People get angry at me really easily

[gunther]

@gunther you might be right about this. when I talk to people online in forums I spend a lot of time editing what I post because im aware of a tendency to come off as pompous and I try to curb this as much as possible. IRL this could be even more of a factor since communication is happening in real time and theres no chance to edit what ive already said

Ha! That's funny cause I do the same thing all the time. I re-read my post and immediately felt like I came across as a know-it-all. I didn't mean to.

in your opinion do I give off condescending/insulting vibes in what I write? its infuriating because on a deep level im humble and try to respect the humanity of people but it seems like often (not always) people get the opposite impression of me somehow anyways. It could be something similar to the RBF phenomena.

I will freely admit however that im intentionally condescending when people act that way towards me first, which is completely justified

I hate to come across like I know anything. I just spent time in sales and one of the things you learn is how not to say things that slightly aggravate other people.

 

[Apple]

One thing that might be fitting is that often people like other people not because of how nice they are but as how trustworthy they seem. This is common among men, where we usually "take jabs" at each other, and being able to laugh at yourself and give back some jabs is an indicator that you're willing to be part of the group and won't just fold under the smallest bit of pressure. There also are people that abuse this sort of group dynamic, and it's usually people that gladly dish out jabs at others but getting defensive when it's getting back at them.

Another thing might be to learn how to listen better. If you're OCD you're probably very goal oriented and a problem solver, and your way of listening might be to give people exact answers or solutions. I've noticed that people who I would regard as "NPC's" often are more in tune with non verbal communication and would probably regard me as being autistic for wanting to talk about the subject matter and not just "hang out". Being more one type or another isn't good or bad but if you're far on one side of the spectrum it might be helpful being aware of.

Some guys are very good at giving jabs to others...They are like on a higher intellectual/physical level, making everyone look retarded and autistic.
Reminds me of Broda Barnes': “There is an old medical saying that just a few grams of thyroid hormone can make the difference between an idiot and an Einstein. ”

 

[EustaceBagge]

Some guys are very good at giving jabs to others...They are like on a higher intellectual/physical level, making everyone look retarded and autistic.
Reminds me of Broda Barnes': “There is an old medical saying that just a few grams of thyroid hormone can make the difference between an idiot and an Einstein. ”

I've found the people that give jabs best are politician types and people with high verbal IQ, jews. Anecdotally I've met a couple jews of which 1 was a close friend, and he was the roast king.

 

[Pete Rey]

do you have any specific experiences you want to get off your chest? its just nice for people like us to know that we're not alone

Not really. Our childhood traumas tend to be lots of little things rather than one or two big things. But they need to be worked through nonetheless. Most stem from issues with alienation, abandonment, and trust. We tend to need to learn empathy through study and practice since it doesn't come naturally. Fortunately laser focus does come naturally so apply that to weaknesses. We also tend to be spiritually disconnected, so same goes for that. Meditation, mindfulness, and/or prayer is important. To that end I aim for a half hour of silence every day. These are disciplines that take work just like any other. Being alone is our natural comfort zone though, so other than that get out there and form relationships. Don't beat yourself up over social fuckups. Most people are actually pretty forgiving if you're self-aware. Learn to love yourself and the process of improvement. Weed and porn are probably the two biggest impediments to this. And that Barnes quote is worth its weight in gold. Thyroid supplementation can be tricky to dial in, but it's a game changer once you get there.

Not exactly what you asked for, but hope some of that helps.

 

[Herbie]

@blue_lotus if your not in the mainstream thinking then get used to it.

Everyone is against me, my family included, I don't talk to people anymore other than work or ***t stirring and joking around.

If people start making comments about all the coffee with heaps of sugar and coke I drink. I say I don't give a F about health, only sick people need health food, I'd rather die than go to hospital. How people perceive me is a facade because I got tired of being ostracised for talking about things I'm into and what I beleive in and caused problems at work, destroyed friendships, this is horizontal tolaraianism my father being a true tyrant.

This is why Danny Roddy left USA because he was so far out of what the conversation is, many people are severely brainwashed and dumbed down.

 

[Mountain]

I think you should start by directly addressing the points I brought up instead of doubling down with ad-hominem and threats of noogies.

no BS brother. why not admit you were too quick to speak and made a bad call? show some integrity

I just told you why I think people find you unlikeable but you don't wanna hear it. Good luck out there

 

[Apple]

@blue_lotus if your not in the mainstream thinking then get used to it.

Everyone is against me, my family included, I don't talk to people anymore other than work or ***t stirring and joking around.

If people start making comments about all the coffee with heaps of sugar and coke I drink. I say I don't give a F about health, only sick people need health food, I'd rather die than go to hospital. How people perceive me is a facade because I got tired of being ostracised for talking about things I'm into and what I beleive in and caused problems at work, destroyed friendships, this is horizontal tolaraianism my father being a true tyrant.

This is why Danny Roddy left USA because he was so far out of what the conversation is, many people are severely brainwashed and dumbed down.

I feel the same way too.
But did it ever occur to you that you maybe same wrong with sugar or other things? Pouring sugar is your choice based on some unconfirmed medpub studies.
My uncle died in his 50s from heart attack with severe atherosclerosis, he liked to put 3- 4 spoons of sugar in his coffee. Everyone concluded, yeah... it was sugar

 

[Herbie]

I feel the same way too.
But did it ever occur to you that you maybe same wrong with sugar or other things? Pouring sugar is your choice based on some unconfirmed medpub studies.
My uncle died in his 50s from heart attack with severe atherosclerosis, he liked to put 3- 4 spoons of sugar in his coffee. Everyone concluded, yeah... it was sugar

I came from a back ground of 15 years of trying to use food to be healthy, I have enough experience with different diets and how my body responds to know that sugar is life promoting.

My point is that I'd rather people think I'm uneducated and don't care than to know that there is a reason I do it beyond enjoyment and taste.

People make comments about how much milk I drink too

 

[Hugh Johnson]

There is

poor take. I assumed this was your angle beforehand but just wanted to make sure. If you bothered reading my response carefully instead of reflexively throwing out a response then you would understand why your argument is a poor one.

1.I explicitly stated that I disliked the NPC term and was only using it out of convenience to quickly illustrate a point. why do I dislike the NPC term? because its dehumanizing thats why. I reiterated this position by pointing out that the people that dislike me aren't completely terrible (and have redeeming features), but you ignored this.



2.I spent the majority of the post talking about how this is possibly my own fault, I brought this up about 3-4 different times (giving it vast precedence over blaming "NPCs"). you ignored this of course too.

Im glad you posted your comment though, you perfectly illustrated the kind of ignorant people and "bad luck" I encounter IRL. Why do people get angry at me really easily? because they dont bother to understand what im saying and instantly assume things based on their own misperceptions like youve done.

An aggression in your posts, and I can feel it. Diet won't fix it. You need to let go of that anger

 

[lilsticky]

Are you rather unattractive?

nice

 

[lilsticky]

I've found the people that give jabs best are politician types and people with high verbal IQ, jews. Anecdotally I've met a couple jews of which 1 was a close friend, and he was the roast king.

View: https://youtu.be/stLCurXu0fc

 

[theantagonist]

I came from a back ground of 15 years of trying to use food to be healthy, I have enough experience with different diets and how my body responds to know that sugar is life promoting.

My point is that I'd rather people think I'm uneducated and don't care than to know that there is a reason I do it beyond enjoyment and taste.

People make comments about how much milk I drink too

So relatable. I'm still in the explaining/sharing phase. Which i don't mind.

 

[EustaceBagge]

View: https://youtu.be/stLCurXu0fc

verbal IQ, not general IQ

 

[BrianF]

"It is inevitable that you should feel the rub of other people's characters against your own. After all, you are not a gold coin that everyone likes.

Besides, without that friction produced by contact with others, how would you ever lose those corners, those edges and projections — the imperfections and defects — of your character, and acquire the smooth and regular finish, the firm flexibility of charity, of perfection?

If your character and the characters of those who live with you were soft and sweet like sponge-cake you would never become a saint."


Jose Maria Escriva

 

[JamesGatz]

Ultimately this is a topic related to social status - high social status gives you priority in speech over others and lower does the opposite

Low serotonin/High DHT combined with High T would solve the issue

High DHT+High T in yourself would reverse the role and your presence would be intimidating to others and is ultimately the best hormone for social status because you can walk over everyone and they can't do anything about it

However, it can backfire - for example High DHT+High T can make you too intimidating for most females, thus, peating can actually make some females afraid of you (ones that are not low-stress), low-stress females will like you though

High Progesterone turns you into both higher status person but also a push-over to a High T/High DHT phenotype(shuts down DHT and T in high doses)

High stress hormones turns people into push overs and low social status

Plenty of things you can do that I have mentioned on here, for example wearing a hat/hoodie on your head lowers serotonin and raises DHT so if you do this experiment you will notice that you will be the one barking orders at people more and they will be reluctant to interrupt you

Plenty of other things you can do that I can recommend but just an example

 

[JamesGatz]

Someone here mentioned that Jews have a higher social status - yes - that is because they wear hats (low serotonin) and they tend to wear gold chains (star of david chains), so thats the main reason why

Rich people tend to have higher social status in general because their finances usually leads them to be more inclined to buy things that raise metabolism and/or social status

ALSO, the wealthiest neighborhoods are 99/100 times the healthiest ones too,

if you go to a poor neighborhood - everyone there will be short and ugly

If you go to a rich neighborhood - everyone there is tall and attractive

This is not "muh genetics" - this is metabolism and ultimately environment/finances play a massive role on metabolism, a larger impact than most supplements I would say

 

[blue_lotus]

I just told you why I think people find you unlikeable but you don't wanna hear it. Good luck out there

except you didnt bother reading my post properly at all. many people ITT offered rational advice because they took the time to read what I was saying and didn't rush through and make baseless assumptions, why couldnt you? if I were actually wrong about this then you would have no problem directly refuting this post:

People get angry at me really easily

For as long as I can remember I piss off people super easily and I dont know why. I mean yeah I can think of superficial things I shouldnt have said or done, but these are things that most people would get a pass for. Like I can literally think of situations at university where I would say...

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@Pete Rey I agree with you about thyroid stuff, or physiologically boosting mood in general

@Herbie I can empathize with you. have you always had issues with people? I feel like ive always been sort of a black sheep, no matter what I did or didnt do, like I said, feels like a vibe thing to me

@Hugh Johnson brother, you need to consider the context of that post. you would be aggressive too if somebody started talking ***t to you out of nowhere based on a misunderstanding that was their own fault

@BrianF well said

 

[BrianF]

Someone here mentioned that Jews have a higher social status - yes - that is because they wear hats (low serotonin) and they tend to wear gold chains (star of david chains), so thats the main reason why

Rich people tend to have higher social status in general because their finances usually leads them to be more inclined to buy things that raise metabolism and/or social status

ALSO, the wealthiest neighborhoods are 99/100 times the healthiest ones too,

if you go to a poor neighborhood - everyone there will be short and ugly

If you go to a rich neighborhood - everyone there is tall and attractive

This is not "muh genetics" - this is metabolism and ultimately environment/finances play a massive role on metabolism, a larger impact than most supplements I would say

I have no beef with the jews but if I go to the wealthy jewish neighbourhoods in London, I'm not looking at an abundance of tall people and I sure as hell am not looking at even average levels of attractiveness to say the least!

 

[JamesGatz]

I have no beef with the jews but if I go to the wealthy jewish neighbourhoods in London, I'm not looking at an abundance of tall people and I sure as hell am not looking at even average levels of attractiveness to say the least!

Well ... here in the US, in my city at least - the wealthiest neighborhoods are ALL Jewish families, and probably the tallest guys in the city I see there

When I go to the hood/ghetto - shortest guys I see there with a few exceptions (because for guys in the hood theres always this small percentage that refuse to go to work and become drug dealers/scammers and live low stress lifestyles, so they actually develop well)

 

[DoctorBackwards]

Someone here mentioned that Jews have a higher social status - yes - that is because they wear hats (low serotonin) and they tend to wear gold chains (star of david chains), so thats the main reason why

Rich people tend to have higher social status in general because their finances usually leads them to be more inclined to buy things that raise metabolism and/or social status

ALSO, the wealthiest neighborhoods are 99/100 times the healthiest ones too,

if you go to a poor neighborhood - everyone there will be short and ugly

If you go to a rich neighborhood - everyone there is tall and attractive

This is not "muh genetics" - this is metabolism and ultimately environment/finances play a massive role on metabolism, a larger impact than most supplements I would say

I dont think you can leave parenting style out of the equation, the mothers in particular are the most nurturing and supportive you will find in the world. Most kids dont find positive reinforcement at home, so by middle school have already started looking in the most obvious places.