Tarmander
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Did you change names or am I imagining that?I even disagree with that but I will respond coz I do agree it’ll get him more eyeballs. If you look at the phenomenon of click bait you’ll see people gravitate toward desperation. Some of the biggest threads I’ve seen on here, of a person asking for help, included terms like “I’m suicidal” in the title.
I don’t see what my gender has to do with anything, but you assume wrong. To be fair I’m gay and there’s an argument gay male brains act more like females and whatever, so there’s that. But no, I still disagree, I think it depends on the context whether male or female need to be told truth or comforted, and to think it’s rather based on gender itself tells me about the type of gender roles you obviously buy into. “Boys don’t cry”
tbf I’ve only really experienced support from people in my life, so no I’m not talking to someone from my past, I’m talking on behalf of all of the people I’ve worked with on a human to human level, regardless of gender, who received “truths” like yours, and it did little to help them.
honestly I’m more interested at this point in your notion of an all-loving God. How did it help you? I notice you didn’t respond to my comment about ALS patients.
It is fine to disagree with me. I am going by my experience with what works, and in my experience, in general, men need truth more then comfort. I wish it were different and those stereotypes weren't true, but I don't make the rules
Faith is one of the most powerful forces on the earth, and it is there for everyone. In dark times it has definitely helped me.
I am not sure about the ALS reference. Did OP have ALS and I missed that?