Well said, Ella!But we can learn to say no and let others know we need help and looking after also. Its OK to be imperfect, we are a work in
Mmm...yeah. It's sad when you learn that the people who you would do anything for if they were in need don't share that same attitude toward you. But then I found people who didn't know me from Adam who were really supportive and tried to help — Amazoniac always sending me info, Blossom, tara, Sue, Diane, Charlie, Narouz, pboy etc. and their kind words, and VoS. VoS was unbelievably supportive, always checking up on me and trying to help. I have a lot of love for members here and the support I was given (and still get) and thanks to them, it makes resentment hard to hold onto. It doesn't replace the need for physical help, but I hope you've found some support and comfort over the years with the forum, also.I do wish I had more help back when I felt like death. I carry some resentment due to it.
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