Arrade
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It also depends on the site. Match.com is better for relationships.The link Aymen posted had an interesting quote here:
"Researchers asked young women (ages 15 to 29) to choose potential dates from a series of photographs and descriptions, while the women's mothers (ages 37 to 61) were asked to select possible boyfriends for their daughters using the same information. Results showed that a man's looks influenced both groups of women more strongly than his personality profile. This held true even if a man's profile was filled with highly desirable personal qualities, such as being respectful, honest and trustworthy."
I find this to be true. This is why I've all but quit bothering with online anymore. The thing is you can't properly charm a woman with your confidence and social affluence through online avenues, which leaves the only way a woman will swipe right on you is if you're attractive enough (half the time, women don't even read your profiles I've found, so I know this to be true). I know this because I actually do care about what I write about on my profiles, and often-times all someone will do is say "Hey" or ask something random that was explained in the profile.
In-person approach is a different animal, because in-person yeah the looks still matter but you have the chance to shine - to make them laugh at your humor, to be intrigued by your dark and mysterious personality, whatever. None of this properly shows in an online profile.
Women do have an artificially raised level of power online, on top of society's already overvaluing of women's sexuality.
Tinder women will be 7's and think 8-10's are only worthwhile.
Honestly that just makes me think if they dont look at the bio then you can immediately get it in. They are open immediately.
Also most attractive women don't "need" online because they receive so much attention in real life. I found it pretty hard to find attractive women online and if they were they were in the late 20s-early 30s range.
Having a good social life with social hobbies or running in circles with successful people is a better way to get a relationship