Aaron
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I have a fear of letting people get close to me. I have been sinking deeper into this place since graduating college, and now, at 25, my priority in life is making ends meet to pay rent. I'll put on a peppy facade, work a job that pays well but involves networking and office politics (most recently as a financial advisor), then when people start asking questions about my personal life and I get uneasy, I'll quit said job and remain unemployed for months before finding another one. I'm constantly making sure people like and enjoy me, yet the last thing I want is friendship - I just want to reassure myself that I'm perceived well. I don't lie; I simply present my positive qualities and omit everything else. I've slowly cut every friend out of my life and I'm not sure why I'm doing this. To some extent I get pleasure from rejecting people, but I don't remember being rejected by other people during my life. It seems to stem from the fact that I've always rejected myself. I'm not even depressed; just avoidant and devoid of purpose and need for others.
My outlet used to be competitive gaming. At first I was well-known with tens of thousands of subscribers on YouTube; years later I scrapped that identity and would change my alias hourly, often to crush the same competition, making them fume under the belief that they were losing to a different person each time. This went on for thousands of hours, and reflects a pattern in my life - to achieve and create, and then to efface and start from scratch over and over again. Every piece of artwork, every reddit and Twitter account, every photo, every article and novel wiped clear to leave no legacy behind.
Not to be melodramatic, but I feel like I am an empty person who shouldn't exist at all, which is a thought that's been bouncing around my head since kindergarten. Is this a mental illness or is this just what I am? I identify as unworthy, unneeded biomass. In fact, I don't even know why I'm writing this. I suppose I just want someone to read it and grant me an epiphany. It's a fairly selfish motive, but my life is this confusing venn diagram of egotism and timidity/masochism. If I am nothing, what is it all for if it's all for myself?
My outlet used to be competitive gaming. At first I was well-known with tens of thousands of subscribers on YouTube; years later I scrapped that identity and would change my alias hourly, often to crush the same competition, making them fume under the belief that they were losing to a different person each time. This went on for thousands of hours, and reflects a pattern in my life - to achieve and create, and then to efface and start from scratch over and over again. Every piece of artwork, every reddit and Twitter account, every photo, every article and novel wiped clear to leave no legacy behind.
Not to be melodramatic, but I feel like I am an empty person who shouldn't exist at all, which is a thought that's been bouncing around my head since kindergarten. Is this a mental illness or is this just what I am? I identify as unworthy, unneeded biomass. In fact, I don't even know why I'm writing this. I suppose I just want someone to read it and grant me an epiphany. It's a fairly selfish motive, but my life is this confusing venn diagram of egotism and timidity/masochism. If I am nothing, what is it all for if it's all for myself?
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