No Fap No Porn 2013 (NSFW) Adult Topic Thread!

[chris]

Yeah, don't worry about anything and just keep powering through. If you wanna ask me about anything at all just go for it, I've pretty much gone through it all once before.

 

[charlie]

Hey man I appreciate it. I am actually pretty excited about it. Just another step in making myself overall better.

 

[chris]

Yeah I need to get back on the wagon, the first 2 weeks or so, for me at least, are tricky to avoid the temptations. While it doesn't necessarily get easier after 2 weeks, it is different in that it becomes almost habitual not to masturbate.

 

[charlie]

I definitely been thinking about it, but not obsessively thank goodness.

After all the reading I have been doing I really think my ED problems are linked to porn. So there is no way I am going to give in. I want my ED gone for good!

I have a friend on facebook he went 1.5 years!! I talked him into joining the forum and he is going to get in on this.

 

[chris]

Impressive. Did he mention any benefits such as fatigue, confidence, less brain fog etc? Did he resume the habit and if so, how are things different from when he wasnt masturbating?

 

[charlie]

Definitely more energy he said. I didnt really go far into with him, but when he posts on here we can definitely ask him.

I think this is good post about realistic benefits of no fap:

http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/ ... _debunked/

 

[chris]

I think I've read that post before, I've been a part of /nofap for a while now...

 

[charlie]

I am just trying to post up relevant stuff just in case others are maybe thinking about it.

 

[chris]

Of course, I wasn't knocking you. I honestly believe masturbation (overmasturbation) is a very underrated and emerging problem.

 

[charlie]

And porn, definitely porn. I really think it rewires our brains.

 

[kiran]

My question is, how are all of yall libidos before and during nofap?

 

[chris]

And porn, definitely porn. I really think it rewires our brains.

Yeah, I think this is the greatest factor of change.


Kiran - Libido during nofap was intermittent with periods of flatline etc Although erection quality was 100% definitely improved after a month or so.

 

[charlie]

My libido was pretty crap, and well, still is. I am only 9 days in though. I can feel it trying to start up, like on day 5, there was some tingles going on, but nothing spectacular like I think it should. But I really think the porn has ruined me in that department, and I plan on finding out and should know in the next few months if I am correct. Porn, really screws us up. There is plenty evidence out there.

I wasnt an everyday porn person. Maybe a couple times a week. So hopefully this wont take long to turn around.

 

[chris]

You probably won't feel anything significant until ~1 month.

I have been a multiple times, every day porn person, a habit I would much like to leave behind.

Also, be prepared for wet dreams, lol.

 

[charlie]

Oh, definitely looking forward to those!

 

[kiran]

I have been a multiple times, every day porn person, a habit I would much like to leave behind.

Er, um. I really want to be a multiple times a day person. Maybe one day my libido will be up to it. :P

 

[gummybear]

Did this 2011, the second month is the hardest imo. Now I spend more time with my hobbies, more writing (poetry) and woodworking. And women doesn't have the same enchanting effect on me.

Install a adult blocker charlie, makes it alot easier.

 

[charlie]

gummybear!

Yeh, maybe I should install one of those blockers. But I would like to think I can handle it on my own.

 

[chris]

I have been a multiple times, every day porn person, a habit I would much like to leave behind.

Er, um. I really want to be a multiple times a day person. Maybe one day my libido will be up to it. :P

I'd guess my youngish age is the reason my libido was/is so high although Ive noticed following Peat recommendations it has gone even higher.

 

[gummybear]

gummybear!

Yeh, maybe I should install one of those blockers. But I would like to think I can handle it on my own.

I can understand that you want to make it on your own, but not many guys make it without a few relapses to find out that they need that protection on the pc. There is small, tiny cues that will make it alot harder, each one is diffrent for everyone. Being alone for a while, or looking at something.

You will not regret your decision, that's for sure. I used to hate my last job and now I work with something I love (writing), which wouldn't be possibly without I changed my habits.

You will make it charlie!