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Well the irony is you’re asking me for exactly that. I don’t know why your daughters relationship failed, typically when children grow up in a failed marriage they avoid getting married or repeat the conflict in their own lives. Of course there are outliers and all sorts of other anecdotes — you’re asking for evidence of why this one case failed. It’s not really a question you can answer without talking to your daughter.
YOU KNOW WHY my daughter's relationship failed.
You sound very emotional.
First of all we have no idea what the guy was like behind the scenes. Maybe he was trying to tie her up and do bdsm? Who knows. Power dynamics are super complicated and it sounds like a very particular situation. I’ve never dated a guy who cleans, but I did have a boyfriend who said even thinking about washing dishes made him vomit in his mouth. Clearly we all have had very different experiences that we draw from.
Isn’t that partially your fault?
"We have no idea what the guy was like behind the scenes."
i feel sorry for your daughter, it is inappropriate for you to bast all of her personal issues online to complete strangers, and insult her while at it. If you're so comfortable insulting her like this i imagine you said much worse to her when she was growing up. As for her not knowing basic things like how to use a washing machine or how to cook, do you take no responsibility for not teaching her basic things like that as a child? I had to help out with cooking and cleaning at home, these are normal chores you should teach your kids, my dad thought me to garden, fish, weld and do woodwork too. What did you do? Insult her for magically not knowing how to do everything? She has a job right, you know how easy it is to google people and end up finding this stuff, at the very least you should stop posting your face or using your real name online because someone can find ***t like this an it can hurt her in her professional life. Read a basic book on childhood psychology and you will find, the patterns that children repeat in their relationships is the ones they learned from home. It is your responsibility to raise well adjusted children that can form happy relationships by modeling such a healthy relationship first yourself. Children of alcoholics typically end up with alcoholic partners, your daughter gets a dysfunctional relationship because that's what you and your partner taught her, and before you blame it all on the mother, you're the one who chose her for a wife and mother of your kids
You cannot be more transparent and unobjective on this issue.
The bottom line is your daughter and this man are the people who know best why their relationship didn’t work. I’m not sure why you’re so hung up on it if you have a loving partner of your own. I wish your daughter well and that she finds love. I think there are many things that fulfill us and give us a sense of purpose in life besides romance and transcendence through suffering we’ve been sold as a pseudo religious practice towards individuation. I also can’t believe any person can be reduced to “gym tanning nails” and if she is, it sounds like you, your wife, and extended family must have been enmeshed in a really vacant and impoverished culture."We have no idea what the guy was like behind the scenes."
Do you see what you're doing here?
The woman did absolutely NOTHING to contribute in this relationship but, somehow, it must be because of the man.
How does a woman being completely selfish, inconsiderate, and useless in a 6 year relationship end up being a "behind the scenes" thing?
By the way, yes, we know exactly what he was like because my daughter said the guy treated her like gold and she may never get over this breakup.
My son is still friends with the guy and they hang out together.
Do you see what we're doing here?
You cannot be objective about MY daughter, simply because she's a woman.
You've never met her and probably would not like her if you did, but because she shares the same type of genitals as you, the root cause of this problem must be a "behind the scenes" issue with the man.
No reasonable person would want their friend or son to marry such a woman because she is so incompetent and self-absorbed but you defend her because of her gender.
That is another root cause of this problem.
Working as hard as we can to FIND something wrong with a good man while enabling a woman to be selfish and destructive.
I have to get back to work.
Unit 8200 has gotten their money's worth out of you and this thread.
I’m not Jewish, but Jewish women are particularly outspoken and protective of their children. You definitely would not see a Jewish dad putting his JAP on blast on the internet, that for sure. When society collapses, it’ll just be Orthodox Jews and Amish left, probably because they understand something about community and protecting kids.
They both told me and our whole family why it didn't work out.
Honestly it sounds like you need a good Jewish psychoanalyst, I am not interested in demonizing your daughter with you.
LMAO!!!!
No, what you don’t understand is this entire thread and most of the threads on here don’t let a woman peep. They can’t even share their subjective experiences without some annoying, tired, boring boomer philosophy telling them why they are wrong or why they are to blame for civilizational collapse or why they are sluts if they want to take a trip to Mexico. Just accept you are a dying gene pool and your daughter is terrified of creating a mini you. It’s ok, you will heal.
Don't you retain what you read?
Too bad you can’t burn me on a stake
Stop projecting.
you don't even respond to anything anyone says to you, just go off on tangents about your daughters sex life and her vagina, glad my dad doesn't post about my vagina on the internet, that'd be pretty ****88 up.
She's 34
Is this a book? I see the title as "freemason protocols..."
