I do not like the width of my pelvis.
I have noticed that masculine men, men with body types that attract women, have narrow hips. Or at least, a narrow pelvis bone that is somewhat in-line with the base of the rib cage. I have noticed that muscle mass and body fat percentage can be *highly* variable and women can still be very attracted to the man's figure, provided his bone structure and skeleton are suitable.
Women often talk about "V lines" on a man being very attractive. I assert that these are not formed by "oblique crunches" or some such exercise, but are a direct result of having a very slim pelvis relative to the surrounding musculature, and in-line with the bottom of the rib-cage (or close to).
Examples:
This man above will steal everyone's girlfriend. Forgetting about face for a sec ... obviously, the shoulders are considerably wider than the waist and hips, but also notice that the pelvis is far inside the waist muscles. The pelvis is narrow, and the muscles are sitting above the inguinal ligament - this is what creates those V lines that women like. It is not necessarily the muscles themselves that are the cause, it is also the shape of the skeleton. This man would still be attractive to women without the muscles - some women might even prefer him a bit less built, provided the skeleton was the same.
This man has a very wide pelvis relative to his waist. Despite getting in very good shape, and having broad shoulders / developed musculature, his hip bones are far wider than his waist and the base of his rib cage. I believe this is an unattractive trait in males. This man is unlikely to steal anyone's girlfriend.
I have noticed in myself that no matter how muscular, or how lean I get, I still do not like my body. I have only just realized today that this is mostly to do with my hips / pelvis. Men often talk about shoulder-to-waist ratio, in which I believe mine is okay (when built up) - I have 'relatively' wide lats and shoulders, which create a nice hexagon shape - but my waist to hip ratio is ugly and almost feminine ... or certainly un-masculine. I have noticed that in almost every photo shoot I ever did, I was almost always photographed side-on ... I think I subconsciously did this because I subconsciously knew that my hips would look wide when straight on, but also the photographer chose to use the side-on photos for any outputs too.
The above photos are all of me at various times, with varying professional quality ... I believe my hips are somewhere in between the first guy (optimal) and the second guy (sub-optimal), leaning more towards the second guy.
Guy 1 - his armpit line is considerably wider than his pelvis. Or rather, his pelvis is considerably narrower than his armpit line (drawing a vertical line down)
Guy 2 - the outside of his pelvis bones are virtually in-line with his armpit lines (drawing a vertical line down)
Guy 3 (me) - pelvis bones are inside the armpit line *just*, but there is a noticeable widening between the slimmest part of my waist and the hip bones ... this is unattractive.
Measuring
Measuring waist-to-hip ratio can be a nightmare, for the following reasons:
(1) if you are overweight, your measurements will be biased and unreliable in terms of reflecting bone structure.
(2) the location in which people measure their waist, and in which they measure their hips, is different. Additionally,
I would say that measuring waist is easiest :- measure the narrowest point below your rib cage but above your pelvis bone. This usually equates to circa the navel, or possible a couple of inches above.
However, when measuring hips, I think it's best to measure on the top of the pelvis bone but above the glute muscles - so basically an upper pelvis measurement.
What should an optimal "ratio" be? I haven't seen this discussed anywhere.
More importantly, can the skeleton be changed for the better beyond puberty?
Obviously, the shape of the skeleton is primarily going to be determined by hormonal profile. A masculine skeletal structure will be from ->
- High Testosterone, High DHT, High Androgens
- Low Estrogen, Low Prolactin, Low Stress Hormones (Cortisol, baseline adrenalin).
I would venture to guess that the first guy I linked has the above hormonal characteristics. And that the second guy has at least one of either estrogen, prolactin or stress hormones significantly elevated, and possibly low androgens too (not to "soy" levels, but lower than optimal).
Unsurprisingly, my hormonal profile shows moderate testosterone levels, but relatively elevated estrogen and prolactin. Last measurements:
- Total testosterone 666 ng/dL (devil d*ck ... I wish) | 23.1 nmol/L
- Estradiol 33.5 pg/ml | 123 pmol/L
- Prolactin 15.56 ng/ml | 330 mU/L
I also have significant thyroid autoimmunity with very high TPO and Thyroglobulin antibodies.
And perhaps even more unsurprisingly, my most bothersome symptoms are:
- hair loss beginning on my crown
- sexual dysfunction (severe premature ejaculation and unreliable libido)
- low energy levels, low vigour, general malaise, exhaustion
Other severe symptoms that I am less focused on (not necessarily because they are less bothersome, but because I don't think there is much to be done about them):
- vitiligo (felt somewhat dead inside every day since diagnosis c. 13 years ago lol) - linked with autimmunity.
- mild gyno (it's not that bad, but nipples poking through t shirts is not great) - obviously linked to estrogen and prolactin.
Questions
Hypothetically, if I were successful in tanking my estrogen and prolactin levels to an "optimal" male profile, lowering my stress hormones, improving my thyroid function, and improving androgen profile - would it ever be possible for my skeleton / body to "adjust" towards a more androgenic structure closer to the first guy's? Or are we doomed past (or even prior to) puberty (i.e. once you're grown, you're grown)?
And more importantly: if possible, how to get there? Somehow, I doubt progesterone is the answer...
Am I off base? Is it actually that the first guy has a wider rib cage to match the hips?
I have noticed that masculine men, men with body types that attract women, have narrow hips. Or at least, a narrow pelvis bone that is somewhat in-line with the base of the rib cage. I have noticed that muscle mass and body fat percentage can be *highly* variable and women can still be very attracted to the man's figure, provided his bone structure and skeleton are suitable.
Women often talk about "V lines" on a man being very attractive. I assert that these are not formed by "oblique crunches" or some such exercise, but are a direct result of having a very slim pelvis relative to the surrounding musculature, and in-line with the bottom of the rib-cage (or close to).
Examples:
This man above will steal everyone's girlfriend. Forgetting about face for a sec ... obviously, the shoulders are considerably wider than the waist and hips, but also notice that the pelvis is far inside the waist muscles. The pelvis is narrow, and the muscles are sitting above the inguinal ligament - this is what creates those V lines that women like. It is not necessarily the muscles themselves that are the cause, it is also the shape of the skeleton. This man would still be attractive to women without the muscles - some women might even prefer him a bit less built, provided the skeleton was the same.
This man has a very wide pelvis relative to his waist. Despite getting in very good shape, and having broad shoulders / developed musculature, his hip bones are far wider than his waist and the base of his rib cage. I believe this is an unattractive trait in males. This man is unlikely to steal anyone's girlfriend.
I have noticed in myself that no matter how muscular, or how lean I get, I still do not like my body. I have only just realized today that this is mostly to do with my hips / pelvis. Men often talk about shoulder-to-waist ratio, in which I believe mine is okay (when built up) - I have 'relatively' wide lats and shoulders, which create a nice hexagon shape - but my waist to hip ratio is ugly and almost feminine ... or certainly un-masculine. I have noticed that in almost every photo shoot I ever did, I was almost always photographed side-on ... I think I subconsciously did this because I subconsciously knew that my hips would look wide when straight on, but also the photographer chose to use the side-on photos for any outputs too.
The above photos are all of me at various times, with varying professional quality ... I believe my hips are somewhere in between the first guy (optimal) and the second guy (sub-optimal), leaning more towards the second guy.
Guy 1 - his armpit line is considerably wider than his pelvis. Or rather, his pelvis is considerably narrower than his armpit line (drawing a vertical line down)
Guy 2 - the outside of his pelvis bones are virtually in-line with his armpit lines (drawing a vertical line down)
Guy 3 (me) - pelvis bones are inside the armpit line *just*, but there is a noticeable widening between the slimmest part of my waist and the hip bones ... this is unattractive.
Measuring
Measuring waist-to-hip ratio can be a nightmare, for the following reasons:
(1) if you are overweight, your measurements will be biased and unreliable in terms of reflecting bone structure.
(2) the location in which people measure their waist, and in which they measure their hips, is different. Additionally,
I would say that measuring waist is easiest :- measure the narrowest point below your rib cage but above your pelvis bone. This usually equates to circa the navel, or possible a couple of inches above.
However, when measuring hips, I think it's best to measure on the top of the pelvis bone but above the glute muscles - so basically an upper pelvis measurement.
What should an optimal "ratio" be? I haven't seen this discussed anywhere.
More importantly, can the skeleton be changed for the better beyond puberty?
Obviously, the shape of the skeleton is primarily going to be determined by hormonal profile. A masculine skeletal structure will be from ->
- High Testosterone, High DHT, High Androgens
- Low Estrogen, Low Prolactin, Low Stress Hormones (Cortisol, baseline adrenalin).
I would venture to guess that the first guy I linked has the above hormonal characteristics. And that the second guy has at least one of either estrogen, prolactin or stress hormones significantly elevated, and possibly low androgens too (not to "soy" levels, but lower than optimal).
Unsurprisingly, my hormonal profile shows moderate testosterone levels, but relatively elevated estrogen and prolactin. Last measurements:
- Total testosterone 666 ng/dL (devil d*ck ... I wish) | 23.1 nmol/L
- Estradiol 33.5 pg/ml | 123 pmol/L
- Prolactin 15.56 ng/ml | 330 mU/L
I also have significant thyroid autoimmunity with very high TPO and Thyroglobulin antibodies.
And perhaps even more unsurprisingly, my most bothersome symptoms are:
- hair loss beginning on my crown
- sexual dysfunction (severe premature ejaculation and unreliable libido)
- low energy levels, low vigour, general malaise, exhaustion
Other severe symptoms that I am less focused on (not necessarily because they are less bothersome, but because I don't think there is much to be done about them):
- vitiligo (felt somewhat dead inside every day since diagnosis c. 13 years ago lol) - linked with autimmunity.
- mild gyno (it's not that bad, but nipples poking through t shirts is not great) - obviously linked to estrogen and prolactin.
Questions
Hypothetically, if I were successful in tanking my estrogen and prolactin levels to an "optimal" male profile, lowering my stress hormones, improving my thyroid function, and improving androgen profile - would it ever be possible for my skeleton / body to "adjust" towards a more androgenic structure closer to the first guy's? Or are we doomed past (or even prior to) puberty (i.e. once you're grown, you're grown)?
And more importantly: if possible, how to get there? Somehow, I doubt progesterone is the answer...
Am I off base? Is it actually that the first guy has a wider rib cage to match the hips?