I find them a little less satisfying in texture but I still enjoy them. I stay sated for less time than with whole grains. White rice is the only refined grain I use at home, but I don't have strict rules when I'm out with people or anything. You can buy wholegrain sandwiches from most shops in the UK, too.
Wholegrains tend take a little more chewing so I understand why people might intuitively avoid them when rushing or stressed. I also think refined grains are partly why people become magnesium deficient quite easily - it's needed for carb handling but absent in refined grain.
Yeah interesting. If grains only were 0 PUFA, they'd definitely be a staple in my diet.