damngoodcoffee
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I think the original issue in all this is the shame society makes us feel about our sexuality. In my view this world suppresses us in every way possible. Through nutrition, through religion, through government, through sexuality, everything. The serpent creeps everywhere. This creates all perversions and obsessions.I'm older. In my young days, I found porn at a very early age and it caused me a lot of ED and problems. I have observed the same pattern with men who get into porn early. Now that's the norm, with internet access, and it's caused a wave of terrible ED with young men.
I do think it's very harmful to sexuality. Nothing immoral about it and I'm not against it, just saying that porn harms men's sexual function and creates a host of issues especially for young men who grew up with porn. It has hurt women just as badly as men, and young people under, say 35 or so, growing up with porn at an early age have been very hard hit with sexual problems.
What you described in the OP is classic from porn use.