The Promiscuous, Career Focused Single Woman -- An Exaggerated Scapegoat?

[GreekDemiGod]

There is no shortage of beautiful, intelligent, modest, decent girls out there

Somewhat true.
But I can tell you I personally know women who look like sweet, shy, intelligent, “good girls”, who’d you’d never guess they are promiscuous, and confessed they’ve been with 20 guys by the age of 24 or something.
Women are sexual creatures too, and like engaging in casual sex at least in certain phases of their lives.
I have accepted this fact.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

No woman in her 20s stays celibate/ sexless for more than 3 months, unless she has a very low libido or is on SSRIs. So even if she is "single", you best believe she is getting the D on the regular, or at least once every few months.

Most of the girls in my church are virgins, and many have not even kissed a dude.

Some girls I dearly love as friends and family are in their 30s and have yet to be intimate in any way beyond hand holding. None are unattractive in the slightest.

Maybe don’t make bad generalizations because you frequent bad places ?‍

 

[Iceman2016]

Most of the girls in my church are virgins, and many have not even kissed a dude.

Some girls I dearly love as friends and family are in their 30s and have yet to be intimate in any way beyond hand holding. None are unattractive in the slightest.

Maybe don’t make bad generalizations because you frequent bad places ?‍

I've never understood all these guys talking about how terrible girls are these days when their only context is Tinder, Instagram, and porn sites.

How about stop looking in those places? Better yet, how about removing these influences from your life altogether if you can't self regulate.

One's mind/spirit/soul will take on the colour of the influences one allows it to be exposed to. For all the guys looking to meet "decent" girls, how about looking at your church/synagogue/temple/mosque. Or how about talking to family and friends you trust who have similar values to yourself to help you meet similar minded people?

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

Ugly/plain/homely/obese girls aren’t on this graph.
They’re getting as much sex as “incel” dudes.

Incels who can’t get sex, refuse to be with women who are actually no better a catch than the them.
Incels have all kinds of psyche complexes that make them believe they deserve a good looking woman with high standards, without significant personal/character/physical changes on their part to match that.

I promise you, women care less about looks than men do, even the hot ones. I see what I consider hotter girls, with normal dudes, because I guarantee that dude was kind, considerate, a masculine go-getter who approached her (which is incredibly rare in the west at this point), and made her feel safe.

 

[imei3489]

Ugly/plain/homely/obese girls aren’t on this graph.
They’re getting as much sex as “incel” dudes.

Incels who can’t get sex, refuse to be with women who are actually no better a catch than the them.
Incels have all kinds of psyche complexes that make them believe they deserve a good looking woman with high standards, without significant personal/character/physical changes on their part to match that.

holy hell give me whatever youre smoking
almsot every young woman has a tinder or has tried it

there is no woman out there who cant get laid. you need to get your head checked. make a tinder with the ugliest woman you can find and i can guarantee you will get more matches than your own face would. i knew a girl who was so ugly, it was unreal. she had the worst personality i have even seen. she was obese, covered in pimples, almost balding. the woman had twice as many matches as me on tinder. she was sad because she couldnt get laid. when i asked her about it what she actually meant was that she could only get laid a few times a month. i have made several catfish tinder profiles and i have never mananged to make one that didnt get 50+ likes.

i know incels who make tons of money, has great bodies, status and are great people who can not get laid because they have ugly faces. incels are just people who were dealt bad cards, many of them are reasonable normal humans. most incels would be more than happy with any woman.

I promise you, women care less about looks than men do, even the hot ones. I see what I consider hotter girls, with normal dudes, because I guarantee that dude was kind, considerate, a masculine go-getter who approached her (which is incredibly rare in the west at this point), and made her feel safe.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[ChemHead]

Most of the girls in my church are virgins, and many have not even kissed a dude.

? honestly dude there's no way of knowing this. I'm not one of those people who is going to say that every millennial or zoomer girl is promiscuous, but it's astronomically high in comparison to prior generations. The thing is that there's no shame anymore because we've had two generations raised by the internet telling them that everything that was wrong before is now ok. When you see a bunch of people on the internet talking about their sexual experiences and how everything is ok and they didn't experience any consequences or they didn't get in trouble (or they didn't get stoned ?), then they become much more willing to do things they were taught was wrong until the next generation isn't even taught what is right or wrong. And to the guy who thinks gen z is a "puriteen" generation... Jfl dude. Gen z is even worse than the millennial generation and they literally flaunt it because they are no longer shamed for it. Being a whore is largely a badge of honor now.

With all that being said, not everyone is like this in the west.. Just most.

 

[Herbie]

It's not a mystery that high estrogen is causing this promiscuous behavior.

20 years ago women were slender, now they developed this hypersexual look with the insatiable hips and butts.

We need to look at the contraceptive pill data.

Imagine being a pure attractive women looking for a man to settle with at 18 and then being tricked, lied to, let down, dissapointed by 20 guys by 25 then guys blame them when its men being degenerates who is the problem.

 

[aniciete]

It's not a mystery that high estrogen is causing this promiscuous behavior.

20 years ago women were slender, now they developed this hypersexual look with the insatiable hips and butts.

We need to look at the contraceptive pill data.

Imagine being a pure attractive women looking for a man to settle with at 18 and then being tricked, lied to, let down, dissapointed by 20 guys by 25 then guys blame them when its men being degenerates who is the problem.

Since when do women want to settle with a man at 18 years old?

 

[OccamzRazer]

Since when do women want to settle with a man at 18 years old?

I've met a few, but they're a rarity.

 

[aniciete]

I've met a few, but they're a rarity.

Yeah i bet. I’ve only ever known of 1 couple that’s been together since high school.

 

[ChemHead]

Imagine being a pure attractive women looking for a man to settle with at 18 and then being tricked, lied to, let down, dissapointed by 20 guys by 25 then guys blame them when its men being degenerates who is the problem.

This isn't a male or female problem tbf. The entirety of society has degenerated. However, women could stop it because they have power over their sexual behavior and if women become more chaste and men suddenly have to change their behavior to find a partner to have sexual gratification, they will. It's either that or it would cause an epidemic of rape and don't believe that would be the case.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

? honestly dude there's no way of knowing this.

Don't need to waste my time with anymore of your comment if this is how you start. Many of my friends and community are homeschoolers.

Don't project your bad community and affiliations onto me.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

holy hell give me whatever youre smoking

stop smoking.

tinder is used by very few women in my metroplex.

I never said ugly women can't get sex, I said incels are ugly men who don't accept ugly women being their primary option.

there are plenty of "ugly" or not-conventionally-attractive people who are happy with each other - incels are not those people - because they have issues.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

women could stop it

men were in charge for 5,000 years and you're gonna tell me women need to change it? that's estrogen-dominant beta talk. Men need to operate in extreme ownership like they once did.


View: https://youtu.be/ljqra3BcqWM

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

I've never understood all these guys talking about how terrible girls are these days when their only context is Tinder, Instagram, and porn sites.

How about stop looking in those places? Better yet, how about removing these influences from your life altogether if you can't self regulate.

One's mind/spirit/soul will take on the colour of the influences one allows it to be exposed to. For all the guys looking to meet "decent" girls, how about looking at your church/synagogue/temple/mosque. Or how about talking to family and friends you trust who have similar values to yourself to help you meet similar minded people?

exactly. they basically want to have their cake and eat it, too.

I understand the temptation with how sexualized everything is. one wants to think with his sexuality, rather than his brain - and happen to get a partner who just does whatever they want for the rest of their lives - which they call "conservative;" this usually means settling with foreign women who have no idea of local customs but very primitively view marriage (incels/mgows just want sex in exchange for money, and that's what they often call relationships, anyways), or dysfunctional local women.

family and friend connections are absolutely superior in finding mates, to tinder or bars... ultimately, these people are double minded, drawn so strongly by their own desires, that they aren't extremely honest with themselves and follow their instincts, which will always be finding relationship in family based community, and even waiting longer if needed, in this crazy world.

"looking for love in all the wrong places"

 

[ChemHead]

Don't need to waste my time with anymore of your comment if this is how you start. Many of my friends and community are homeschoolers.

Don't project your bad community and affiliations onto me.

Has nothing to do with that. You're just naive. You seriously don't think that young men and women hide their shame or guard how they're perceived by their parents or other elders in their community? Before the internet, you may have been able to reasonably believe that your kids weren't doing something they ought not to be doing because they simply didn't have easy access to limitless degeneracy. Now, there's no way to know unless you live in an Amish community with no electricity and internet access... And even STILL, the brave ones will sneak out and explore that outside world.

Don't project your perception of my "bad community and affiliations" on me. It's clear that you're triggered by reality.

 

[ChemHead]

men were in charge for 5,000 years and you're gonna tell me women need to change it? that's estrogen-dominant beta talk. Men need to operate in extreme ownership like they once did.

Don't be a fool. We all know that it's largely men who pursue women and that women choose whether men have sex with them or not. I'm not placing blame on women for the way society is, but I am saying that women can change the way things are. If women collectively chose to have more traditional values regarding sex, men would have no choice but to also conform and change their behavior. I'm not placing the burden of responsibility on women. I'm simply stating a fact. The only beta trait in this conversation is being unable to talk about this kind of stuff without being triggered like you are.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

@ChemHead
I'm in North Texas; now you have my whole name as well as my general location.

I will not continue this conversation further, if it's not in person where you have to have a little integrity and face the man who's family and friends you're calling whores.

 

[ChemHead]

@ChemHead
I'm in North Texas; now you have my whole name as well as my general location.

I will not continue this conversation further, if it's not in person where you have to have a little integrity and face the man who's family women you're calling a whore.

Dude wtf is your problem? Are you illiterate? It's clear that you don't actually read my posts. I'm not calling the women in your family whores. I'm saying that the vast majority of people in western culture that are either millennial or gen z are far more promiscuous than previous generations. If your daughters or whoever you're referring to have truly not fallen prey to this trend, then congratulations for being a good parent. That doesn't make any of what I've said untrue.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

I spoke of my community, that I call friends and family, and you said the following:

? honestly dude there's no way of knowing this.

Has nothing to do with that. You're just naive. You seriously don't think that young men and women hide their shame

Don't project your perception of my "bad community and affiliations" on me. It's clear that you're triggered by reality.

I will reiterate once more, that my community includes close friends and family in church and homeschooling environments.