Don't listen women's advices. All the beautifull woman are dating or marrying handsome+rich+bla bla guys? look at around, All I can say, you are valuable, you must feel yourself valuable, you respect not only girls but also everyone. shave your facial hair, keep your hair low, money is very very important but not everything, If you enjoy your job, it will ok, you must search for quality girls every mean. Vibration, energy, calmness, good communication with girls are important.