Acceptance And Hope For Young People Who Prematurely Aged

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Hello Im a 19 year old man who(for the past year or so) is suffering from constipation which led up to hairloss which led up to loss of morning wood and a vast change of erectile frequency and genital aesthetic which I was never used to. What was the cause of this? Well there is no 1 cause of anything but a great influencer of this was my time on urine therapy and the back and forth conflicts I had with my father. I believe their was an overabundance of stress hormones in the urine and it caused me some metabolic and endrocrine changes. Perhaps also my diet contributed while i was doing urinetherapy but most likely above all causes was my mind state. It pains me to not hear health enthusiasts on this page talk about the persons mind set and only about what to eat and what to avoid as the main source of his/her health problems.
Well anyway i've always been told since I was a child that I was a negative person and I think this carried on greatly throughout my teen years and to hypen that mind state up when I was 11 I saw my father with gynocamastia which freaked me the hell out. The problem wasnt really my dad perse but most 11 year olds I think would laugh or make jokes I instead thought differently. It to me looked uncomfortable for a man to have that look so I became anxious took it seriously and thought I would end up like that if certain precautions werent made. Luckily being a child you are naturally in the moment so your traumas don't cripple you as much daily but they can last. Throughout my high school years I would constantly think about aging and how to be more alpha. I was never too dietary concious and would contantly consume high pufa foods like cheese chips, pb&j sandwiches, nutella sandwhiches. From 14-17 my d*ck got hard as the wind blew erections were what I always loved and cherish and boy did it make me feel great. Funny thing is that I never used to jerk off. I would also like to mention that I was a heavy conspiracy theorist and probably looked at too much mature information that I wasnt ready to handle. So with all this mental clutter I finally got into the urine therapy at age 17. I always thought that I had stunted growth since my dad was 6ft2 and I was 5ft 10 so I thought the hormones in the pp would make me taller. I definitely had some insecurities and neurotic patterns. throught my senior year I owuld do calisthenic workouts nearly everyday I ended up with my eyebrows falling out(Theyre still thick and long tho ;) ) That was the first sign of increased cortisol which hairloss is always linked to.
Well thats my story there are more things I would like to add but I think I wrote enough. So my advice for young men who have hairloss or any other metabolic symtoms or even a cluster of them which I had. Listen many of you are probably going through a lot of shock and nervousness which is understandable but really there is no perfect diet. I think the cure to our solution is to try to be 100% at one with yourself. I know for a fact I was not at tune with myself and likely if I had just laughed at my dad for having moobs and slept a bit longer during highschool I probably wouldnt even be in this situation. For diet I would definitely recommended the Ray peat diet since its geared toward producing energy which a young male who is constipated or balding definitely lacks. More Importantly figure out non dietary changes to improve your health the biggest ones being sunlight, sleep, mental clarity/focus. I had poor sun exposure growing up, poor sleep at 16-17, and my mind is almost never as ease. However these are the thing I will work on and everyone else on this thread works on aswell.
 

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You're not the only one, and you're still extremely young, you can recover from anything you went through, because until 25 there's a lot of development taking place.

I'm 28 now, I was well during my teenage years despite family troubles, because I played a lot of sports and had a good friend group and support system, but at 21 I also lost nearly my hair during a span of a few months, and became extremely depressed, had to deal with grief and deaths in the family, and was completely disoriented in life. I managed to regroup and get better for a few years, but I was always tired and diminished, and relapsed again with extreme illness by my mid20s.

I like to think I'm recovering now, but it's always better to catch these things early. Get sunshine, eat natural, easy to digest foods, take care of your body, stay close to your friends, have healthy sexual relationships (no porn), take some time to figure out things you like and what to accomplish instead of rushing into things. Enjoy every moment, because it can always get worse, and life can get hard in a hurry.
 
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You're not the only one, and you're still extremely young, you can recover from anything you went through, because until 25 there's a lot of development taking place.

I'm 28 now, I was well during my teenage years despite family troubles, because I played a lot of sports and had a good friend group and support system, but at 21 I also lost nearly my hair during a span of a few months, and became extremely depressed, had to deal with grief and deaths in the family, and was completely disoriented in life. I managed to regroup and get better for a few years, but I was always tired and diminished, and relapsed again with extreme illness by my mid20s.

I like to think I'm recovering now, but it's always better to catch these things early. Get sunshine, eat natural, easy to digest foods, take care of your body, stay close to your friends, have healthy sexual relationships (no porn), take some time to figure out things you like and what to accomplish instead of rushing into things. Enjoy every moment, because it can always get worse, and life can get hard in a hurry.
Thanks for the reply. Hope you continue strong.
 

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