Penis Size

[Jing]

Mate im in the average ball park and i never had a girl complain and girls cum easier than i do when i have sex. I swear on this lol my latest girlfriend keeps telling me shes having the best sex in her life. Its all in your head mate. If you think you need a big one you probably have sex like you was having a big one aswell. Girls dont like that. Its all technique dude. You just gotta practice and be confident. Usually i can get my gf to orgasm 2-3 times before im done and ive made her squirt like 3 times. Obviously girls are different but if youre girl only focus on size and even tell you yours small. Dude switch the bi tch.
Like i always say you got one down 5 bilion other women to go. Dont tolerate that sh it. What if you told your girlfriends they had small boobs. They would dump you.

What is your size ?

 

[managing]

You need to remember some things. A vagina is only about 3.5 inches deep. And a significant part of the stimulation happens of course with contact/friction between the man's pubic bone/base of penis and the clitoris. Vaginas are elastic and can nearly double in size in any direction instantly. So this means that anything beyond about 7" is at a disadvantage. Yes, a disadvantage. And, in fact, I've heard from both men and women that this is the case. Too long? Not enough clitoral contact. Too thick? discomfort and/or pain interfering with pleasure. Not all gasps and face clenching are pleasure, lol. I genuinely knew a guy who lacked confidence because he felt his penis was too large. Never saw it, but he said around 9" long an thick (not quantified). He'd had multiple partners who just didn't like it. He believed one had even broken up w/ him because of it. Actually, it was his girlfriend at the time who told my girlfriend at the time about this. Said girlfriend herself was talking about it w/ my girlfriend because she herself was having issues with it.

What I find is that rock hard = pleasure for both of us. Less than rock hard = less pleasure for both of us. Get it good an hard (and you'll find a lot of help with that in the RP world) and your good to go.

Anything else is just insecurity, social construction, hype, and BS.

 

[Douglas Ek]

What is your size ?

Like 16 cm

I can agree with the above comment. Stiffness is more what you need. You can always tell when your not hard enough both goes kinda meeeh

Besides in my opinion girls are so self aware and nervous in bed anyway more than most guys. Dunno where you have gotten this idea that theres something wrong with your ****. Everyone else basically has the same size. If you want bigger thats your choice but none can help you here except with your obvious confidence problem but maybe go talk with someone theres group for people who think they have a problem.

 

[xetawaves]

I'm like 6.5" with decent girth and I've had several girls tell me my **** is the perfect size. And I know they're not lying because they got off in a matter of just a few minutes. Anyways, sex is so much more than the size of your ****. Women love sensuality.

 

[Sheik]

I don't know why anyone would want a bigger ****. Most girls can't go deep enough without gagging. Or maybe that's just me with the way I'm cut.

 

[Douglas Ek]

I'm like 6.5" with decent girth and I've had several girls tell me my **** is the perfect size. And I know they're not lying because they got off in a matter of just a few minutes. Anyways, sex is so much more than the size of your ****. Women love sensuality.

Its about the heat in the moment and excitement. You cant just put a d ick in a dry vagina and think it will be good totally agree. Obviously if you think you have a small penis it would be kinda hard to feel confident in the moment. Not sort of manly either.

 

[Hairfedup]

You sound like a Western Asian. In order to get over these issues, you need to defeat the narcissist mother-god in your psychology..all your issues are stemming from there [her]. Your self-esteem is extremely weak and its not your fault...your schema of being able to conceptualise any self-worth is rooted in your mother - the schema is bastardized. Remember...everything is about sex except for sex itself lol.

 

[Douglas Ek]

You sound like a Western Asian. In order to get over these issues, you need to defeat the narcissist mother-god in your psychology..all your issues are stemming from there [her]. Your self-esteem is extremely weak and its not your fault...your schema of being able to conceptualise any self-worth is rooted in your mother - the schema is bastardized. Remember...everything is about sex except for sex itself lol.

This

 

[schultz]

A vagina is only about 3.5 inches deep.

I think the depth increases when a woman is aroused.

 

[Sheik]

You sound like a Western Asian. In order to get over these issues, you need to defeat the narcissist mother-god in your psychology..all your issues are stemming from there [her]. Your self-esteem is extremely weak and its not your fault...your schema of being able to conceptualise any self-worth is rooted in your mother - the schema is bastardized. Remember...everything is about sex except for sex itself lol.

ugh.

 

[Sheik]

Stretching and jelqing will work for you. If it hurts too much you're being too rough. It takes time. There's no shortcut.

 

[baccheion]

Apply MSM lotion for the pain, to improve flexibility, and to aid healing. Experiencing pain when stretching is a sign something is wrong. Poor elasticity = ???

 

[Douglas Ek]

Like seriously do people do this? He got average penis. If you feel you need to pull your penis then your self image has been messed up probably from porn just like girls self image is messed up today from magazines. Better to go to a psychologist and get help

 

[anotherworld]

It's not the size of the penis that matters, but the size of the man behind the penis.

 

[Jing]

You need to remember some things. A vagina is only about 3.5 inches deep. And a significant part of the stimulation happens of course with contact/friction between the man's pubic bone/base of penis and the clitoris. Vaginas are elastic and can nearly double in size in any direction instantly. So this means that anything beyond about 7" is at a disadvantage. Yes, a disadvantage. And, in fact, I've heard from both men and women that this is the case. Too long? Not enough clitoral contact. Too thick? discomfort and/or pain interfering with pleasure. Not all gasps and face clenching are pleasure, lol. I genuinely knew a guy who lacked confidence because he felt his penis was too large. Never saw it, but he said around 9" long an thick (not quantified). He'd had multiple partners who just didn't like it. He believed one had even broken up w/ him because of it. Actually, it was his girlfriend at the time who told my girlfriend at the time about this. Said girlfriend herself was talking about it w/ my girlfriend because she herself was having issues with it.

What I find is that rock hard = pleasure for both of us. Less than rock hard = less pleasure for both of us. Get it good an hard (and you'll find a lot of help with that in the RP world) and your good to go.

Anything else is just insecurity, social construction, hype, and BS.

3.5 inches when not aroused ... Also of course there is too big but to have problems because of thickness a penis must be very thick .. also was your friend warming his gfs up properly? From my mates experiences they only encounter problems when they have not warm their girls up properly but once it's in the girls love it ...and yh hardness matters of course. Average woman could easily take 8 inches length and 6inch girth. With more foreplay and arousal they could take more girth.

 

[Jsaute21]

3.5 inches when not aroused ... Also of course there is too big but to have problems because of thickness a penis must be very thick .. also was your friend warming his gfs up properly? From my mates experiences they only encounter problems when they have not warm their girls up properly but once it's in the girls love it ...and yh hardness matters of course.

Honestly man if you are approximately 6" or so you have legitimately nothing to feel self conscious about. This is completely in your head. Are there size queens? Sure. In my experience, they are fairly rare and often have something off about them if they are one, just like men obsessed with huge boobs are typically a little off as well. You can't read an internet forum about girls cheating on their BF's because of their size and jump to the conclusion that most girls are like that. I know a lot of women and i'd be shocked if 3-5% ever exhibited behavior such as that. Porn is honestly bad news and I suggest staying away from it unless you are watching relatively conventional videos. It is designed to hit peoples insecurities and fettishes, which really has no application to making good love or finding a partner.

Many people on here have made similar points but I guarantee that part of the reason for men with bigger genitalia being better in bed, is that there level of confidence is often higher. Confidence is everything. If you are insecure about your penis size and preoccupied with that fact, you're not going to turn a girl on. It goes both ways. There are beautiful women that are insecure with their bodies for some strange reason and also fail to please their partners. This is self destructive behavior and i strongly suggest you either seek therapy or work on dealing with it. I have a buddy who is 4-5" hard and a hilarious guy. He often remarks he gets girls off at will and gets repeat customers often. I have actually seen the evidence of a girl being obsessed with him after they had sex numerous times. He will be the first to admit that he isn't overly well endowed but he sure doesn't let it affect his ability or enjoyment with partners. There is no one size fits all in life my man.

 

[Jing]

Honestly man if you are approximately 6" or so you have legitimately nothing to feel self conscious about. This is completely in your head. Are there size queens? Sure. In my experience, they are fairly rare and often have something off about them if they are one, just like men obsessed with huge boobs are typically a little off as well. You can't read an internet forum about girls cheating on their BF's because of their size and jump to the conclusion that most girls are like that. I know a lot of women and i'd be shocked if 3-5% ever exhibited behavior such as that. Porn is honestly bad news and I suggest staying away from it unless you are watching relatively conventional videos. It is designed to hit peoples insecurities and fettishes, which really has no application to making good love or finding a partner.

Many people on here have made similar points but I guarantee that part of the reason for men with bigger genitalia being better in bed, is that there level of confidence is often higher. Confidence is everything. If you are insecure about your penis size and preoccupied with that fact, you're not going to turn a girl on. It goes both ways. There are beautiful women that are insecure with their bodies for some strange reason and also fail to please their partners. This is self destructive behavior and i strongly suggest you either seek therapy or work on dealing with it. I have a buddy who is 4-5" hard and a hilarious guy. He often remarks he gets girls off at will and gets repeat customers often. I have actually seen the evidence of a girl being obsessed with him after they had sex numerous times. He will be the first to admit that he isn't overly well endowed but he sure doesn't let it affect his ability or enjoyment with partners. There is no one size fits all in life my man.

I honestly don't get why everyone says to stop watching porn lmao I do not watch porn ..... And I've never said with average size penis you can't get a girl off just a bigger penis can achieve it easier ... It's literally not just to do with confidence many girls have said they like the feeling of more pressure and getting stretched out .. many girls have said they never thought size mattered for penetration untill they had sex with someone with a bigger penis.... This is not due to porn this is all real life girls saying this ... If you have a man who is perfect in all ways to a woman with 5 inches length 4 inches girth and she has a choice to make that perfect man's penis 7 inches In length and 5 inches in girth I bet she chooses for it to be bigger.... I know a girl who had a threesome with two guys one guy had a smaller penis one guy had a bigger penis after having sex with the bigger guy she couldn't feel the smaller guy and it just was not doing it for her ... Again not porn real life girls saying this ... Stop saying it is porn

 

[Jsaute21]

I honestly don't get why everyone says to stop watching porn lmao I do not watch porn ..... And I've never said with average size penis you can't get a girl off just a bigger penis can achieve it easier ... It's literally not just to do with confidence many girls have said they like the feeling of more pressure and getting stretched out .. many girls have said they never thought size mattered for penetration untill they had sex with someone with a bigger penis.... This is not due to porn this is all real life girls saying this ... If you have a man who is perfect in all ways to a woman with 5 inches length 4 inches girth and she has a choice to make that perfect man's penis 7 inches In length and 5 inches in girth I bet she chooses for it to be bigger.... I know a girl who had a threesome with two guys one guy had a smaller penis one guy had a bigger penis after having sex with the bigger guy she couldn't feel the smaller guy and it just was not doing it for her ... Again not porn real life girls saying this ... Stop saying it is porn

Who are all of these girls that you have had these transparent discussions with on penis size? Former girlfriends, friends of friends? I find this hard to believe that it is not driven by the internet, whether it be porn or poisonous online forums.

 

[Jing]

Who are all of these girls that you have had these transparent discussions with on penis size? Former girlfriends, friends of friends? I find this hard to believe that it is not driven by the internet, whether it be porn or poisonous online forums.

My girlfriend's, friends ... My mates girls... Texts from random girls to my mates which I have seen ... And I've asked many of these girls if size matters and they all have said if they love the guy then it doesn't matter but for sex they would prefer a larger penis .. you can believe I'm Lying whatever... I think it's common sense a larger penis will provide more stimulation and hit more spots in a vagina literally not hard to see that's what would happen... I've got more stories I can tell you but if you think I'm lying I won't bother

 

[Jsaute21]

My girlfriend's, friends ... My mates girls... Texts from random girls to my mates which I have seen ... And I've asked many of these girls if size matters and they all have said if they love the guy then it doesn't matter but for sex they would prefer a larger penis .. you can believe I'm Lying whatever... I think it's common sense a larger penis will provide more stimulation and hit more spots in a vagina literally not hard to see that's what would happen... I've got more stories I can tell you but if you think I'm lying I won't bother

I don't think you are lying at all. I think what you say here makes perfect sense and is accurate. I guess what i am saying is its like being a 6' point guard and constantly thinking about how you're not 6'2 or 6'3. Fruitless thinking IMO. There is no denying that women prefer above average penis sizes without being too big, as they can be painful.

With all that being said, you can look into raising DHT as it absolutely increases flaccid hang in my experience. One frustrating thing about penis size I have noticed is that some healthy habits such as sugar, caffeine & nicotine can take an " or so off an erection. I find eating good healthy starches like potatoes without skin is a good recipe for the right hand man.