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View attachment 19800 "infinite opportunities"
I think it goes deeper than any societal construct.Part of this is "macho" culture and thinking that if women want you, it means you're a real man.
The "infinite opportunities" I'm referring to is porn and ejaculation. Every single day, multiple times a day, men have the opportunity for an easy out: go look at porn, go jerk off, go ejaculate, drain your life force, just for a 5 minute escape from the absolute mental hell of feeling sexually worthless, sexually invisible, sexually frustrated, sexually obsessed. If anything I'm speaking more to guys who have a hard or impossible time getting women, and little or no history with women, as these are the guys that are likely the most tormented.
Guess how I know that?
SMV (sexual market value for those not in the know) is a trap. It's a breeding ground for Body Dysmorphic Disorder. It's a complete waste of life to focus on it. It's literally a cyclical hell. Sexual frustration. Sexual obsession. There is no level of ego gratification that will make the ego satisfied and never crave gratification again. It's cyclical. The only way to stop it is to see through the illusion.
There's so much more to all this. I could literally talk for hours about Red Pill / Game / Hypergamy, whatever. I've heard it all. I'm not a stranger to all this stuff. The quick and simple answer is just do semen retention. It's like trying to explain what mind altering drugs feel like to someone who's never done them. You simply can't. You need to experience it for yourself.
Semen retention = valuing your seed = valuing your life = valuing yourself = valuing your sexual energy. If you want to be "high SMV," then value yourself. You want sexual market value? Value your own sexuality. Value yourself. Don't get stuck thinking of yourself like a piece of meat up for auction. These people will tell you that's "reality" but that's nothing but BS. Do not accept that "reality" is that you're a piece of meat up for auction. This is basically what people preaching about SMV are teaching people. That they're a piece of meat up for auction and that's all the value their life has. And then we wonder why people are suicidal. Don't let that go over your head.
These people out here not even retaining and talking about SMV. They don't even value themselves. They're telling you to value yourself and they don't even value themselves. Sitting in your room and feeling the intense loneliness, the intense sexual frustration, and simply sitting with it, instead of masturbating, instead of going on porn and numbing yourself -- it will teach a man infinitely more than any words ever could.
Men and women have value inherently. People need to wake up and remember this. Everything is so polarized. We need to start seeing people as human beings. So much polarization and now sexually, everyone is a piece of meat up for auction. Stop it. It needs to stop. Even if it's just one single day controlling sexual urges. One single day. If people would just do this for one single day and challenge themselves to see everyone else they talk to as a human being with a soul and a life.
I haven't had sex in a couple years, and it does suck sometimes. I'm no stranger to sexual frustration at all. It's like my best friend. I know the struggle. I stand by what I said. I'm just a student like everyone else on this planet and am learning every day. But it feels good to open up my eyes and realize for me personally, I don't need to commit suicide because I feel worthless. I can feel worth in myself even though I'm not "high SMV" or whatever. You feel me? Not trying to be confrontational at all here. I'm just tired of seeing people in the world like me that are basically ready to kill themselves over this BS. So many false teachers and liars and I honestly don't think they even realize they're teaching people to perceive themselves in such awful, inhuman ways.
can you cope with the fact that your sexlessness will end likely due to the fact that you have acquired enough ressources to attract a female, something which she never had to do. do you think whoever you are dating next can even remotely comprehend what you were going through? this is not just about sex.
On which basis are we supposed to find our snowflake, when the women on our level live significantly different lives from 14-35?
its beyond cucked to marry a former party girl past her prime to pop out some kids. add on that that the average mans genes are average, and average in 2040 will likely be even worse if you get a son. although I suppose genetic recombination is a thing. the problem is not that I am unable to stick my p in my looksmatch.
You sir, are surely intoxicated with liberal, feminine-centric ideas that you don't even realize the beliefs and ideas you adopted serve the woman's advantage. You should real Rational MaleWhy do you have to have kids? Why is having a party-life anything wrong, partying brings experiences and socializing, they can be healthier than you for all that you know. There is no such thing as a snowflake, but if she has health she i curious, and if she is curious you can do your job. But if you are gonna over explain, being overtly negativ she gonna drop your sorry ****, I hope for her`s sake. People on this forum have faith in everything except the society...
You sir, are surely intoxicated with liberal, feminine-centric ideas that you don't even realize the beliefs and ideas you adopted serve the woman's advantage. You should real Rational Male
You sir, are surely intoxicated with liberal, feminine-centric ideas that you don't even realize the beliefs and ideas you adopted serve the woman's advantage. You should real Rational Male
The first line is pretty cringe. "Experiences" and "Socialising" like getting pumped and dumped
Guess what, I also pretend to be a liberal feminist, because I would be incel otherwise. Wonder why I hang out in online forumsI adopt all advantages, a partyboy is no better. Why choose sides when you can be all...
Nice reply thanks.
This is literally the most horrible thing I think I've ever read on the internet. ANd that is saying a lot.
It is the most authoritarian thing . . . on a site supposedly dedicated to a noted anti-authoritarian.
Let's just convince women that they can have one and only one partner. Once they have accepted control, they sky is the limit. Oh, and let's pretend to care about not "wasting our life force" and to hate porn and promiscuity so we can get their buy in. Then we can do whatever we want just like in the past. We'll relegate a class of "degenerate" women to the status of cum-receptacle and defile them wantonly and then go home to our devout families and scowl at others for being less holy than moi.
SMH.
That "study" desires to restore the patriarchy. It desires to restore religious control of our lives. No f'ing way. When your messiah returns I'll say you were right and accept my punishment, lol.
LOL, that isn't authority. That is a self-confidence crisis. And crying for others to "fix society" so you can feel better about yourself is . . . oh, c'mon, its obvious.Ugly men, and now average men face an authoritarian reality every day
It’s just that no one ever cares about them as long as they contribute to society despite it
LOL, that isn't authority. That is a self-confidence crisis. And crying for others to "fix society" so you can feel better about yourself is . . . oh, c'mon, its obvious.
Look around,lol. Lots of fat and ugly people getting action.
Something is broken, for sure. But it isn't "sexual liberation".