Why does "peating" sometimes can make you asexual

[Gânico]

Well, since peating i experienced way better mood, euphoria and energy, all day. But some other thing i noticed is that i tend to lack sexual interest, i kinda feel like a child sometimes, besides being a young adult, lol.

Maybe this happens because very low estrogen/stress hormones? What do u guys think?

Can anyone else relate?

 

[Old Irenaeus]

How did you achieve that? I've been having the opposite problem, although when I am in a euphoric state I do feel more composed and calm.

 

[TheSir]

Most of us are running around in a state of stress-fueled hypersexuality. In contrast to this, the deeper current of our natural sexuality can seem surprisingly tame. To my understanding, healthy sexuality could be described as a subtle readiness in the background, one that does not just spontaneously become oppressively intense. Therefore the central question is: can you get excited when you need to? To feel like a child is a very good sign. Ideally that feeling would last through our lives.

 

[Vanset]

what do you eat exactly if u don't mind my asking?

 

[Gânico]

How did you achieve that? I've been having the opposite problem, although when I am in a euphoric state I do feel more composed and calm.

what do you eat exactly if u don't mind my asking?

I eat pretty much like the "standard" peat diet, but i incorporate some aspects of the raw primal of aajonus as well.

Lots of raw milk, raw gelatinous meat, available good quality fruit, raw liver 1-2x a week, raw honey, coffee..

can you get excited when you need to? To feel like a child is a very good sign. Ideally that feeling would last through our lives.

Sure, i get excited if i see some woman naked, for example.. but you know i don't feel like i need to have sex at all or pursue it as a "staple" in my life, it's kinda hard to explain but i think you got the idea.

 

[TheSir]

i don't feel like i need to have sex at all or pursue it as a "staple" in my life,

That's great. Sex by no means needs to be a staple in one's life. This notion, that recreational sex is a central part of life, is a result of a fundamental-level perversion that prevails over the modern culture. It is our physical and moral sickness that propels us to depend on sex as a source of meaning. Most other mammals have no problem with only having sex once a year, and only for reproduction. Should we be that different?

 

[Old Irenaeus]

That's great. Sex by no means needs to be a staple in one's life. This notion, that recreational sex is a central part of life, is a result of a fundamental-level perversion that prevails over the modern culture. It is our physical and moral sickness that propels us to depend on sex as a source of meaning. Most other mammals have no problem with only having sex once a year, and only for reproduction. Should we be that different?

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[Riesensackteil]

I eat pretty much like the "standard" peat diet, but i incorporate some aspects of the raw primal of aajonus as well.

Lots of raw milk, raw gelatinous meat, available good quality fruit, raw liver 1-2x a week, raw honey, coffee..


Sure, i get excited if i see some woman naked, for example.. but you know i don't feel like i need to have sex at all or pursue it as a "staple" in my life, it's kinda hard to explain but i think you got the idea.

Try bromo or caber and see where your problems stem from

 

[Makrosky]

TheSir comments are spot on.

@merberg an indication of going in the right direction is the orgasm quality.

 

[JamesGatz]

This is the way I view it:

In a state of estrogen/stress/serotonin/anti-metabolic state - people get quiet horny - where they feel they have to get off any means necessary - whether that comes from watching porn or messing around with a chick that they usually wouldn't stoop down to - they feel the need to ejaculate - I think serotonergic animals such as chimpanzees are a great example of this - they have rampant sex especially group sex in their clans and seem to be quiet horny.

In a state of low-stress/high DHT - I don't necessarily view it as asexual - for example if you look at high-androgenic animals such as lions and gorillas - they are slow-moving and come off as lazy but they have no problems making the sex happen when the time comes - it seems that getting off is no longer a priority i.e. the individual can still be aroused and want to have sex but they do not feel like they absolutely need to ejaculate. I find in this state the individual does not desire to watch porn and prefers to talk to real women -

The vasoconstrictive effects of DHT can make the man think he is asexual (since your genitals are not hanging low - sometimes it feels like you can't get your genitals aroused when in reality the genitals are just waiting for the sight of a real women) but I find that in this state - the genitals don't get aroused unless you're talking to real women and especially good-looking women - you feel the need/drive to go and talk to real women because that is what really gets you off

 

[LLight]

I make a bet that your intake of fluid is "too" high.

 

[Gânico]

That's great. Sex by no means needs to be a staple in one's life. This notion, that recreational sex is a central part of life, is a result of a fundamental-level perversion that prevails over the modern culture. It is our physical and moral sickness that propels us to depend on sex as a source of meaning. Most other mammals have no problem with only having sex once a year, and only for reproduction. Should we be that different?

Wise words. I don't think this is a necessarily bad thing aswell, i'm just surprised how our behaviours can change so radically and quickly.

See, a year ago i ate the "standard" diet, and my sex drive would hit uranus, couldn't go 1 day without ejaculating, but i didn't feel 1/3 as good as i feel today, i was depressed, angry, stressed, etc..

It seems like happiness and sex drive are inversely proportional, at least for me.

 

[Gânico]

This is the way I view it:

In a state of estrogen/stress/serotonin/anti-metabolic state - people get quiet horny - where they feel they have to get off any means necessary - whether that comes from watching porn or messing around with a chick that they usually wouldn't stoop down to - they feel the need to ejaculate - I think serotonergic animals such as chimpanzees are a great example of this - they have rampant sex especially group sex in their clans and seem to be quiet horny.

In a state of low-stress/high DHT - I don't necessarily view it as asexual - for example if you look at high-androgenic animals such as lions and gorillas - they are slow-moving and come off as lazy but they have no problems making the sex happen when the time comes - it seems that getting off is no longer a priority i.e. the individual can still be aroused and want to have sex but they do not feel like they absolutely need to ejaculate. I find in this state the individual does not desire to watch porn and prefers to talk to real women -

The vasoconstrictive effects of DHT can make the man think he is asexual (since your genitals are not hanging low - sometimes it feels like you can't get your genitals aroused when in reality the genitals are just waiting for the sight of a real women) but I find that in this state - the genitals don't get aroused unless you're talking to real women and especially good-looking women - you feel the need/drive to go and talk to real women because that is what really gets you off

Excellent observation as always, James

 

[Gânico]

I make a bet that your intake of fluid is "too" high.

The only thing i drink is raw milk, around 3 liters/gallon a day, how do you think this could influence?

 

[Razvan]

This can happen when you eat fruits and dairy. Low iron and low zinc can cause this. Also Ray Peat diet is filled with copper. All the calcium and cooper can cause this feeling which is not a bad thing honestly. While in this state i notice that my brain is more rapid and i'm always joking around. Eating some beef and eggs with lots of salt can cause this feeling to go away and raise your sexuality more while lowering the playfull style on life. This is why i don't eliminate beef completly from the diet. Also lowered estrogen and not enough t3 could be a thing.

 

[LLight]

The only thing i drink is raw milk, around 3 liters/gallon a day, how do you think this could influence?

I'm not sure (this is an hypothesis) but too much liquid even if it's not water could potentially decrease hormones production.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

Well, since peating i experienced way better mood, euphoria and energy, all day. But some other thing i noticed is that i tend to lack sexual interest, i kinda feel like a child sometimes, besides being a young adult, lol.

Maybe this happens because very low estrogen/stress hormones? What do u guys think?

Can anyone else relate?

Congrats bro... that’s all our goals.
Now you can focus on improving your heart and character without sex need/diversions, and their subsequent mind altering problems. And you’ll become an excellent man to become a future father and husband, when you find the right woman :)

But, I second the other guys, you wanna function well when it’s appropriate, otherwise you actually are hypogonadal (I believe it’s good to function only in the confines of marriage whenever you see your smokin hot wife at all times of day )

If you’re eating enough sugar, protein, and calcium, it really shouldn’t be a problem.

 

[BRBsavinWorld]

The only thing i drink is raw milk, around 3 liters/gallon a day, how do you think this could influence?

Listen to Razvan, he’s on point!

Also, do know that Ray himself consumes and supports the consumption of 2-3 liters of milk, on top of oj and brothy dishes. That’s a lot of fluid. You may want to elevate salt consumption with all that fluid, but that can simply be Gauged by taste.

 

[youngsinatra]

This can happen when you eat fruits and dairy. Low iron and low zinc can cause this. Also Ray Peat diet is filled with copper. All the calcium and cooper can cause this feeling which is not a bad thing honestly. While in this state i notice that my brain is more rapid and i'm always joking around. Eating some beef and eggs with lots of salt can cause this feeling to go away and raise your sexuality more while lowering the playfull style on life. This is why i don't eliminate beef completly from the diet. Also lowered estrogen and not enough t3 could be a thing.

+1

 

[Gânico]

This can happen when you eat fruits and dairy. Low iron and low zinc can cause this. Also Ray Peat diet is filled with copper. All the calcium and cooper can cause this feeling which is not a bad thing honestly. While in this state i notice that my brain is more rapid and i'm always joking around. Eating some beef and eggs with lots of salt can cause this feeling to go away and raise your sexuality more while lowering the playfull style on life. This is why i don't eliminate beef completly from the diet. Also lowered estrogen and not enough t3 could be a thing.

Yeah, i imagined that, always saw dairy and fruits as more "calming" foods, if u know what i mean, lol. Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts, mate.

Congrats bro... that’s all our goals.
Now you can focus on improving your heart and character without sex need/diversions, and their subsequent mind altering problems. And you’ll become an excellent man to become a future father and husband, when you find the right woman :)

But, I second the other guys, you wanna function well when it’s appropriate, otherwise you actually are hypogonadal (I believe it’s good to function only in the confines of marriage whenever you see your smokin hot wife at all times of day )

If you’re eating enough sugar, protein, and calcium, it really shouldn’t be a problem.

Thanks dude, like i said, i don't really have problems "functioning", still got qualty erections when stimulated, morning woods.. i'm just not that much interested in pursuing sex or masturbating at all, right now as i am.