The anti-stress effect of a woman’s love & affection

[conrad0602]

Fair play man, hold on to it. I've experienced this before. Largely resolved long standing phycological and physical symptoms. Poof... gone... never been able to explain it.

 

[conrad0602]

Enjoy it while you have it but don't become attached or reliant on it.

Thiiisssss is exactly what I did... FFS ? sound advice

 

[Kayaker]

Thiiisssss is exactly what I did... FFS ? sound advice

Yes, Anakin, we know.

 

[conrad0602]

Its true. Changes perception, makes difficult things not seem so hard, makes you want to be a better man. Personally it felt like I had the strength of this additional person, I was an army of 2 at all times.

Protect it, the flame burns bright with new wood but it does not have to go out.

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[LUH 3417]

Gay? What's that about

Why would anyone want to be bossed around? Regarding the gay comment, I think there are a lot of homosexual men in heterosexual relationships who play out some weird dynamic with masculinized women

 

[Peatness]

Why would anyone want to be bossed around? Regarding the gay comment, I think there are a lot of homosexual men in heterosexual relationships who play out some weird dynamic with masculinized women

I think there is something problematic about categorising men like this. You don’t know the nature of their private interaction. You cannot presume because he does not challenge her behaviour in front of you that the minute everyone leaves he doesn’t spank the hell out of her and put her in her place.

 

[Kayaker]

I think there is something problematic about categorising men like this. You don’t know the nature of their private interaction. You cannot presume because he does not challenge her behaviour in front of you that the minute everyone leaves he doesn’t spank the hell out of her and put her in her place.

That's rather specific.

 

[LUH 3417]

I think there is something problematic about categorising men like this. You don’t know the nature of their private interaction. You cannot presume because he does not challenge her behaviour in front of you that the minute everyone leaves he doesn’t spank the hell out of her and put her in her place.

A gay pushover wife beater, interesting

I don’t like the generalize behaviors, and I can see your point, but my experience of the situation is more real to me than your finding my experience and it’s interpretation problematic.

 

[YourUniverse]

Why would anyone want to be bossed around? Regarding the gay comment, I think there are a lot of homosexual men in heterosexual relationships who play out some weird dynamic with masculinized women

Its only being bossed around if you do as commanded. Maybe he finds it funny (or cute).

 

[Peatness]

A gay pushover wife beater, interesting

I don’t like the generalize behaviors, and I can see your point, but my experience of the situation is more real to me than your finding my experience and it’s interpretation problematic.

Maybe she found out he was having an affair so now everything he does irritates her.

 

[Peatness]

A gay pushover wife beater, interesting

I don’t like the generalize behaviors, and I can see your point, but my experience of the situation is more real to me than your finding my experience and it’s interpretation problematic.

You've change your username

 

[LUH 3417]

Its only being bossed around if you do as commanded. Maybe he finds it funny (or cute).

Maybe, i get what you’re saying. It just seemed like everything he did was annoying or wrong and there wasn’t a flirtatious atmosphere. I think the funny or cute play would necessitate some Flirtation

 

[LUH 3417]

Maybe she found out he was having an affair so now everything he does irritates her.

Maybe. Maybe I shouldn’t have ever brought this up!!

 

[Peatness]

Maybe. Maybe I shouldn’t have ever brought this up!!

To be honest I was kind of playing devils advocate. That kind of bickering is ugly and uncomfortable to witness.

 

[LUH 3417]

To be honest I was kind of playing devils advocate. That kind of bickering is ugly and uncomfortable to witness.

I understand where you’re coming from. I only really thought of the interaction Bc OP mentioned this girls warmth and loving femininity, and it got me thinking about how that’s rarer now than ever. I don’t believe in being a reactionary and promoting some ideal of a submissive passive female as the antidote to toxic feminist ideaologies. I think when there is love there is no will to power, and you just enjoy and take pleasure in the others company, as OP illustrated.

 

[Drareg]

This effect in relationships is what the ruling class want to destroy, they commodify relationships, it’s more profitable, you end up in an ego exchange or virtue signal relationship.
When you have a similar level of coherent capacitance with similar structures you both project into the future with the realization you have double the bioenergetic resource to take on the stressors in the environment.

 

[Makrosky]

This sounds awesome - @haidut when can we get this on idealabs?

Seriously though, I am definitely deficient in love

"Money can't buy me love" man. There is no substitute for it.

 

[Smell The Ashes]

This effect in relationships is what the ruling class want to destroy, they commodify relationships, it’s more profitable, you end up in an ego exchange or virtue signal relationship.
When you have a similar level of coherent capacitance with similar structures you both project into the future with the realization you have double the bioenergetic resource to take on the stressors in the environment.

Dating apps, case and point.

 

[YourUniverse]

Chemically, isnt love oxytocin? Physical touch stimulates this release. Having a pet, a dog or a cat, can be a supply.

 

[Shackles]

Chemically, isnt love oxytocin? Physical touch stimulates this release. Having a pet, a dog or a cat, can be a supply.

I am zoinking cat supplements from the neighbourhood because girlfriend supplements have become too expensive