I don't want to rant and rave per se. And I don't want to offend the male population at all....I know many decent, well behaved, humble, and super intelligent ones. Those that are very in touch with their feminine side and know how to treat women/children/elderly. The quiet giant types.
However.
Mass shootings. Fundamentalist radical muslims. College fraternity vandalism. Murder/rape crime in general.
And.....aggressive posters on forums.
Since I started here, I have been reading old posts...the good , the bad and the ugly. Certain posters stand out because 1. they are quick to answer and often and 2., some are very quick tempered if their opinion is refuted or confronted, or oh my god no....ignored. I have read some heated exchanges and people being banned. I admit there was one female who was banned who I believe had serious problems and just fed on the controversy. Young females can be horrific bullies, especially in middle school. (hormone imbalance?) But other than that so far (and I have not read it all) it primarily seems to be a male thing.
Despite the talk of over consumption/exposure of estrogen causing everything from weakened males to homosexuality etc., I believe there may be an overload of testosterone in some.
I must say that it is not only here, but on other forums that I have visited where I see this. I have exited some due to the ugly debates that start....I never participate as I am too old for that. I feel I have lived the years that these young, sometimes know-it-alls have lived, and soon enough they will either have to learn how to chill, or be permanently medicated as they will soon discover their ways will not jive in healthy relationships.
There are different types of intelligence. Knowing a lot about healthy nutrition is good, but it does not make you a rocket scientist. Knowing how to function in society without alienating other people is a wonderful form of intelligence.
Also, this is good for everyone, not just the aggressive. Late in life, or at the end of your years, people may not remember what you said, what you knew, how you looked....but they will remember how you made them feel.
However.
Mass shootings. Fundamentalist radical muslims. College fraternity vandalism. Murder/rape crime in general.
And.....aggressive posters on forums.
Since I started here, I have been reading old posts...the good , the bad and the ugly. Certain posters stand out because 1. they are quick to answer and often and 2., some are very quick tempered if their opinion is refuted or confronted, or oh my god no....ignored. I have read some heated exchanges and people being banned. I admit there was one female who was banned who I believe had serious problems and just fed on the controversy. Young females can be horrific bullies, especially in middle school. (hormone imbalance?) But other than that so far (and I have not read it all) it primarily seems to be a male thing.
Despite the talk of over consumption/exposure of estrogen causing everything from weakened males to homosexuality etc., I believe there may be an overload of testosterone in some.
I must say that it is not only here, but on other forums that I have visited where I see this. I have exited some due to the ugly debates that start....I never participate as I am too old for that. I feel I have lived the years that these young, sometimes know-it-alls have lived, and soon enough they will either have to learn how to chill, or be permanently medicated as they will soon discover their ways will not jive in healthy relationships.
There are different types of intelligence. Knowing a lot about healthy nutrition is good, but it does not make you a rocket scientist. Knowing how to function in society without alienating other people is a wonderful form of intelligence.
Also, this is good for everyone, not just the aggressive. Late in life, or at the end of your years, people may not remember what you said, what you knew, how you looked....but they will remember how you made them feel.