As a Woman, I just can’t relate to other women anymore

[Whichway?]

Jeremiah 1:5
"Before I formed you in your mother’s body I chose you. Before you were born I set you apart to serve me. I appointed you to be a prophet to the nations.”

Luke 1:15
"He will be filled with the Holy Spirit, even from his mother’s womb.”

Luke 1:41
"When Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the baby leaped in her womb. [And she exclaimed], ‘when the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy."

Exodus 21:22
“If men struggle with each other and strike a woman with child so that she gives birth prematurely, yet there is no injury, he shall surely be fined as the woman’s husband may demand of him, and he shall pay as the judges decide. But if there is any further injury, then you shall appoint as a penalty life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.”

What I don’t get about the pro life argument is that many who espouse it seem to think they are dealing with people like themselves.

Many people that go for abortions or should be able to go for them are NOT like you, in any way shape or form. They will bring children into the world, conceived in sin, and born into chaotic, dysfunctional homes, on welfare, with drug or alcohol and violence issues, where the children won’t get Christian morals or values , and won’t see behavior modeled to them that helps them to grow into happy healthy morally virtuous and functioning people. Many grow up in single parent families. So is that part of God’s plan? The ghettos of Chicago and Baltimore Is what you get. Then society has to pick up the tab.

I am Christian, and I can see how preventing abortion in strong predominantly Christian areas where 99% of folks aspire to live in a Christian manner would be the righteous thing to do. But what you espouse is trying to fit that template to the great sinning masses, many of whom will never change and will not raise decent children. Is that what you want, because that is what we are getting.

Having children is a blessing but also a big responsibility. Many fail To live up to the responsibility aspect of it.

 

[haidut]

When this ww3 scenario happense, people will devour eachother rather than thoose that are guilty for it.

I was not trying to advocate punish-the-guilty narrative, sorry if it came across that way. Yes, when WW3 comes most people, us included, are toast. I am just hoping that, just like OP, more and more of the people capable of independent thought/action will wake up to the fact that there is no saving the ~2/3 of the population that adopted fully the transhumanism/digital narrative and trying to relate to them is not just pointless but dangerous, while also wasting precious little time we have left before things really turn ugly. Identify the people capable of living in the real wold, try to build relationships with them, and be wary of the rest as those will not simply leave you alone. As it seems, eternal vigilance is the price of not only freedom but also survival. The founder of Intel used to start all of his Monday staff calls with the saying "only the paranoid survive" He said he used to mean it only in the business sense, but as he got older he thought more and more it applied to life as a whole.

 

[HeyThere]

Y'all can preach and quote bible verse but they will just laugh and scoff.

You need to somehow get images or video of an abortion to their eyes and brain. They are in full denial mode.

 

[haidut]

In women IQ is highly correlated with social maladjustment aka outcast and lonely because the low IQ ones hate her.

Not only in women. Both men and women with high IQ tend to be outcasts, "misfits", loners, and considered to be the "black sheep" of their respective families (if they have not been already "cancelled" by the family).

 

[InChristAlone]

What I don’t get about the pro life argument is that many who espouse it seem to think they are dealing with people like themselves.

Many people that go for abortions or should be able to go for them are NOT like you, in any way shape or form. They will bring children into the world, conceived in sin, and born into chaotic, dysfunctional homes, on welfare, with drug or alcohol and violence issues, where the children won’t get Christian morals or values , and won’t see behavior modeled to them that helps them to grow into happy healthy morally virtuous and functioning people. Many grow up in single parent families. So is that part of God’s plan? The ghettos of Chicago and Baltimore Is what you get. Then society has to pick up the tab.

I am Christian, and I can see how preventing abortion in strong predominantly Christian areas where 99% of folks aspire to live in a Christian manner would be the righteous thing to do. But what you espouse is trying to fit that template to the great sinning masses, many of whom will never change and will not raise decent children. Is that what you want, because that is what we are getting.

Having children is a blessing but also a big responsibility. Many fail To live up to the responsibility aspect of it.

That's why I say make adoption easier. They make it so hard to adopt. And Christians are the ones adopting.

The problem with your line of thinking is that's basically the reason Planned Parenthood was started. Make the well off people the ones to procreate and kill off the ones that are not deemed viable to society. Eugenics.

 

[Blossom]

The cult of the Left does this to everyone. And in an over the top, nasty way. I think it shows lack of self-respect to let them "get away with it" by joining in and siupporting their insanity. This isn't small potatoes anymore; we are in a cultural war.

I’m not advocating joining in and supporting anyone’s insanity but just trying to be a good, kind and caring example of love and acceptance of their humanity. I think this is sorely lacking today and maybe some have never experienced it at all. If it doesn’t work at least I’ve tried.

 

[generalbill]

I discovered and started listening to Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube after my girlfriend and I broke up this May. He has some good advice for men about how to lead a woman in a relationship and avoid drama. I see many healthy women out there, but I suspect that many of them end up marrying earlier in life.

 

[area51puy]

The cult of the Left does this to everyone. And in an over the top, nasty way. I think it shows lack of self-respect to let them "get away with it" by joining in and siupporting their insanity. This isn't small potatoes anymore; we are in a cultural war.

therr has always been a culture wars, the culture wars the past 50 years have been push by elites to give power to multinational corporations and was started with the southern strategy with Nixon. Regan used religion and abortion and guns, that’s why Fox News and rightwing radio were started to the right voting on culture issues and to ignore economic issues, the left has really co-opted especially the past 10 years to primarily focus on wedge issues like race , gay rights , trans rights etc , on social media platforms like the right used Fox News and rightwing radio. This all to distract the public so they don’t notice things like during the start of Covid in 2020 when wallstreet received a 5 trillion dollar bailout which was the greatest transfer of wealth in human history to the richest 4000 people in the world.

Unless many people wake up on both sides and realize they played for fools we will see the end of America while the elites take their trillions across the world and America turns into a ***t hole with 300 million guns and absolute poverty.

 

[area51puy]

Y'all can preach and quote bible verse but they will just laugh and scoff.

You need to somehow get images or video of an abortion to their eyes and brain. They are in full denial mode.

Many on the right were pro life and pro war , they banned videos of soldiers coming off airplanes in coffins, now imagine videos every night on the news showing soldiers being blown to pieces, videos all the dead children and civilians with their heads and limbs blown off. Grieving mothers crying over dead bodies.

The gop elites do not care about abortion, they used it to give money and power to pharmaceutical , military and wallstreet.

 

[HeyThere]

Many on the right were pro life and pro war , they banned videos of soldiers coming off airplanes in coffins, now imagine videos every night on the news showing soldiers being blown to pieces, videos all the dead children and civilians with their heads and limbs blown off. Grieving mothers crying over dead bodies.

The gop elites do not care about abortion, they used it to give money and power to pharmaceutical , military and wallstreet.

I'm talking about the Liberals who think they are just "removing cells" no matter what month their pregnancy is in.

 

[Hugh Johnson]

As they say in psychotherapy, the first step is admitting we have a problem. You'd be surprised how many "normies" would fight you viciously if you even suggest something is amiss with our relationships as humans and society as a whole. Both men and women..if we can even call them that any longer, considering the mass transgenderism fueled by the endocrine poisoning we all endure on a daily basis.

Record numbers of Western citizens identify as LGBTQ

The study is actually about the US, but other studies show the numbers for other "developed" countries are at least as high. Here is a study that compared the US to other countries...

raypeatforum.com

So, I welcome the OP sharing her experience. Not because it is about women. Men are experiencing the same alienation among themselves, and towards women. I welcome it because unless a sufficient number of people realize the collapse is here and destroying them and people right next to them, they won't move a finger. In another thread @Hugh Johnson said not to encourage panic. It was in regards to the vaccines and social measures related to them. I responded that panic is the only thing that may cause an urge to move in today's society, and I still stand by that claim. So, the more panicked people share their experiences about their utter alienation towards their fellow humans the more likely it is a critical mass of resistance to this abomination will form. Panic-induced action is not always coherent, but it is primal and effective and better than people passively monitoring from their homes how the powers that be are about to take us through another "pandemic" and then probably into WW3 (considering they lost the war in Ukraine and the economic war against BRICS).

Fear causes people to cling to authorities, and to become rigid and stupid. A healthy population can use anger to change things. This is not a healthy population. This population needs hope, a better way, a feeling of safety and support.

 

[Brandin]

I can’t relate to other women in today’s modern society. And I am a woman. Seems collectively, women today have taken pills that make them literally insane. I really do think it’s a spiritual issue. Women have lost touch with who they are…we are women. We are supposed to be feminine. The fairer sex. loving our offspring. loving our husbands. Nurturing.

How can they not see that all their repulsive screaming and demanding and acting like idiots will get them nowhere but disrespect?

Seems other women are just miserable, like they hate themselves. Self loathing. They believe the medias lies, the tel- lie-vision’s lies. What they are taught in their indoctrination centers called higher education. They are never happy. I don’t think they even know what they are so angry about. But they are furious. Really, as a woman, I don’t belong on the same planet as them.

They are proud of being massively huge. Like it just doesn’t matter how they look. Or they act like whores on social media, showing everything they’ve got. Act like a whore, you will be treated like one. I don’t get it. I really don’t.

These lost women see nothing wrong in murdering another human being, their unborn child, who deserves to live just as much as they do.

The only women I now choose to be friends with, all think like I do. They all value things that modern women despise. I’m quite happy to have a small exclusive group of likeminded friends. I don’t mind that I’m the minority.

I don’t think I am better than these women, but I don’t understand them, I don’t support them and I don’t want to be around them.

I really can understand how bad it is for men today. That’s not giving men a free pass either. Many have porn addictions that lead to warped, unrealistic and reprobate expectations. And they are taught to be irresponcible. But how women act today, doesn’t help.

Women used to be the moral keepers for society as a whole. I’m not talking religionista uptight humorless women who are negative karen gestapo crews who are rude and get in your face over the smallest things.. But women who just have self dignity and common sense. And don’t fall for the disgusting societal lies.

And who actually like themselves.

Maybe that’s what we need. A movement of women who have the moral fortitude to stand up to these screaming, demanding mee mees, by just being decent, wholesome, healthy individuals, and rejecting their hysterical demands.

Yes this! thanks Females become demons when high estrogen no joke...

 

[Perry Staltic]

Many people that go for abortions or should be able to go for them are NOT like you, in any way shape or form. They will bring children into the world, conceived in sin, and born into chaotic, dysfunctional homes, on welfare, with drug or alcohol and violence issues, where the children won’t get Christian morals or values , and won’t see behavior modeled to them that helps them to grow into happy healthy morally virtuous and functioning people. Many grow up in single parent families. So is that part of God’s plan? The ghettos of Chicago and Baltimore Is what you get. Then society has to pick up the tab.

Society's broken. There are many, many people who want to adopt, but are hindered or prevented from doing so by government regulations. Adoption could be incentivized and the problem would largely go away or be reduced significantly. It would be cheaper than lifetime welfare and crime culture. But government doesn't want a solution because that would eliminate it's power base of people dependent on them.

 

[Perry Staltic]

I'm talking about the Liberals who think they are just "removing cells" no matter what month their pregnancy is in.

A lot of them view a fetus as a parasite.

 

[Peatness]

@FocusedOnHealth, I understand how you feel. I didn’t have any female friends to speak of from age 20-45 and didn’t want any. I was pretty miserable.

About 7 years ago I realized it wasn’t other women that bothered me but what the world had done to us/how we had (in some cases) let the world change us. It became pretty clear there was an agenda to divide people so I consciously tried to change my outlook towards others in general and women in particular.

I have several close female friends now that I have bonded with and they are all different than me in many ways and it has greatly enriched my life and I hope theirs too.

Each of us has been broken in different ways and react to those situations uniquely. We are all swimming in the same muck so to speak and the only thing I know to do about it is try my best to no longer judge my sisters (or brothers) and be kind to them.

I go with my elderly neighbor lady to women’s group once a week because it means a lot to her. There was a brouhaha over roe v wade last week and I honestly considered not going with her anymore but decided the loving thing to do would be to continue to support her and not be offended by those other women who feel differently than I do.

Sometimes it’s hard but putting myself out there because I’m an introvert but in the end I think isolating myself like I used to do would be much worse and lonelier.

I too hope you are able to find some women friends. The only way we can fight this division is to start with ourselves and work outward in our own families and communities.

Thank you Blossom. As always you bring compassion when it’s most needed. As someone who grew up with amazing females friends I can honestly say I was blessed to have known those friends. Sadly, not all of those friendships have lasted. However, they informed who I am today. I now understand how our society has been corrupted by the globalists and their evil agendas. After 9/11 I lost a few friends. After Brexit I lost a few more. During covid I lost 2 close friends. I see a pattern.

They’ve succeeded in dividing us but we can take our power back. If we don’t the next generation will one day ask us why we didn’t save them.

 

[HeyThere]

Fear causes people to cling to authorities

Some, yes. Over all, Liberals tend to look at the president and their leaders as their father figure and family members who take care of them. Pay attention and you'll see I'm right, this is a big part of why Liberals vote emotionally. The twisted thing is, liberals believe the pre-election lies, and never, ever speak out afterwards how their elected leaders never do things to support the ones who oelected them.

 

[haidut]

This is not a healthy population.

Agreed 100%...and in a population like that the usual tactics of trying to steer them with positive messages do not work. Just look at the "success" rates of AA and drug counselling. However, inducing panic does sometimes work. When the alcoholics or drug abusers are told "one more shot of X and you are dead!" they often get sober. Not a high percentage but orders of magnitude higher than the percentage (~0%) that get sober through the normal sessions of counselling/positivity.
About 2/3 of Western people have simply lost it and the problem (after decades of deliberate assault) is now physiological/endocrine, with the culture/perception as a "metabolite". These people are not low on hope, they have quite a bit of hope...that the system will crush people like us and they will finally have their transhumanism dream come true. It actually makes (sick) sense, b/c to people with such compromised health transhumanism is the only (false) hope for survival.

 

[Hugh Johnson]

Some, yes. Over all, Liberals tend to look at the president and their leaders as their father figure and family members who take care of them. Pay attention and you'll see I'm right, this is a big part of why Liberals vote emotionally. The twisted thing is, liberals believe the pre-election lies, and never, ever speak out afterwards how their elected leaders never do things to support the ones who oelected them.

The so called conservatives, who conserve nothing btw, are no less emotional or incoherent.

Agreed 100%...and in a population like that the usual tactics of trying to steer them with positive messages do not work. Just look at the "success" rates of AA and drug counselling. However, inducing panic does sometimes work. When the alcoholics or drug abusers are told "one more shot of X and you are dead!" they often get sober. Not a high percentage but orders of magnitude higher than the percentage (~0%) that get sober through the normal sessions of counselling/positivity.
About 2/3 of Western people have simply lost it and the problem (after decades of deliberate assault) is now physiological/endocrine, with the culture/perception as a "metabolite". These people are not low on hope, they have quite a bit of hope...that the system will crush people like us and they will finally have their transhumanism dream come true. It actually makes (sick) sense, b/c to people with such compromised health transhumanism is the only (false) hope for survival.

Terrible comparison. Stopping drinking is extremely simple and requires you doing literally nothing.

Changing a society or even yourself is extremely complex, and is drawn out iterative process. Panic can not sustain it. It can not even get it started because there is no organisation nor a clear direction for most people. They'll just vote for conman like Trump, or worse.

 

[akgrrrl]

Agreed 100%...and in a population like that the usual tactics of trying to steer them with positive messages do not work. Just look at the "success" rates of AA and drug counselling. However, inducing panic does sometimes work. When the alcoholics or drug abusers are told "one more shot of X and you are dead!" they often get sober. Not a high percentage but orders of magnitude higher than the percentage (~0%) that get sober through the normal sessions of counselling/positivity.
About 2/3 of Western people have simply lost it and the problem (after decades of deliberate assault) is now physiological/endocrine, with the culture/perception as a "metabolite". These people are not low on hope, they have quite a bit of hope...that the system will crush people like us and they will finally have their transhumanism dream come true. It actually makes (sick) sense, b/c to people with such compromised health transhumanism is the only (false) hope for survival.

This.is.exactly.where.we.are.

 

[haidut]

Stopping drinking is extremely simple and requires you doing literally nothing.

Do you really believe that? What about drugs? Is quitting them as simple as doing nothing? Why are ~100% of all alcoholics/addicts in treatment/counselling relapsing and ultimately regressing even more? The issue of "addiction", as with any learned helplessness, is not simply a state of mind that you can somehow magically snap out of. It is lack of energy, and no amount of positivity will change that for the better. I would certainly much rather prefer a "shot" of energy, instead of shock, into the arm of every zombified normie around me, but I don't see how that can materialize. Until the physiology is changed, the mind will remain imprisoned. The only realistic hope is that if those people get scared for their very existence they may do something about it. Yes, the majority will do something stupid, but a certain percentage won't and will get back to reality. The time for reforming the system has long passed. It is now time to let it collapse and work with the ones that survive to rebuild it anew.
Btw, this is really not just my position. The leaders of Russia, China, India, and most of the Global South are of the same opinion, as discussed with @yerrag in a few other threads. Not b/c they have realized that they cannot deal with the "leaders" of the West, but because they have realized the majority of the Western population is on board with the abominations of the WEF and their Great Reset.