Interesting, for some reason i always assumed you are eating lots of fruits :)My issue is different from yours as I have an aldolase b deficiency, but I have found milk that hasn't been ultra pasteurized digests really well and doesn't result in the symptoms I get from fructose ( I think high heat can turn lactose into a fructose like substance ).
I dont eat any plants at all actually and get all my carbohydrates from milk. With the absorption issue you will want to watch out for fructan like substances as well, wheat is an example of a food that might be low in fructose, but has fructans that might cause symptoms.
I dont really have any advice other than eliminating foods that cause issues, and then avoiding them, which is rather straight forward and obvious. Wish I could offer a solution, sorry.
Best of luck!
Your posts inspired me to go starch free (i am for 5 months), but i am dairy free and getting carbs from fruits and honey (no white sugar)