Your friend may have been saving his family. Kids are the best leverage they can ever get on you.I hope I'm not off topic, but rather than create a new thread, I thought it best if I pick the brains of this thread. A friend of mine died last Friday, jumping of the tenth floor of the office, a little before 8 am. He was a rising star in this conglomerate of old money and politics, where businesses are usually the ones that benefit from deregulation and bears usually the hallmark of oligopolies - power generation, energy production, hospitals, private tollways, hospitals etc. But he wasn't the political schmuck, he had earned his wings, starting out as a consultant with McKinsey, leaving it after four years when his father's health declined and he had to come back to help. When the family business was sold off, he went to Hongkong as a player in the manufacturing outscourcing capital of the world, and later on came home to run some businesses in this conglomerate. He is married and has children, the oldest still in the late teens. He is very well-respected and admired, and close friends know him to be mild-mannered, reasonable, self-affacing, and approachable. Normally, a person in such a high position in business would be too busy to mingle with his lesser contemporaries, but he is usually seen in gatherings with friends and family. His mild demeanor belies the successful person that he truly is.
I was seated next to him at dinner two weeks before his death. We talked for a short while. Not being that close to him, it was only after his death that I sensed in hindsight that there was something that caused him to be preoccupied and reticent in our conversation. I found it out of character that he would jump to his death that fateful Friday. The one thing he had in common with the Las Vegas shooter was that their action was unexpected, and not in their nature. I doubt he is the person who would abandon his wife and his children by taking his life.
I do not discuss this matter with our friends, as it is too fresh, and speculating on the cause of his death is discouraged. But I believe truly he did not take his own life, and that he was not himself when he jumped. I felt that he may have been slipped some drug in his drink, by someone who has access and knowledge on how to use drugs. It's not fair for his wife and his children to ever accept that he took his life and left them behind, and that thought makes him look weak and act like a coward. If he had been slipped a powerful mind-altering drug, one that would have a short half-life and leave no traces, what would this drug be like, and who would have access to it? In my mind, this is the work of a sophisticated hit man. My friend could have been privy to some information, in his position to know of some anomalies, and he probably voiced his displeasure in the perpetuation of these.
I am reminded of how, a few years back, not too long ago, when a promising secretary of local government, another rising star, died in a plane crash. He was making all the right moves in putting our government back to work for the people, and his demise was a great loss. There was little investigation done in the aftermath. He was given a hero's burial, and that was the end of it. It is why the world, I feel, continues to devolve, as the establishment that mans the gates, wouldn't let those with keys to them, bring the world to a better place- the promised land, flowing with milk and honey.