jnklheimer
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- Jan 9, 2021
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They are very stupid. The person with narcissistic traits who I know treats his family members pretty badly on an emotional level. Then when they blow up at him and he can’t handle the stress of being yelled at after the target of his abuse has had enough, he will whine and ask nobody in particular what he has to do to get relief.The problem is that those people (narcissistic) have to take very simple decisions to have it reasonably good in life, but instead they are running around making everyone they touch unhappy and miserable. It looks like they are very stupid. And very nasty. And greedy.
Now that I recognize that this person feeds off the conflict and gives meaning to his life via the negative emotions he conjures up, I do a better job of not being triggered by their stupidity.