And you can only do that when you accept yourself, and then make that quality you have been trying to accept for so long your strength not your weakness so it adds depth to your character and personality, and it can no longer be used as ammo against you.
This.
@Callmestar, have you ever tried to counter negative comments with something positive about yourself? For example, you mentioned having very blue eyes. They sound beautiful. Maybe when someone says something negative about your skin, immediately think about how nice your eyes are until their words, or your own negative thoughts about your skin, no longer affect you? So basically, slowly replacing the low/uncomfortable feeling that is experienced with a perceived negative with the high vibe feeling that is experienced with positive reinforcement until the negative feels positive?