Attracting Women: What’s The Secret?

[IPlayDart]

Dude wtf? You are supposed to have fun.

You think it’s fun wanking off to porn? I feel like a loser doing that. It’s a waste of time and energy.

 

[DeadCatBounce]

All the answers here are superficial and won't help you. I can literally look at a woman and be attractive, and then, by changing nothing in my posture or expression look at her in a way that causes her to recoil away and close sown her body language in defense. Women like stuff like being tall and having money, but a women feels in a deep way a man can not. She feels you, who you are and what you intend. She might say she would never have sex with you because you are short, but would have sex with a shorter man because he is attractive. A women is attracted to you energy.

Your issue is craving. That energetically drives away what you want. Especially women. Women want to be desired. They absolutely do not want to fill an emptiness inside you. Sedona Method should help. Let go of that need to be loved, and you will attract women. Learn to feel your emotions, and bodily sensations. For this meditation, yoga and tantra are helpful. Open you heart and learn to love unconditionally, even a little bit an you will be supremely attractive. Advaita Vedanta/nonduality in the tradition Ramana Maharishi is IMHO the easiset. And go do some Radical Honesty workshops, you in likelyhood are dishonest with women. Most men are, women feel it, and hate and fear it.

Looks, youth, money, height. All nice and women like them. But Eckhart Tolle is a sex symbol to many women, Mooji allegedly has a harem, and there are guys living in their cars playing guitar all day with stunning women in their lives. Women see your soul, even if they don't know they do. It's not what you do. It's who you are that attracts women. There is no trick that would make a fat woman attractive to me. Women are no different.

Bingo.

 

[Rinse & rePeat]

Do women notice when a guy hasn’t ejaculated in a long time?

I don’t think anything past a week or two makes much of a difference.

 

[Rinse & rePeat]

You think it’s fun wanking off to porn? I feel like a loser doing that. It’s a waste of time and energy.

Good for you again!

 

[IPlayDart]

Bingo.

What a wonderful post by our beloved Hugh. Amazing.

 

[Makrosky]

You think it’s fun wanking off to porn? I feel like a loser doing that. It’s a waste of time and energy.

I wasn't talking about porn. You said you got a blowjob and retained. But hey, do what you want mate, what can I say.

 

[IPlayDart]

I wasn't talking about porn. You said you got a blowjob and retained. But hey, do what you want mate, what can I say.

I retained because I had no libido in that moment. I was drunk as hell and the woman was ugly.

What’s your longest SR streak? Just out of curiosity.

 

[Rinse & rePeat]

I retained because I had no libido in that moment. I was drunk as hell and the woman was ugly.

Alcohol is the worst for a sex life. I love your honesty!

 

[Makrosky]

I retained because I had no libido in that moment. I was drunk as hell and the woman was ugly.

What’s your longest SR streak? Just out of curiosity.

Ah! Sorry! I missunderstood you then. About 30 days a couple of times but I don't do that anymore. I don't think it is good to retain more than 7-10 days (or more if you are old or ill) unless you do some transmutation work of the sexual energy.

 

[Rinse & rePeat]

Ah! Sorry! I missunderstood you then. About 30 days a couple of times but I don't do that anymore. I don't think it is good to retain more than 7-10 days (or more if you are old or ill) unless you do some transmutation work of the sexual energy.

I though climaxing causes a rise in serotonin?

 

[Makrosky]

I though climaxing causes a rise in serotonin?

I think it is very necessary to do things that seem unbalancing so things becom really balanced.

 

[aniciete]

I though climaxing causes a rise in serotonin?

Prolactin and its increase is negligible in a healthy individual.

 

[Rinse & rePeat]

Prolactin and its increase is negligible in a healthy individual.

“The physiological responses our bodies have to sex can minimize the symptoms of anxiety and depression. Deficiencies in nitric oxide are associated with irritability, depression, anxiety, insomnia, and less energy. Having sex increases your body's nitric oxide levels. Sex also increases epinephrine, oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin, all of which are linked to mood, behavior, and well-being.”

How a healthy sex life can help minimize depression and anxiety symptoms

When you struggle with anxiety or depression, sex may be the last thing on your mind. But understanding the physiological and mental benefits of a healthy sex life can help it become a tool for well-being.

bigthink.com

 

[aniciete]

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"if the man hasn't expelled semen frequently there is greater risk of having chromosomal defective sperm cells"

 

[TMCMac]

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"if the man hasn't expelled semen frequently there is greater risk of having chromosomal defective sperm cells"

Lmao thats funny . I will say I havent able to replicate the mood boosting socializing and confident effects I get from NoFap with anything else. I think it relates to higher dopamine sensitivity and theres evidence after ejac theres a rise in estrogen receptors in the brain and lower androgen receptor.

 

[IPlayDart]

Lmao thats funny . I will say I havent able to replicate the mood boosting socializing and confident effects I get from NoFap with anything else. I think it relates to higher dopamine sensitivity and theres evidence after ejac theres a rise in estrogen receptors in the brain and lower androgen receptor.

NoPMO is the key to happiness. There’s no way around it. The mental clarity on a long streak is out of this world.