Bluemachine
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I've asked a girl out on a date*first time in like 5 years*, she said yes but now the anticipation is messing with my sleep and appetite & just making me feel run down. I generally feel quite healthy, sometimes really healthy - bounds of energy, euphoria from listening to good music, large appetite, really high sex drive and desire for partner. But my issue is pursuing a partner I find really stressful which makes all that good stuff go away which isn't conducive to being a fun person to attract. she seems to be really interested in me though.
I can get like this with other forms of stimulation like working on an art project for an extended period of time, getting or haircut or doing it myself(the concentration and my perfectionism - probably similar to the first example)
But ye.. My muscles start to tense up & it's got to the point at times where they sort of jerk about and I feel like I'm vibrating a bit. When my health problems started and I was having panic attacks I would literally start shaking & recently when I had a tooth extraction I started shaking which is really awkward because people wonder wtf you are doing. I also - since talking to this girl (which is a constant job due to phones & texting) have been peeing like crazy and have barely any appetite.
I'd really like to make this work with the girl, she seems great & really attractive. Any tips would be hugely appreciated & insight on the shaking thing?!
I can get like this with other forms of stimulation like working on an art project for an extended period of time, getting or haircut or doing it myself(the concentration and my perfectionism - probably similar to the first example)
But ye.. My muscles start to tense up & it's got to the point at times where they sort of jerk about and I feel like I'm vibrating a bit. When my health problems started and I was having panic attacks I would literally start shaking & recently when I had a tooth extraction I started shaking which is really awkward because people wonder wtf you are doing. I also - since talking to this girl (which is a constant job due to phones & texting) have been peeing like crazy and have barely any appetite.
I'd really like to make this work with the girl, she seems great & really attractive. Any tips would be hugely appreciated & insight on the shaking thing?!