This makes sense to me.Tarmander said:This issue can be really confusing because there are guys who porn is not good for. Whose use of porn worsens their relationships and makes it hard to connect to other human beings. I think my porn use during some of my relationships made things worse, and prevented me from connected to the human that was in front of me. I will not watch porn now because it is most exploitative, shameful, and quietly violent. That isn't what I want my brain associating with orgasm and love.
I would recommend avoiding porn if you want to have a good relationship with a romantic partner.