What Does It Mean To Be Drained By Orgasm/masturbation

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In males, I think masturbation are mostly done by average- and short-height individuals because they are less attractive for girls (girls seem to stare mostly at tall guys (because they are more attractive [more eye-catching and bigger for the eyes not to notice])) and, therefore, are less successful with them; consequently, they end the day with no sex, and find themselves appealing to masturbation. Life is unfair.
 

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Now I definitely feel shitty after orgasm, considerably less shitty with a female. Fapping literally makes me feel like concrete for like a solid hour after.

Thing is I disagree with the statement above. I have always had a sexual partner she was either an adult "banging" relationship when we only had time for primal things(an agreement of sorts for safety), obviously with girlfriends, friends with benefits and some retarded periods(safe sex observed) here and there. I can recall several times having tremendous connected pleasurable explosive sex, and then an hour later shes asleep and im rippin another one off in the living room. It was as if having the sex like made me want it again and again. Ive even woken them up for it again. I can recall some girls who i was with, we would have sex, go to the gym, leave the ****** gym midway through to have sex then go back. End of day if we werent together again id have a fap sesh. It was just a huge reserve of energy.

I can recall times of back to back to back with no stopping with girls. A testament to my crazy natural dopamine years ago but for shits sake I literally feel like a damp paper bag just thinking of being that way again.

I do have a gf now who i can abstain from ejac with if i want, i just make sure shes covered otherwise and she understands how crappy i feel lately so she definitely wants me to feel better so she gets it.

Right before i started feeling the shittiest a couple years ago, i was having a lot of sex, in a calorie deficit, poor sleep, mucho caffeiene and garbage nutrition with high stress at work. Thyroid took a dump.
 

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Maybe we should just accept the fact that not everyone has the same experience. I really don't notice that much of a difference after orgasm in the way I feel, so I don't understand what people are talking about here. But that doesn't mean I don't believe them. Also, I did once abstain from masturbation for a year and it was horrible. Made me miserably depressed. No bliss, no enlightenment. Then again, I've been having orgasms through masturbation since I was six. :wideyed:

Silly question, doesn't anybody else get blue balls from not cumming? I can remember times when I was in excruciating pain during that one year drought. I only go about four or five days without partly for that reason.
 

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Now I definitely feel shitty after orgasm, considerably less shitty with a female. Fapping literally makes me feel like concrete for like a solid hour after.

Thing is I disagree with the statement above. I have always had a sexual partner she was either an adult "banging" relationship when we only had time for primal things(an agreement of sorts for safety), obviously with girlfriends, friends with benefits and some retarded periods(safe sex observed) here and there. I can recall several times having tremendous connected pleasurable explosive sex, and then an hour later shes asleep and im rippin another one off in the living room. It was as if having the sex like made me want it again and again. Ive even woken them up for it again. I can recall some girls who i was with, we would have sex, go to the gym, leave the ****** gym midway through to have sex then go back. End of day if we werent together again id have a fap sesh. It was just a huge reserve of energy.

I can recall times of back to back to back with no stopping with girls. A testament to my crazy natural dopamine years ago but for shits sake I literally feel like a damp paper bag just thinking of being that way again.

I do have a gf now who i can abstain from ejac with if i want, i just make sure shes covered otherwise and she understands how crappy i feel lately so she definitely wants me to feel better so she gets it.

Right before i started feeling the shittiest a couple years ago, i was having a lot of sex, in a calorie deficit, poor sleep, mucho caffeiene and garbage nutrition with high stress at work. Thyroid took a dump.
Have you ever had sex with any of these women and thought about impregnating them? Just wondering how that may change the way you feel after.
 

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Have you ever had sex with any of these women and thought about impregnating them? Just wondering how that may change the way you feel after.

Honestly the thought of having children is an anxiety provoking aversion, or are you asking about the act of nonwithdrawal? Seeing people who cant control their own little resource leeching ***holes actually pisses me off :)

Maybe we should just accept the fact that not everyone has the same experience. I really don't notice that much of a difference after orgasm in the way I feel, so I don't understand what people are talking about here. But that doesn't mean I don't believe them. Also, I did once abstain from masturbation for a year and it was horrible. Made me miserably depressed. No bliss, no enlightenment. Then again, I've been having orgasms through masturbation since I was six. :wideyed:

Silly question, doesn't anybody else get blue balls from not cumming? I can remember times when I was in excruciating pain during that one year drought. I only go about four or five days without partly for that reason.
I see your question and raise you: have you ever gotten blueballs and still came? I have, its really just fluid retention in the area and likely from the act of pelvic floor contract(even that which occurs from non orgasm pleasure stuff). Definitely had to spend a day in warm tubs at least a couple of times.

Edit: though since feeling crappy he past couple years, the gradient of post org crappiness feeling is definitely less. So i feel so shitty that after orgasm its less distance to travel to feel more shitty.
 

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yeah it is "withholding" but not really. It takes some time but the brain rewires. This is a "program" that we have inside us and most of us never find it...
I was doing nofap for a while and I started feeling that the sexual desire itself was more... "delicious" to me than orgasm. And everyday life was a lot more colorful to me. Is that kind of what you're talking about? Is it more about being in a relationship with someone and the whole purpose/focus is that you both are deeply into each other? That sounds more soul-satisfying than the sensory gratification of orgasm (and the subsequent dullness that lasts days).
 

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In males, I think masturbation are mostly done by average- and short-height individuals because they are less attractive for girls (girls seem to stare mostly at tall guys (because they are more attractive [more eye-catching and bigger for the eyes not to notice])) and, therefore, are less successful with them; consequently, they end the day with no sex, and find themselves appealing to masturbation. Life is unfair.

You dont think tall people masturbate?
 

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You dont think tall people masturbate?
I think its on the premise that "women only want tall dudes" and thus tall guys are swimming in it and never need to fap
 

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That’s a pretty dumb premise. Soulmates should be similar height.
Im literally only guessing what the other guy may be thinking in response to the comment on it. I certainly dont believe it myself and certainly havent seen anything to prove it
 

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Im literally only guessing what the other guy may be thinking in response to the comment on it. I certainly dont believe it myself and certainly havent seen anything to prove it
I think women who like really tall men just want to mauled or dominated so they can complain what an ***hole the guy is later on. Just my 50 cents.
 

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I think women who like really tall men just want to mauled or dominated so they can complain what an ***hole the guy is later on. Just my 50 cents.

I dont know what to think but im thankful im not ultra tall - finding clothes that fit the way i want them to is hard enough as it is
 

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Does nobody on this forum have a positive view of women? This place is turning into some sort of incel forum.
I just know I hate being hovered over and am not into tall guys so I’m adding my opinion. I’m a woman by the way.
 

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This is not the first thread about this. And it is not the first thread where people talk about sex without orgasm. And it is not the first thread when those people are asked to explain what sex without orgasm means. Or how they do it. And it is not the first time when those people don't answer the questions. I think it's a bunch of horse manure.

Really. If it is something a person can experience, why can't someone use words to describe it?
 

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Does nobody on this forum have a positive view of women? This place is turning into some sort of incel forum.
Rofl, we do hear some crazy things on this forum. I don't get involved into topics on politics, society etc.. Actually I try to not open those threads. It can suck one's energy.
 

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Basically after orgasm I feel a total loss of motivation to do anything. Not only that but it is combined with a general background anxiety, more social anxiety (don't wanna really speak to people or look them in the eye, no interest in socialising, fear of being judged), and a feeling of generally being quite lame.
When porn and masturbation is a daily routine orgasms make me feel drained physically and mentally. When done less frequently to release sexual tension it has the opposite effect, clears my mind and makes me feel motivated to do other things (although not necessarily social activities)
 

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