Need Help With Sexual Function

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For a long time now if I ejaculate it takes me roughly a week of edging to fully get my erections back like I can still get erect but during sex I end up just going floppy and lose interest to stop this from happening I have to do edging multiple times then after about a week I will get good erections back and good libido , I want to find out why this happens but I'm stuck.
 
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are you speaking about intercourse or masturbation?

If masturbation I am assuming you are using porn?
 
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are you speaking about intercourse or masturbation?

If masturbation I am assuming you are using porn?
Na intercourse and blowjobs. When I say edging I mean during sex or blowjobs I will get close to ejaculating multiple times then stop I have to do this for roughly a week after ejaculating to get back to "normal"
 
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Na intercourse and blowjobs. When I say edging I mean during sex or blowjobs I will get close to ejaculating multiple times then stop I have to do this for roughly a week after ejaculating to get back to "normal"

so I think that getting too close to the edge is very similar neurologically to orgasm. You may want to dial back your arousal just a bit. You can also practice steady "sucking in" with your PC muscle a little during sex, and moving the sexual energy into another body part, say your testicles or chest just for example, then you can learn how to have dry orgasms and continue without a refractory period. I've done this and it takes practice but seems very rewarding.
 
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so I think that getting too close to the edge is very similar neurologically to orgasm. You may want to dial back your arousal just a bit. You can also practice steady "sucking in" with your PC muscle a little during sex, and moving the sexual energy into another body part, say your testicles or chest just for example, then you can learn how to have dry orgasms and continue without a refractory period. I've done this and it takes practice but seems very rewarding.
Problem is the only way I can get good erections and good libido and good sensitivity during sex I have to get close to ejaculating otherwise I just get poor erections
 
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Problem is the only way I can get good erections and good libido and good sensitivity during sex I have to get close to ejaculating otherwise I just get poor erections

Do you think it's a matter of backing off for a bit and building new sensitivity by getting used to the lower stimulus? Perhaps the high stimulus desensitizes?
 
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Do you think it's a matter of backing off for a bit and building new sensitivity by getting used to the lower stimulus? Perhaps the high stimulus desensitizes?
No don't think so because the reason I do this is because off these problems it's not just a sensitivity problem.
 
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Do you think it's a matter of backing off for a bit and building new sensitivity by getting used to the lower stimulus? Perhaps the high stimulus desensitizes?

I get poor erections if I come close to the edge often for a few days, then I reset things by ejaculating. I have high testosterone and I think that my body creates too much estrogen somehow from this. Estrogen is desensitizing.

A few weeks ago I took 75mg of progesterone orally just to see what happens. It didn't make a lot of difference but it made some.

I do use Progest-E and DHEA every day. I've experimented with exemestane and meteroline to keep estrogen and prolactin down. I think there is merit to them but I still run into the same issue of needing to ejaculate every 4 days or so (I have sex almost every day) or I get very poor erections.

I have found that many men, maybe all, who get turned on and aroused without having an orgasm can have very poor erections after a few days. So my situation is very common and it may be what you are experiencing.

I've spent years thinking and experimenting on this "problem." On the plus side I have really good erections and I'm in my 60s and I am super healthy and have a good libido so I'm not complaining.

I am experimenting over months with the dry Os and finding it has a lot of merit and may be the solution.
 
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I get poor erections if I come close to the edge often for a few days, then I reset things by ejaculating. I have high testosterone and I think that my body creates too much estrogen somehow from this. Estrogen is desensitizing.
I have the opposite I have to come close to the edge to have good erections for example let's say I ejaculate today then tomorrow have sex I will have poor erections but I get close to the edge then Friday I get close to the edge again do the same Saturday get close to the edge no ejaculation then my erections will start picking up after about a week of doing this I will get very good erections then if I ejaculate the process of poor erections starts again.
 
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I do use Progest-E and DHEA every day. I've experimented with exemestane and meteroline to keep estrogen and prolactin down. I think there is merit to them but I still run into the same issue of needing to ejaculate every 4 days or so (I have sex almost every day) or I get very poor erections.
I've been using Androsterone and pansterone recently and I feel they make it worse for me . Also tried arimidex for this and it just makes it worse . I'm also on 300mg testosterone atm but testosterone doesn't seem to help this problem, neither does zinc or b6 I've tried loads of things and edging seems to be the only solution for me.
 
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I've been using Androsterone and pansterone recently and I feel they make it worse for me . Also tried arimidex for this and it just makes it worse . I'm also on 300mg testosterone atm but testosterone doesn't seem to help this problem, neither does zinc or b6 I've tried loads of things and edging seems to be the only solution for me.

androsterone made it worse for me too. Progesterone and DHEA are good though. Pregnenolone has no effect.
 
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I have the opposite I have to come close to the edge to have good erections for example let's say I ejaculate today then tomorrow have sex I will have poor erections but I get close to the edge then Friday I get close to the edge again do the same Saturday get close to the edge no ejaculation then my erections will start picking up after about a week of doing this I will get very good erections then if I ejaculate the process of poor erections starts again.

i lose some drive day after ejaculating but erections are fine. So interesting.
 

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For a long time now if I ejaculate it takes me roughly a week of edging to fully get my erections back like I can still get erect but during sex I end up just going floppy and lose interest to stop this from happening I have to do edging multiple times then after about a week I will get good erections back and good libido , I want to find out why this happens but I'm stuck.

The articles on this website by Serge Kreutz may be of interest to you :
Welcome to a world of better sex [note : scroll halfway down the page to see and access the articles]
 

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