FocusedOnHealth
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You are wrong. Women DO NOT enjoy abuse. They *may have been abused as children, so that when they grow up, they gravitate towards abusive men, because it is what they have been conditioned to receiving as children. But, they DO NOT ENJOY IT.
That is sick.
And for you to say so is flat out wrong.
I was just explaining to someone else that strength and abuse are two different things altogether.No I don't mix up, strength may get you some points as a potential service if a woman needs a man to "bodyguard" her, for example if she lives in a dangerous neighborhood, but in itself strength is not attractive to women. And sorry if what I say hurts your feelings.
This is what I wrote: “
“An abusive man may be perceived as having more power because he just plainly doesn’t care what others think. But it is a callous attitude of not caring. Not a “confident” attitude of not caring.
Theres a BIG difference between confidence and callousness. Confidence is valuing your own opinions and not caving into other’s pressures or opinions.
Callousness is just taking what you want with no disregard for the feelings of others.
You can be kind and confident at the same time. Actually, displaying genuine kindness and confidence in your own value is very very appealing in a man.
Men think that showing genuine kindness is a weakness when in fact, it is a strength because it shows humility and that one is not going to demand something from you, yet confidently stands by their convictions.”