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We don't have to figure out the causes of our problems......We have to let go of them.
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When the hardship comes from a family member, the saving point can be the support of another family member, like a grand-parent.
I think he's loved by his parents as well. The interaction between his parents is the problem. I am more than happy to be there for him, but he's too lazy to go even outside the house. I will try to give him some pregnenolone once I get my package.Be there for him, unlike his parents.
There is hope
Not in your Genes, by Oliver James Oliver James | The official website
Using a mixture of famous and ordinary people, Oliver James drills deep down into the childhood causes of our individuality, revealing why our upbringing, not our genes, plays such an important role in our wellbeing and success. The implications are huge: as adults we can change, we can clutch our fates from predetermined destiny, as parents we can radically alter the trajectory of our childrens’ lives, and as a society we could largely eradicate criminality and poverty.
Not in Your Genes will not only change the way you think about yourself and the people around you, but give you the fuel to change your personality and your life for the better.
Think Ray would agree.
The study was done with baboons, but given how closely related they are to humans I think the results are a lot more pertinent than rat stress studies, which btw have been shown to translate pretty well to humans.
A wild baboon usually lives for up to 45 years. So, the fact that some of the baboons with rough childhood lived to only 9-10 years of age is quite depressing, and should be an eye-opener for anybody who thinks that genes are what determined lifespan or health.
The little good news in this study is that it IS possible to overcome that childhood adversity, even though the scientists are not sure what those protective factors may be.
I'm interested in this topic. Do you know where there are some articles about this?It is known that during wars, people who stay in the war zone do better than the ones that are "safe" away. The difference is that the one that are away are imagining what is happening and react by imagination. It is also known how people gather and develop cooperation to get the necessary co-regulation.
Co-regulation is saving. Animals, even fish in a pond, stay together HOURS after an earthquake or a strong wildfire.
The difference is that the one that are away are imagining what is happening and react by imagination. It is also known how people gather and develop cooperation to get the necessary co-regulation.
Co-regulation is saving.
I'm interested in this topic. Do you know where there are some articles about this?
We don't have to figure out the causes of our problems......We have to let go of them.