How to stop the horny?

[Nomane Euger]

What it means when you are tall, lift, good androgens on blood tests, sunbath, etc. but no one approaches you and you get little matches online even with various pictures from different angles and aren't ugly?

it can mean multiples things,first that you have not realised yet that ideally you should approach womens if you are good androgens as you said and not the other way arround,and that you have to build up a higher degree of energy and confidence up until you can approach women confortably,specifically when they showed signs of interests such as certains lookings,smiles,and others more esotheric signs,it can also mean that women do not find as handsome as you find yourself in the mirror

 

[Quelsatron]

What it means when you are tall, lift, good androgens on blood tests, sunbath, etc. but no one approaches you and you get little matches online even with various pictures from different angles and aren't ugly?

some alternatives
1) you aren't that handsome
2) you have the wrong idea of what happens when you are handsome
3) you come across as not approachable due to personality/photos/profile/vibe(intimidation factor etc)

probably you need to be more proactive and sociable to get a gf anyway

 

[FrostedShores]

vitamin c erased my libido. Came back 2 days after stopping it

Are you talking about whole vitamin C, or just ascorbic acid? I can see why ascorbic acid might cause this, but I wouldn't think whole vitamin C would be an issue.

 

[catharsis]

Dating apps aren't a great way to fix social or sexual loneliness. I have not had great success on dating apps but I have had a lot of attention IRL. I have also sat around and waited for women to approach me or "give me the go-ahead" in whatever manner to initiate; this is also not viable or realistic.

If you really wish to find a sexual partner or some fun, you would be better off to develop hobbies that naturally put you in the vicinity of people you want to have sex with. Your natural interests will cause you to put more time into those hobbies (because you enjoy doing them inherently) and that will cause you to become proficient and successful within that space. Following that, your "value" as a person increases; or, you are seen as more attractive because you are good in that particular field or dimension of hobby or vocation. You have to transmute that sexual energy into productivity and personal development as those are the only things that last really after an orgasm (and a relationship/emotions but I am not sure if that is prime directive for this thread). Porn is interesting for sexual fantasy development and inspiration but there are very few use-cases that are productive overall. Masturbate with thoughts only. Godspeed.

 

[toolhead]

I cant focus or achieve anything, only thinking but dem ***** all day long. Haidut said thats maybe excess estrogen, but i do progest-e and asprin. The only thing worked for me was the vitamin a, but it gave me a weird chest and throat pain. Intense and short. Anyone managed to control this power?

Deep thought and spiritual insight is what has worked for me. YMMV

 

[laleto12]

Are you talking about whole vitamin C, or just ascorbic acid? I can see why ascorbic acid might cause this, but I wouldn't think whole vitamin C would be an issue.

Hi, It was whole vitamin c powder, camu camu. Im guessing its from the anti-histamine effects of vitamin C

 

[Lokzo]

Ashwagandha can DESTROY libido for a lot of guys.

 

[Explorer]

some alternatives
1) you aren't that handsome
2) you have the wrong idea of what happens when you are handsome
3) you come across as not approachable due to personality/photos/profile/vibe(intimidation factor etc)

probably you need to be more proactive and sociable to get a gf anyway

Many people have said I look "creepy" or intimidating and my eyes kind of have a tense look as I am often tense due to anxiety or thinking a lot constantly.

There is almost no place of hobbies/clubs/socialization whatsoever in this small af country I live in except in capital city and I live at the countryside.

 

[Quelsatron]

Many people have said I look "creepy" or intimidating and my eyes kind of have a tense look as I am often tense due to anxiety or thinking a lot constantly.

There is almost no place of hobbies/clubs/socialization whatsoever in this small af country I live in except in capital city and I live at the countryside.

well there you go, if you care you can try and come across as more open and friendly, and if you have anxiety it's of course good to solve that. for socialization venues i can't help unfortunately

 

[Explorer]

well there you go, if you care you can try and come across as more open and friendly, and if you have anxiety it's of course good to solve that. for socialization venues i can't help unfortunately

I have tried "coming across as more open and friendly" but even when I try to I still feel like there is something off with my face or body language.

 

[catharsis]

I have tried "coming across as more open and friendly" but even when I try to I still feel like there is something off with my face or body language.

Facial tension and low GABA could cause the more aggressive and forced body/face language. A lot of people won't be able to put an exact, specific finger as to why they are scared of you or don't want to approach you. Most you will probably receive is "I dunno" or "You just look unapproachable or angry all the time"... Facial massages and some meditating on pure acceptance of your state will probably lower your tension and put you more in a flow state. There is no "should be" or "must be", there just is.

 

[BestSinceDAYONE]

no horni

**bonk**

there ur fixed

 

[ursidae]

for men: watch tiktok fatherless women compilations or browse r/cuckolds

for women: browse lookism forums or listen in on locker room talk

soon you'll lose all desire for the opposite sex

 

[catharsis]

for men: watch tiktok fatherless women compilations or browse r/cuckolds

for women: browse lookism forums or listen in on locker room talk

soon you'll lose all desire for the opposite sex

It reminds me of a certain neoluddite who foretold the problems of the modern era and how they have been a disaster for the human race. What's that new meme? "Touch grass"? Perhaps we all need to do some grounding and sensate focus with a member of our preferred sex.

 

[Logan-]

Is There A Way To Safely Reduce Male Libido?

Is there a way to reduce a man’s libido without affecting his general well-being? I know Ray said that high estrogen causes "insatiable sexual interest"; but let's assume the man in question doesn't have high estrogen, and is generally healthy.

raypeatforum.com

 

[Old Irenaeus]

I have tried "coming across as more open and friendly" but even when I try to I still feel like there is something off with my face or body language.

I have made one change recently that has brought unexpected interest and openness from women...which, incidentally I am not looking for because I am not looking to date. That thing is spending an inordinate amount of time sunbathing and tanning. Suddenly I am having encounters where women are flirty or chatty with me or just trusting and open, more so than previously.