Peata said:I agree, I think so many of us are just so programmed to eat little, especially the early part of the day, from years of weight-loss schemes, intermittent fasting and so forth. It's so ingrained in us by now we don't even realize we are doing it and that it is probably a big part -or at least one part, of our physical and mental/emotional problems. We aren't giving ourselves the energy to do much more than barely function, let along keep blood sugar up, think clearly, be active, etc. I was stuck in that rut until this week.
I know you didn't really direct the post at me, but for me personally I think today was just somewhat of an outlier due to hormones. I'm sure I'm ovulating. And my appetite has been screwed up all day. Plus I've been so sleepy this evening I just wanted to nap and I never do that. It's all kind of blah. I barely did anything on my to-do list and couldn't muster the ambition to work out or take a walk. I think it's more than the lesser calories I had earlier, more about hormones at this point. I just hope to start fresh tomorrow. But at any rate, I had those calories I listed earlier in day, and currently at 9 p.m. I'm at 2,300 and not done for the day. I'm usually well content around 2000, sometimes less, so I'll chalk this up to hormones as I mentioned.
I'm still playing around with the macro ratios, but I seem to want a lot more fat than I thought I would. I usually struggle to get in all the protein too, but I'm getting better at it. I find trying to get a lot in first thing in the morning helps a lot.
I guess if my little theories in my head are right, this setback of energy and bloat should be temporary and I should pull back out of it by tomorrow or Sun at the latest.
I can't seem to lose weight, but at least I've stopped the constant gain now - for over a month I've maintained so that's good at least.
I'm rambling now but I do think you are right in that many of us need to eat more for energy.
Totally agree with the bolded words above. All my years of crazy restriction make it hard for me to wrap my head around preparing more food and making myself eat more at work.
For me, a big part of the problem is lack of motivation to prepare more food. I could eat more, but there's often nothing available that is Peat friendly. If I handled dairy better, I would pound it more often. But I have to limit it. Same with gelatin. So I pack food, but it's often not enough, and there are no quick acceptable snacks around when I'm at work.
I'm also sick of cooking and prepping food. If I had someone who would cook the food and put it in front of me when it was time to eat, I would be all set.
I also can't seem to eat a lot of the same food in one day. So I can eat one banana, but if I increase it to 2, it starts to come up on me. I can do about 3/4 cups of yogurt, but any more than that, and my body says stop. So then I have to search out for something else. I also can't eat that much food at any one time... occasionally she I'm really hungry I can, but if I wait too long to eat, the adrenaline kicks in and my appetite decreases so I can't eat as much, and then 1/2-1 hr later I have to try eating again to make up for it. All these issues make it hard for me to eat enough. I started to do a bit more dairy to increase my calories, but then my acne goes crazy.
Sorry, this kind of turned into a testimonial and I'm not exactly addressing the main post. Trying to figure out if others have problems with getting calories in.