Yes I've lived with it for this long doesn't mean it doesn't get me depressed. If I left I would be depressed because I'm not with her soo?There's plenty of ideas in this thread, in terms of mindset, practical things to do to try and address the sex issues, etc.
If your relationship is otherwise perfect and you don't want to try anything else - then just live with it. Apparently you've been doing so for 13 years, what's the rest of your life right. Or maybe you can't live with it because it sucks too much, and you leave. Those are options you have. You'll have to be honest with yourself and decide what's best.
You can try to focus on other things - start a business, put another kid in her, do some chicks on the side to raise your self-esteem, whatever.
Ok ok I'm getting sick of people assuming stuff tbh focus on other things? What do you think I do?? Just stare at a wall and obsess on my size?????
And no I will not have sex with other chick's.
Just because you don't respect women doesn't mean I should disrespect women.