Edging Without Ejaculation? Is It Safe?

[ecstatichamster]

I enjoy edging with my wife, a great deal. And the one thing I've realized is that my erections are kind of poor the more I edge. I'm not sure if this is really true, but it seems true. Normally my erections are very, very good, but not as much when I'm edging. I wonder if anyone else has that experience.

Edging is extremely pleasurable and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. But there is vasocongestion ("blue balls") that can be painful. And it may cause the prostate to become larger temporarily as it is filled with fluid, and this may make urinating not as easy.

My conclusion is that there has to be a partial release when pressure becomes too great. I personally dislike ejaculatory orgasms because it causes me to become very depressed and uninterested in sex with my wife and less sensitive, for 3 or 4 days.

 

[Jing]

I do SABRE technique occasionally (sans power tools)[/QUOTE]
This Janus method yh?

 

[Jing]

I enjoy edging with my wife, a great deal. And the one thing I've realized is that my erections are kind of poor the more I edge. I'm not sure if this is really true, but it seems true. Normally my erections are very, very good, but not as much when I'm edging. I wonder if anyone else has that experience.

My erections are much better if I have been edging so is my flaccid hang.

 

[Jing]

I got random pelvic spasms from edging.

I do SABRE technique occasionally (sans power tools)

This Janus method yh?

 

[ecstatichamster]

My erections are much better if I have been edging so is my flaccid hang.

very interesting, thank you.

 

[steel_reserve]

This Janus method yh?

Yes.

 

[orewashin]

My heart was stopping for a split second at points near orgasm. It possibly stimulates the autonomic nervous system too strongly.

 

[Jing]

Yes.

What results have you seen from it? I've done his angion methods too maybe better erection quality and few new veins. Been doing his methods for months with no size gains not to sure they do increase size like he says . I even followed his vegan low salt diet lol .

 

[steel_reserve]

Angion 1.0 was good for erection quality and now I'm less of a grower.

SABRE works down at the root of the penis and I've noticed systemic effects. This is either due to increased blood glow or extra heat. When I wake from a nap my taint is uncomfortably warm and I can feel my pulse down there.

As a caution: I'm really tired in a way that reminds me of a previous Clomid trial (minus the mental fog). My muscles are getting bigger and for a few days after each exercise my voice feels and sounds amazing and I'm more emotional. But SO tired.

I'm going to the doc to make sure my hormones aren't crazy out of whack.

It's worth noting that these exercises should be done lying down.

Also in my experience Angion 1.0 is very pleasurable and SABRE is uncomfortable

 

[Jing]

Angion 1.0 was good for erection quality and now I'm less of a grower.

SABRE works down at the root of the penis and I've noticed systemic effects. This is either due to increased blood glow or extra heat. When I wake from a nap my taint is uncomfortably warm and I can feel my pulse down there.

As a caution: I'm really tired in a way that reminds me of a previous Clomid trial (minus the mental fog). My muscles are getting bigger and for a few days after each exercise my voice feels and sounds amazing and I'm more emotional. But SO tired.

I'm going to the doc to make sure my hormones are crazy out of whack.

What do you mean your muscles are getting bigger? From sabre lol? I can feel my pulse to in my penis but no growth I think he's in this for the money tbh lol.

 

[steel_reserve]

What do you mean your muscles are getting bigger? From sabre lol? I can feel my pulse to in my penis but no growth I think he's in this for the money tbh lol.

My wife said, "Where did these muscles come from?"

Prior to her saying that I've had a weird sensation when I cross my arms. i don't recognize them by touch. They don't feel like mine.

 

[Jing]

My wife said, "Where did these muscles come from?"

Prior to her saying that I've had a weird sensation when I cross my arms. i don't recognize them by touch. They don't feel like mine.

Now I'm confused what does this have to do with sabre lol?

 

[not_James_Bond]

Don't understand Janus, says to not ejaculate but his methods are you basically play with your d.ick, for 30 minutes or more 2-3 times a week lmao

 

[Jing]

Don't understand Janus, says to not ejaculate but his methods are you basically play with your d.ick, for 30 minutes or more 2-3 times a week lmao

Lol

 

[steel_reserve]

Now I'm confused what does this have to do with sabre lol?

Extra heat/blood flow in my taint area. Ive had similar results from putting cold packs on my balls and a few days after recovering from an illness.

Yesterday my wife's family said that I've "changed".

 

[Jing]

Extra heat/blood flow in my taint area. Ive had similar results from putting cold packs on my balls and a few days after recovering from an illness.

Yesterday my wife's family said that I've "changed".

You having sex with your wife's family or something lol?

 

[Jonnie]

My heart was stopping for a split second at points near orgasm. It possibly stimulates the autonomic nervous system too strongly.

Why do I feel like I’m about to pass out when I read these kinds of things.

 

[VansEnigma]

It’s dangerous because it increases dopamine and perpetuates ED and the problem. Whatever you do in terms of masturbation has nothing really to do with how intercourse works out. It is very, very important to avoid any stimuli whatever, and any arousal or excitement, including and especially fantasy.

@ecstatichamster I've run into similar issues and it's definitely due to pornography. I've never masturbated, however, I would consume a lot of porn during my teens. This put me in a perpetual edging state, eventually numbing my senses. I would often ejaculate through wet dreams since I don't release during porn consumption. This messed up my brain for a bit.

I can last very long in bed but at the cost of not being able to ejaculate. This is fine for short-term hookups. For a long-term relationship, it's quite problematic. I've read here that L-histidine can help. Other than that, I would assume a complete NoFAP would be the solution based on reading articles from other sites (no porn, masturbation, softcore, etc.). Do you have any other tips?

 

[ecstatichamster]

@ecstatichamster I've run into similar issues and it's definitely due to pornography. I've never masturbated, however, I would consume a lot of porn during my teens. This put me in a perpetual edging state, eventually numbing my senses. I would often ejaculate through wet dreams since I don't release during porn consumption. This messed up my brain for a bit.

I can last very long in bed but at the cost of not being able to ejaculate. This is fine for short-term hookups. For a long-term relationship, it's quite problematic. I've read here that L-histidine can help. Other than that, I would assume a complete NoFAP would be the solution based on reading articles from other sites (no porn, masturbation, softcore, etc.). Do you have any other tips?

when you find a woman you like, suggest that you sleep together 3 or 4 times without having sexual intercourse or oral sex. Cuddle and snuggle and then, after the 4th time, when you do have intercourse, aim for not ejaculating, and relaxing your pelvic floor. It’s fine to discuss this with her in advance if you want. You can explain you are recovering from a problem. Women admire a man who tackles a problem.

Over time, if you avoid ejaculatory sex, you will become more and more wired to sensation. Focusing on your pelvic floor, what I call the root, is essential. You will over time easily ejaculate if you want to.

 

[VansEnigma]

when you find a woman you like, suggest that you sleep together 3 or 4 times without having sexual intercourse or oral sex. Cuddle and snuggle and then, after the 4th time, when you do have intercourse, aim for not ejaculating, and relaxing your pelvic floor. It’s fine to discuss this with her in advance if you want. You can explain you are recovering from a problem. Women admire a man who tackles a problem.

Over time, if you avoid ejaculatory sex, you will become more and more wired to sensation. Focusing on your pelvic floor, what I call the root, is essential. You will over time easily ejaculate if you want to.

Thank you for your advice. Recently, this woman has been very insecure and sad because she thinks it is her fault that she is unable to satisfy me. But the problem lies deeper. It's my history of misuse of pornography. However, I believe if I completely avoid all pornography and edging from similar online content, eventually I can rewire my brain to this.

I appreciate your advice. Can any supplement work for this? Or is this a case of just rewiring how the brain works?