

What an odd thread.

Imo a hormonally balanced man/woman WANTS to have sex, that is the desire that drives everything.

How?

Having a High libido IS NOT THE SAME THING as desiring to have rampant sexual partners

If you are HEALTHY - you should be READY to have sex BUT you should NOT BE "easy" and willing to give yourself up to MANY DIFFERENT PEOPLE

This behavior is EASILY DISCERNIBLE between men and women

Women are healthier - therefore require a stronger desire to be COURTED before sex

Unhealthy women are easier to be courted, easier to be PLAYED, easier to be scammed, etc

Men are rampantly UNHEALTHY - this is why most run around HORNY willing to HUMP ANY CHICK that gives them the time of day

 

[JamesGatz]

Sex is fun.

Even if it’s not between an exclusive couple, it can still be a meaningful and sensory connection that provides pleasure and existential satisfaction.

I have experienced plenty of harmful stress in my life, and I can say that when I’ve been healthy and had sex with another healthy person, it is meaningfully stimulating. Constructive. I guess you could say “it’s stress” in the same way you could say playing tennis or having a stimulating conversation is stressful. But if you’re having fun and not harming yourself, it’s good for you I say.

Yes but exercise IS NOT THE SAME THING as having sex with another person

To have sex with another women - YOU ARE PARTICIPATING IN CREATING NEW LIFE

IT IS A SACRED PROCESS in itself and not to mention sperm is an IMMUNE SYSTEM SUPPRESANT

so BY DEFINITION any women who has sex with many different men will have a COMPROMISED IMMUNE SYSTEM/HEALTH (we already knew that by looking at them)

You can ALL SEE how unhealthy prostitute look? I've NEVER SEEN a healthy looking prostitute

 

[Jessie]

Maybe it's a case of one man's potion is another man's poison. There's a lot to unpack in the monogamy vs polyamorous debate. Citing animal cases would even make it more confusing considering outcomes vary wildly. Penguins for example are very monogamous. Sometimes to the point of only having one mate for their entire lives.

If you were wanting to stick with ape species only, chimpanzees tend to have a superficial monogamous bias, but "infidelity" within many of the tribes has been well documented. What's important to note, however, is when infidelity is discovered by the other chimps they tend to get really mad and go crazy at the offending parties. Suggesting it's against their "acceptable" norms.

Bonobos are different entirely, and tend to have a more openness in their sexual relationships. Even going as far as using sex as a means for conflict resolution.

Throughout much of human history, the concept of "single family units" didn't really exist in large scale. In fact, I'm hard pressed to find many historical examples of such that predate the enclosure periods across Europe. It's more of a product that the "fee simple private property" era that capitalism ushered in.

Before enclosure, and especially in antiquity, humans lived most of their lives in communities and villages, usually in an "open field" system, where everything was held in common. So raising children wasn't really the responsibility of one woman, but the whole clan.

Though it could vary across the cultures, most of the time humans didn't have a problem with finding other mates in their village if something happened to their previous mate (which was likely, considering disease and feminine wasn't uncommon).

 

[bornamachine]

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[Steed]

Sex is fun.

Even if it’s not between an exclusive couple, it can still be a meaningful and sensory connection that provides pleasure and existential satisfaction.

I have experienced plenty of harmful stress in my life, and I can say that when I’ve been healthy and had sex with another healthy person, it is meaningfully stimulating. Constructive. I guess you could say “it’s stress” in the same way you could say playing tennis or having a stimulating conversation is stressful. But if you’re having fun and not harming yourself, it’s good for you I say.

I agree with your general statement here that sex can be meaningful, fun, and developing. But to me, it appears that over time a lot of sexual experiences, with a lot of different people, will increase the probability of not being satisfied and increase anxiety. I think that sexual experiences are accumulative in a way, and even though we don't necessarily know it ourselves, they stay in our subconscious. And the more of these experiences we have, the more they can alter our consciousness. Just my 2 cents.

 

[AnonE]

Stressed out from all this *****, that's for sure

 

[golder]

All these caps lock stress me out and cause me to reduce my standards.

 

[Eth]

Fun post, and although its not totally connected, it reminded me of this excerpt:

Bronze Age Pervert said:

Chimp in state of nature never jerks off, but in captivity he does, wat does this mean? In state of nature he’s too busy, to put plainly. He is concerned with mastering space: solving problem of life in and under trees, mastering what tools he can, mastering social relations in the jockeying for power and status. Deprived of this drive to development and self-increase he devolves to pointless masturbation, in captivity, where he senses he is in owned space and therefore the futility of all his efforts and all his actions. The onanism of modern society is connected with its supposed “hyper- sexualization” and its infertility. It’s not really hyper-sexualization, but the devolution of the spirit to the lassitude of a diffuse and weak sexuality. Life in owned space becomes drained of energy through low-grade pointless titillation—and nofap is a kind of cargo cult that tries to reestablish energy in order, on path of ascent. Sometimes, however, it’s a successful cargo cult, but whether it works or no can be seen usually within a week. The unfortunate thing about all this is that w*m*n have exceptionally good antennae for this kind of thing, and when a man frees himself from these pressures...they see this from very far away. They have an instinct to seek out ascending life and drain it...they and the species thereby achieve their goals, but you are bled dry and sometimes left a husk. They revert life back to its irritated state, and by their drainage of vital essence they’ve laid low many great tasks.

 

[Inaut]

Good thread @JamesGatz . You have a few people on this forum that like to take shots at you because of your writing style (which o think is meant to be both serious but also trolling). All I can say to them is at least you are bringing a different perspective to the forum. People don’t have to like them or read them (my advice for those people is to just ignore your threads) but I can appreciate where you are coming from because I’ve received similar responses in my past based on my thoughts. I also agree with the premise of this thread. IMO sex is highly spiritual and should not be taken lightly. I used to think quite the opposite but now couldn’t be tempted to engage in sex with a woman I don’t have a connection with (spiritual, physical and emotional).