Hah! I've found a kindred spirit!! I can no longer justify lingering in this toxic place though, so sorry I didn't find you sooner.
I'm going to try out this other forum for a while to see if it's a better fit. I'm going to post there as "mostlylurkng".
Here's an example of a thread:
Ray Peat: The importance of sugar and the dangers of fat (stress) metabolism
for your consideration, here's the forum's Terms and Rules:
Thank you for sharing a link to the forum with me, lurking. I really appreciate you taking the time to do so, however, I think it’s best for me to take a break from health forums for a while or maybe for good. I don’t feel I’m serving people well on them.
Just to be clear, I’m not leaving because I hate the players, but because I hate the game. I will miss you all and the camaraderie we shared while finding our truth, and I wish only the best for you. I really do.