You're right though, at a certain point these conversations can't go anywhere anymore, which is why it's kind of pointless.
So if the mob sets up shop in your neighborhood and tells everyone they need to pay protection money, they are legitimate and you can move if you don't like it? That essay is really useful for getting past the social contract mythology.
Okay thanks for the link I'll have a look at it. Right now I'm getting pretty exhausted because I've reached the end of my intellectual ability on this topic and am just repeating myself and find I'm getting snippy instead of giving things a fair shake.