What Really Matters To Women

[GutFeeling]

LOL

 

[ecstatichamster]

why should I care about what matters to women?

I'm not joking.

This type of video is a bit repellent to me.

 

[Frankdee20]

There exist general consensus on what women value, but then there are women who value the man for intangible attributes. The consensus is not always the rule, but who the hell wants a woman with hangups anyway. Let them grow alone and old with 6 cats because they were too stuck on their own ideals.

 

[Alpha]

Women want men.

 

[Sheik]

I don't know what your 'LOL' means, but the video is kind of bs. Looks matter. Money matters. But game works.

Not that it matters what attracts "women".

 

[ecstatichamster]

women want men who are successful at life, and who are confident. They won't want men who are trying to get women to like them.

Men want women who are sexually attractive and beyond that, it varies...

I personally feel that most men are better off with one woman, and women are better off with one man, as pair bonding offers many advantages.

I think there is this wrong headed idea promulgated that there are no rules, that sex makes us happy, and that pair bonding is old fashioned.

This is a huge danger.

I read this which I feel is both entertaining and correct:
Leave Them Vids Alone - Taki's Magazine

W.H. Auden once said that Eros was the builder of cities. If true, that would explain why American infrastructure is collapsing from decay.

Likewise, many of the attitudes and hobbies of millennials—that seem inscrutable to what the hippies called “the straight world”—have to do with a porned-out mind. The average millennial has the kind of look that used to be described as “otherworldly.” By their late 20s/early 30s, many look just plain burned-out, like a fruit that passed over ripe and went straight to rotten. The millennials who have blown out their libido or manhood on porn are the equivalent of the hippies who went deaf from blasting their music or who went blind from staring at the sun (although the latter were probably apocryphal).

In hindsight, behind the neurotic mannerisms of Woody Allen and now, too, Louis C.K. (who saw himself as the heir to Woody’s sensibility), we can read back sexual dysfunction. You’d be nervous too, if you had their sex lives. This even sheds light on Louis C.K.’s and Harvey Weinstein’s bizarre sexual advances: If you’re a powerful Hollywood player wanting to impose yourself on a woman, why settle for merely masturbating for these girls? It is perhaps because they are no longer virile. Their sexuality has been destroyed through masturbation, as C.K.’s material suggests it has, so they are unable to have normal sex—or even commit the more straightforward act of sexual domination, rape. Masturbation was all they had left.

 

[GutFeeling]

I just used the video to show that women find the male appearance extremely important, act completely differently, and even treat unfairly well whom they find attractive.

Other videos on this channel show a little more, even if an ugly or regular guy has confidence and good chat women usually prefer a lot more an attractive man who does not have these characteristics.

Look at jeremy meeks, he was part of a gang, he was charged with murder, and yet women just love him.
Ted Bundy was a demon, and yet at the end of his life he received many letters from admirers.
These videos caught my attention because it shows a large number of women have more ***t in the head than men.
There are exceptions of course, and maybe they are few ..

These are perhaps early observations, I will pay more attention to understand the depth of this.

 

[Zpol]

I think women and men alike want the same thing, the feeling of love. It doesn't matter what attributes or characteristics a man has, if he gives you that amazing feeling of love when you look at him that's all it takes, it's everything. That feeling is everything I look forward to and strive for even if it's just for a moment. But you don't know how great it is until you actually feel it. Without knowing it, one may find them self 'shopping' around looking for a guy to match their checklist. I know many gals who have 'vision boards' or something to manifest the right man, this seems weird to me. I personally risked a lot and lost a lot when I hooked up with my man, it has been so worth it, wish i would have done it sooner.

 

[Atman]

I think women and men alike want the same thing, the feeling of love. It doesn't matter what attributes or characteristics a man has, if he gives you that amazing feeling of love when you look at him that's all it takes, it's everything. That feeling is everything I look forward to and strive for even if it's just for a moment. But you don't know how great it is until you actually feel it. Without knowing it, one may find them self 'shopping' around looking for a guy to match their checklist. I know many gals who have 'vision boards' or something to manifest the right man, this seems weird to me. I personally risked a lot and lost a lot when I hooked up with my man, it has been so worth it, wish i would have done it sooner.

Rule #1:
Never ask a woman what women want.
Such a cliché but true.

 

[Inaut]

Women want men.

I'll take this half a step further...

Women want men that act like men...that is...to provide a sense of security/strength (in the pre-millennial context of what a man was. nowadays, up is down and definitions are loosely/freely interpreted by the cult-ure). Above all, women value blunt honesty---or atleast that's been my experience

 

[baccheion]

Women are attracted to signs of higher androgenicity:estrogencity (assertiveness, confidence, drive/ambition, fat/muscle/water distribution, skull shape, lower body fat, etc). More estrogenic women (while not being estrogen dominant) are attracted to testosterone and more progesterone-biased women to DHT. Women only show a preference for high masculinity during ovulation.

 

[Dobbler]

Money and/or extraordinary looks

 

[What-a-Riot]

women are people, all kinds of people are all kinds of ways. figure this question and the discussion it provokes for some armchair anthropology. not saying it's necessarily objectively wrong or offensive to have opinions on "what women (so vaguely) want," but for me it does kind of insult the complexity of our (human) kind

 

[Christopher R.]

women want men who are successful at life, and who are confident. They won't want men who are trying to get women to like them.

Men want women who are sexually attractive and beyond that, it varies...

I personally feel that most men are better off with one woman, and women are better off with one man, as pair bonding offers many advantages.

I think there is this wrong headed idea promulgated that there are no rules, that sex makes us happy, and that pair bonding is old fashioned.

This is a huge danger.

I read this which I feel is both entertaining and correct:
Leave Them Vids Alone - Taki's Magazine

W.H. Auden once said that Eros was the builder of cities. If true, that would explain why American infrastructure is collapsing from decay.

Likewise, many of the attitudes and hobbies of millennials—that seem inscrutable to what the hippies called “the straight world”—have to do with a porned-out mind. The average millennial has the kind of look that used to be described as “otherworldly.” By their late 20s/early 30s, many look just plain burned-out, like a fruit that passed over ripe and went straight to rotten. The millennials who have blown out their libido or manhood on porn are the equivalent of the hippies who went deaf from blasting their music or who went blind from staring at the sun (although the latter were probably apocryphal).

In hindsight, behind the neurotic mannerisms of Woody Allen and now, too, Louis C.K. (who saw himself as the heir to Woody’s sensibility), we can read back sexual dysfunction. You’d be nervous too, if you had their sex lives. This even sheds light on Louis C.K.’s and Harvey Weinstein’s bizarre sexual advances: If you’re a powerful Hollywood player wanting to impose yourself on a woman, why settle for merely masturbating for these girls? It is perhaps because they are no longer virile. Their sexuality has been destroyed through masturbation, as C.K.’s material suggests it has, so they are unable to have normal sex—or even commit the more straightforward act of sexual domination, rape. Masturbation was all they had left.

That's the scariest thing I've ever read!

Do you think there is a way for these millennials to gain back their libido/manhood?

 

[Vinero]

Money and/or extraordinary looks

Then why do all the couples I see, the man looks average or even a bit overweight/balding? Just walk in the city or mall and observe couples. Many of the guys are just average looking or even below average-looking guys. Are they all rich guys? I don't think so.

 

[baccheion]

Then why do all the couples I see, the man looks average or even a bit overweight/balding? Just walk in the city or mall and observe couples. Many of the guys are just average looking or even below average-looking guys. Are they all rich guys? I don't think so.

How old are they? Over 30? Women have different preferences when trying to settle down. They are attracted to masculinity mainly when seeking flings/sex.

 

[Vinero]

How old are they? Over 30? Women have different preferences when trying to settle down. They are attracted to masculinity mainly when seeking flings/sex.

Women of all ages. It doesn't matter. I disagree all women seek masculinity when seeking flings. I see many young women with "girly" or feminine looking guys. I also see many women with below-average looking guys. I think that the whole money-looks-status thing is just one big illusion. Men think that women want looks-money-status but most women I see in real life have very average, normal men. Most of my friends aren't supermodels or rich, yet they have an attractive girlfriend.

 

[baccheion]

Women of all ages. It doesn't matter. I disagree all women seek masculinity when seeking flings. I see many young women with "girly" or feminine looking guys. I also see many women with below-average looking guys. I think that the whole money-looks-status thing is just one big illusion. Men think that women want looks-money-status but most women I see in real life have very average, normal men. Most of my friends aren't supermodels or rich, yet they have an attractive girlfriend.

I'm associating flings with ovulation. Women could end up with all sorts of men due to insecurity, level of appeal to other men, quality of the overall pool in an area, etc.

I would agree that women prefer to be the more attractive one in a relationship. They usually learn this preference by/after college. They say it's due to something like less worries about cheating.

I also agree that many complicate what's involved in being attractive to women. Money + power is one way to be appealing and it tends to attract certain types of women.

On the other hand, being pulled toward higher androgenicity:estrogenicity is almost timeless. Many preferences stated by women are associated with a higher level of androgens.

 

[Vinero]

I'm associating flings with ovulation. Women could end up with all sorts of men due to insecurity, level of appeal to other men, quality of the overall pool in an area, etc.

I would agree that women prefer to be the more attractive one in a relationship. They usually learn this preference by/after college. They say it's due to something like less worries about cheating.

Exactly. They want to be the one in control in the relationship. So you will never have the opportunity to cheat on her. Thats why attractive women often date very average guys. As for sexual flings, how do you know that women choose masculine men? We aren't there to witness their flings or one-night stands. They are done in secret so you don't know what kind of men they have these flings with.

 

[baccheion]

Exactly. They want to be the one in control in the relationship. So you will never have the opportunity to cheat on her. Thats why attractive women often date very average guys. As for sexual flings, how do you know that women choose masculine men? We aren't there to witness their flings or one-night stands. They are done in secret so you don't know what kind of men they have these flings with.

Women tend to be emotional (ie, stupid). If they are seeking flings during ovulation, then it's likely with more masculine males (if they can attract them). Otherwise, who knows what assortment of BS, denial, and smiling at just the right time drives their actions.