for casual sex encounters, it is at best 90/10 for the top 50% women, probably closer to 95/5.
why should they settle for less? they can get whoever they want. I legit know a 4/10 22yo that has ****88 a male model on tinder (then got ghosted needlessly to say)
80/20 is maybe for relationships forming online or offline casual sex happening
the only thing that is still 50/50 is serious relationships forming in a social circle
the average young man does not get regular hookups with an average young woman without having a significant halo (height, frame, big **** reputation, playing in a band or some ***t, social media maxxed, university party imperium; playing high level sports, whatever you can think of)
so basically, young women can just exist and young men can't, if they want to ****
welcome to reality:
Does it annoy you when unattractive guys will try the whole "not looking for anything serious" thing? : FemaleDatingStrategy
The problem in my opinion sometimes is people are afraid someone could expect something serious. Come on, you have sex, maybe get to know each other. If it goes well you stay together. If it doesn't well then it doesn't. I think a lot of them are afraid to invest without guaranteed return.
I don't need to say "I'm not looking for anything serious". You dont know the other person yet. You might want something serious. You are not dating with the prospect of "I just want to spend time with people that I will know my whole life"
I just think that offline dating scene or ONS scene is more humane than online. Looks is important for sex. But a very hot woman is instantly unattractive if she's racist, really dumb and so on. The same goes for the opposite. If you aint got the looks, but are fun to be with, you have good chances of landing some hookups IMO. Its just not easier, but that is obvious