Why you've attached to BPD lovers, and how to quit it. www.ShariSchreiber.com

[miraddo]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLPAFaoDT64&t=210s

 

[Makrosky]

It only takes one time to realize how damn TOXIC a relationship with a BPD person is. After that, run away and don't look back any time you see these traits in a lover/partner. It won't bring anything good besides maybe some kind of wild sex. Unless you are masochistic and like to harm yourself

 

[Makrosky]

To summarize, the way to quit it is : Run.

 

[golder]

I feel like i have a fair few BPD traits when I read the symptoms online. However, I also feel like they are manifestations of being hypometabolic for so long and as the brains way of trying to manipulate the environment when in a low energy state. Would a lifelong commitment to rectifying metabolism because able to get someone out of this rut?

 

[haidut]

I feel like i have a fair few BPD traits when I read the symptoms online. However, I also feel like they are manifestations of being hypometabolic for so long and as the brains way of trying to manipulate the environment when in a low energy state. Would a lifelong commitment to rectifying metabolism because able to get someone out of this rut?

Yep, nothing but manifestation of lower brain (and possibly systemic) metabolism.

Aggression Is Caused By Low Oxidative Metabolism

Another confirmation of Peat's ideas, in addition to the already known link between estrogen and aggression. I already posted a human study on aggression between spouses being linked to low blood sugar, which matches well with this study below. http://www.newseveryday.com/articles/26 ...

raypeatforum.com

I know the above link is on aggression, but when the first trials with SSRI drugs (which reliably lower brain ATP levels) were conducted on people it quickly became obvious the drugs were making people BPD-ed. Subsequent studies confirmed those effects of SSRI and other pro-serotonin drugs.

SSRI Drugs Increase Violent Behavior And Promote Recidivism

Despite decades of animal research demonstrating how elevated serotonin in general, and SSRI drugs in particular, turn animals into homicidal, vicious creatures, (and are actually the cause of depression and not the cure for it) mainstream medicine continues to deny that such scary effects are...

raypeatforum.com

So, for many/most people something as simple as daily use of an anti-serotonin substance may help quite a bit. Btw, in many people, aside from stress, protein deficiency can also cause serotonin excess and I have seen quite a few people become complete new (as in, better personality) people after a solid protein meal. So, if you are not getting your 1g/kg bodyweight protein daily it may be a good idea to start from there and see if you even need the anti-serotonin interventions.