Amazoniac
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Parents and unsacrificed gurus,
Straight away I shall comment that Dutch people will find this thread irrelevant, contrary to those living in some African or Latin American countries. For everyone else, it's up to you, I'll just comment that unfortunately (as you all know) the world is not only made of Dan Wiches and Jennifers. I could've used Sheilas as well, but it occurred to me that there might exist a classy criminal.
The idea is simple and will only take some seconds:
Define a secret emergency term with close people, an unique word that can be picked immediately by the other as soon as you mention it.
Let's say Travis is dating Cecilia.
They define theirs as 'Pineapolis'.
One important point:
Every time you discuss this with others, remind them to not ask for a confirmation. They have to be able to get what's going on right away <finger snap> and play along if needed.
Due to this:
Now a smooth example:
For some it might be difficult to grasp the utility of this, but keep in mind that it's not only appliable to emergencies, codes are employed everywhere. Don't friends use these often when they want to avoid inconvenient people? What about encrypting?
And related, it's common for apparels to replace clear messages for symbols, so people who use them are still expressing themselves and carrying a message that can only be picked by those who understand the meaning.
Subtle communication can be useful, especially in critical situations and something this simple can make a difference.
Straight away I shall comment that Dutch people will find this thread irrelevant, contrary to those living in some African or Latin American countries. For everyone else, it's up to you, I'll just comment that unfortunately (as you all know) the world is not only made of Dan Wiches and Jennifers. I could've used Sheilas as well, but it occurred to me that there might exist a classy criminal.
The idea is simple and will only take some seconds:
Define a secret emergency term with close people, an unique word that can be picked immediately by the other as soon as you mention it.
Let's say Travis is dating Cecilia.
They define theirs as 'Pineapolis'.
One important point:
Every time you discuss this with others, remind them to not ask for a confirmation. They have to be able to get what's going on right away <finger snap> and play along if needed.
Due to this:
- Someone's waiting for me, I'll just send a message cancelling the plan so that it doesn't raise suspicion, ok?
- Hi Cili, I won't be able to meet you at Pineapolis today, we'll rearrange it for another day.
- IS EVERYTHING OK?? Isn't Pineapolis that emergency term???
- Yes, no worries. I'm locked in a room at home with a bunch of mad people pointing guns at me, but they're being cooperative in helping me send you this message asking you to call the police.
- Hi Cili, I won't be able to meet you at Pineapolis today, we'll rearrange it for another day.
- IS EVERYTHING OK?? Isn't Pineapolis that emergency term???
- Yes, no worries. I'm locked in a room at home with a bunch of mad people pointing guns at me, but they're being cooperative in helping me send you this message asking you to call the police.
Now a smooth example:
- Someone's waiting for me, I'll just send a message cancelling the plan so that it doesn't raise suspicion, ok?
- Hi Cili, I won't be able to meet you at Pineapolis today, we'll rearrange it for another day.
- No problem. :) [. . . Brewing 911 . . .] Where are you? [. . . Brewing notes . . .]
- I've just arrived home but will need to finish some work-related stuff for tomorrow.
- :P
- Hi Cili, I won't be able to meet you at Pineapolis today, we'll rearrange it for another day.
- No problem. :) [. . . Brewing 911 . . .] Where are you? [. . . Brewing notes . . .]
- I've just arrived home but will need to finish some work-related stuff for tomorrow.
- :P
For some it might be difficult to grasp the utility of this, but keep in mind that it's not only appliable to emergencies, codes are employed everywhere. Don't friends use these often when they want to avoid inconvenient people? What about encrypting?
And related, it's common for apparels to replace clear messages for symbols, so people who use them are still expressing themselves and carrying a message that can only be picked by those who understand the meaning.
Subtle communication can be useful, especially in critical situations and something this simple can make a difference.
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