Herbie
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This thread has been hijacked by religion, I didn't ask for help, I wrote it for others.
The issue I have with people talking about addiction is most people haven't thought about what it really means and maybe we can agree that it's when someonthing is doing something which is harming themselves in which they cannot stop. Masterbating and sex can be harmful but it also not be harmful depending.
In the context of this thread, it's not about addiction because it's sharing challenges of practicing abstinence. I find semen retention is a highly addictive torture which I can revil in. I did it for 6 months, was watching yoga on YouTube and the yoga girl did something in a way which you could see her vagina on purpose and it destroyed the six months. I wasn't looking at porn, wasn't looking for it. I've found sexually provocative women will ruin it, I think it's easy if your a monk in a cave, isolated by temptation.
The thing with porn is what kind of porn are people looking at? Is it photos of admiring women's physical beauty or hardcore anal gangbangs etc you know? Is the person highly sexually experienced in the real world, It's not that cut and dry.
Everything is a cope as far I can tell, religion is a cope, I've read philosophy and religious texts and when I'm at my weakest and most lost, I think its good when I am thinking for myself and moving forward, that's what the people who wrote the books were doing. I leant already putting people on pedistals is a major fail.
This thread has been hijacked by religion, I didn't ask for help, I wrote it for others.
The issue I have with people talking about addiction is most people haven't thought about what it really means and maybe we can agree that it's when someonthing is doing something which is harming themselves in which they cannot stop. Masterbating and sex can be harmful but it also not be harmful depending.
In the context of this thread, it's not about addiction because it's sharing challenges of practicing abstinence. I find semen retention is a highly addictive torture which I can revil in. I did it for 6 months, was watching yoga on YouTube and the yoga girl did something in a way which you could see her vagina on purpose and it destroyed the six months. I wasn't looking at porn, wasn't looking for it. I've found sexually provocative women will ruin it, I think it's easy if your a monk in a cave, isolated by temptation.
The thing with porn is what kind of porn are people looking at? Is it photos of admiring women's physical beauty or hardcore anal gangbangs etc you know? Is the person highly sexually experienced in the real world, It's not that cut and dry.
Everything is a cope as far I can tell, religion is a cope, I've read philosophy and religious texts and when I'm at my weakest and most lost, I think its good when I am thinking for myself and moving forward, that's what the people who wrote the books were doing. I leant already putting people on pedistals is a major fail.