Do you mean if you are the queen he is the king? I'm pretty sure that's what you mean to. Being the queen wth a prince sounds very Oedipal.
Exactly what I thought when I wrote it. He was my prince from the very first I met him. He has always been my prince. To call him my king implies that we that we have aged. However, time and space is irrelevant because we feel eternally youthful. He doesn't see that I have aged. He still sees me as the youthful girl he first met and constantly reminds me that my face has not lined through the passage of the years. He always greets me with "how's my sexy wife going?" To me he is still a boy - Peter Pan and I am his Wendy.
"Seduction" where feminism is stripping women of any real power because in some contexts subtle power is more effective than explicit power. Being the voice in your husbands ear about the future value of properties is one example. It's somehow steering the reins while someone else holds them.
@seraphim you captured it perfectly. Yes subtle power is more effective than explicit power. You are so intuitive and describe it so succinctly "steering the reins while someone else holds them." I have learnt to do this with my children. Not always easy with head strong individuals. No need to bash them over the head. You always make them think that they are fully in control of their decision making while gently coaxing them in the direction that you know is best for them.