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Some of Haidut's most insightful posts have to do with the effects of parents on children....
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Well said. I'm definitely guilty of trying to control my circumstances through exerting control on my body and environment. Having friends with similar childhood experiences, I think this is a really common reaction to trauma.Intellectualizing recovery won't serve you. It's not just about your physical health, these are skills that need to be learned, eating a metabolic diet won't solve your toxic family system.
I've tried all kinds of milk that I could get. Its always the same. What really confused me is that I can eat ice cream without problems...Did you try (raw) A2 milk? Goats, sheep, horse, camel, donkey, buffalo..
Do you have full control over your body or are you still working towards achieving this goal?
You say she wasn’t a bad mother?(19/M)
I‘ve been emotionally and physically abused by mother since I was a child. She wasn’t a bad mother over all, she did a lot to make me happy and I was taken care of.
Unfortunately, I think she’s mentally ill or just has a destroyed gut which made her unleash all her anger and frustration onto me.
I was severely emotionally tortured and insulted, made fun of and told I should have never been born etc.
The typical stuff a stressed parents tells their children. Also physically abused and basically grew up being scared when she’ll have another breakdown.
On top of this my parents divorced when I was 8.. so yeah imagine that, the only person who was always nice and chill (my dad) had to leave the house. Super traumatizing.
Funnily enough whenever I consume raw animal foods, my desire for revenge increases a lot and all i re-experience all the trauma in my head. Drank fermented raw milk yesterday and now all the memories come back.. this always happens.
My questions:
1. What causes a parent to physically and emotionally abuse THEIR OWN child?
2. Why does something like raw milk make me re-experience all the trauma?
I think that is the difference between "empathy" and "compassion".It’s not their fault though. Our parents are also humans who fell into the game and lies of the elite. They’re victims themselves!
Can you summarize how glutamate helps for me real quickWell said. I'm definitely guilty of trying to control my circumstances through exerting control on my body and environment. Having friends with similar childhood experiences, I think this is a really common reaction to trauma.
Also, I hear what people are saying about serotonin being involved in the formation of traumatic memories etc., but I really don't think serotonin is the primary culprit here. I never had anything like acute PTSD symptoms when I had high serotonin, ate something like banana, took SSRI, etc. I recommend OP and perhaps others to search the forum and look up articles on glutamate.
(19/M)
I‘ve been emotionally and physically abused by mother since I was a child. She wasn’t a bad mother over all, she did a lot to make me happy and I was taken care of.
Unfortunately, I think she’s mentally ill or just has a destroyed gut which made her unleash all her anger and frustration onto me.
I was severely emotionally tortured and insulted, made fun of and told I should have never been born etc.
The typical stuff a stressed parents tells their children. Also physically abused and basically grew up being scared when she’ll have another breakdown.
On top of this my parents divorced when I was 8.. so yeah imagine that, the only person who was always nice and chill (my dad) had to leave the house. Super traumatizing.
Funnily enough whenever I consume raw animal foods, my desire for revenge increases a lot and all i re-experience all the trauma in my head. Drank fermented raw milk yesterday and now all the memories come back.. this always happens.
My questions:
1. What causes a parent to physically and emotionally abuse THEIR OWN child?
2. Why does something like raw milk make me re-experience all the trauma?
This. So just forget about it and do have an attitude of "It is what it is". The good side is now you know how your children have to be raised. But it's not enough cause you still can pick a wrong wife, like your father did.Many theories but what I found most helpful was to learn that MNs can never change and will not change.
I have learnt on my own there is no change no matter how much you try to explain this, show that, try that, wait for time to pass, wait for that to happen, etc, after various and various experiences and long time passed and discussions the result is the same.Many theories but what I found most helpful was to learn that MNs can never change and will not change. They always mix in some good with the torture and hide their behavior from outsiders.
This. So just forget about it and do have an attitude of "It is what it is". The good side is now you know how your children have to be raised. But it's not enough cause you still can pick a wrong wife, like your father did.
Also there is something else to point. If that's you on your profile picture, please ditch that rag from your face. It could be a fashion thing, but I doubt you would have choosen this style 2 years ago. It might seem unreleated to the topic but walking with a muzzle arround, certainly has an effect on one's menthal state. I would rather look like a free man than these:
Wearing masks increases c02 levels. That coronavirus was the impetus for universal mask wearing is a bit ridiculous, but I'm happy to wear one in a public honestly.Can you summarize how glutamate helps for me real quick
It increases fungal and bacteria you breath in as well. And the slave mentality indeed.Wearing masks increases c02 levels. That coronavirus was the impetus for universal mask wearing is a bit ridiculous, but I'm happy to wear one in a public honestly.
So wash your mask, get a new one or just don't wear one. I don't suffer slave mentality, that's all in your head.It increases fungal and bacteria you breath in as well. And the slave mentality indeed.