NathanK
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Maybe this book can help... even in the "trapped environment" of raising children at home. There is nothing wrong with having a strong nurturing paternal instinct and Im sure it fills you with pride knowing it. But there's only so much one can give without taking back. Finding how to know your own limitations and how to regenerate your batteries healthily is about taking on the challenge of your own self development. All too often people put that responsibility of growth into the hands of others... Like govt... A spouse... Family... Religion (God helps those who help themselves)... Etc. It's not easy, and more a lifelong balance to achieve, but you can get there.True, and maybe I needed to make that comment to process something in order to let it go and realize no one else can fulfill me.
The Disease To Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome The Disease To Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome: Harriet B. Braiker: 9780071385640: Amazon.com: Books